Why Akshara should say sorry for Neil - Page 3

Akshara is just someone who just want everyone to pamper and flock around her.

During the first tilak, she remained quite while her family keep on questioning Abhimanyu's character while I don't want or expect her to declare her love for her but both her and her sister let a guy character being questioned but it was not seen in bad light because it was the guy whose character was point of ridicule and the girl family was doing it and the fl is bechari.

While if we reverse the situation, if the guy family was questioning the character of FL and the guy remains mute, it would have been a halla bol movement.

Following the characterstics, she never felt sorry or apologised for it but then again, she did not even apologise to Manjiri or any of the Birla family when she and her sister did a DUI of MJ.

Also her leap 1 behaviour was once again questionable, like she is roaming free, hiring pvt detectives, opening a shop but can't contact her husband and then come back and blame him for having trust issues when he has believed every word she has said lol.

And then comes her pregnancy- it was highly risky and complicated but instead of taking extra care, she was doing extra ninja hatori stunts.

First following the kid in the forest- she was not even knowledgeable enough to leave marks and then cry.

Then stunt with Neil and saving girls- while its a very brave and heroic thing to do, she went wrong with calculating the dangers and also what else safe measure they could follow.

Abhimanyu in the show or any Abhi stan that I know of has ever said that it was wrong to save the girls- even Abhimanyu on white day asked- was that the only option? No other options were available? The police was 10 minutes away- 10 minutes! If they started moving, follow the truck because c'mon, you are inciting one person to go fight dozens of goons.

And then many make the point that Neil was an adult and he made the decision-

Well for the record, he wanted to wait for the police but Akshara constant push, manipulation and saying she will herself go and fight the goons that led to him take the decision to get down and fight.

He could not let his bhabhi, who just had very painful cramps and have complicated pregnancy go and fight.

He was stupid to get down and go fight- he payed the price! He is dead, with what more can he pay the price with?

And Akshara never said she was sorry!! Like MJ when first slapped and blamed Abhi and then AK, Abhi stood in front of MJ, controlling her.

And during funeral, when she was shaken up and could not hold the glass of water, he offered her and asked her to go upstairs and rest with Swarna but she did not listen.

And she came down- Aarohi aur MJ se sympathy aur saath chahiye tha usko.

And then when that did not happen, she went upstairs and started listening to Neil's voice on speaker.

When Abhi came in the room, he was quiet but she started her- meri koi galti nahi thi, mera intention nahi tha and even when he asked her ki koi aur tareeka nahi tha bachane ka, she was like, Abhi tum nahi samjh rahe ho.

And his last question to Akshara was- agar tumhe kuch ho jaata toh

Aree bhai wo kaise samjhega aur kyu?

For me, his timing of the confrontation and divorce was wrong. He lost it with timing but he was also provoked and cornered. That does not justify what he did but reasoned with what he did. Till that day, he was gulping down every stupidity, pain and being over cautious but that day he lost his everything and even then he was expected to pamper and comfort her

Just out of basic courtesy and respect even, yes she should. Not to Manjiri though. Manjiri sucks and doesn't deserve anything imo.

Originally posted by: Krinya

When did I say akshara shouldn't apologize ? I asked why would she apologize to manJari? I'm not changing the topic , I'm agreeing to you that akshara owes an apology but not to manjari.

Manjari called abhinav a thief for stealing her pota . She went mental when abhir wrote abhir abhinav Sharma. Obviously she has no regard for relations formed by love and affection..legal or illegal is a moot argument . When she has been acting like a hypocrite all along ,not able to understand anybodys pain why should anyone acknowledge hers ?

Then let's talk about Akshara apologizing to them.

Maybe we can discuss the later part in some other thread or create one dedicated to Manjari and her stupid statements.

I genuinely don't take her words seriously so

Originally posted by: chaipaani

What happened with Neil we all know. How it happened we all know. Yes Neil was an adult but somewhere the zid of Akshara and her getting hyper that they should do something quickly led to what happened to Neil.

Not what Happened actually he Died. A family lost the son, AbhiM lost his younger brother, Aaruhi her husband, Ruhi her father.

I am not saying that Akshara killed Neil and WD is justified but she is responsible.

I genuinely feel that Akshara for once should say sorry to the Birla family, Manjari and Aaruhi specially. This might give a little peace to all of them.

Here is an example of basic courtesy:

Suppose X person is driving the car and Y is sitting next to them they both met with an accident. Both not at fault but Y died.

It's very natural for X to once say sorry for your loss to Y's family.

Let say Y's family is blaming X. Still X can say I am so so sorry for your loss Y was equally important to me if not more but i am not at fault even though I despite the moment we decided to go for the ride only if things didn't happen the way it did. I am sorry.

Making fun of AbhiM for mentioning Neil. i am shocked they are mostly the ones talking about Akshara's pain on WD and all. Is Akshara the only human in show only she is allowed to be angry, to feel emotions?

I hope Akshara soon realises that what others too lost coz of her actions. Yes she didn't Kill Neil but she led him towards his death.

And I hope Manjari too realises the impact of words on others and tone herself down.

Don't wish to be the one to say it

But the truth is....AK will never apologize. She is thick as a rock. She will break but don't bend. She thinks because she gave birth to a child....all her tantrums will be tolerated because now she can use Abhir as a tool..which to some extend she is already doing

I think ak need to apologize to neil,arohi,roohi and harsh if he is present because for their loss….But she shouldn’t apologize to someone who blames her as murder still after 6 years ….i think arohi understood that point that ak is not responsible she is mature enough to understand things….manjiri the dida is grownup she wants everything according to her and can speak her mind off with no filter mouth…and she is still accusing ak for murder how should she apologize to her it’s like accepting that she murdered neil…then want manjiri wants her punishment in jail or hang her will ak have to accept it too without her fault…it was unintentional so apology for guilt ,sympathy,empathy,support and her involvement is okay but apology to person screaming murder on her face is like accepting she did it

Originally posted by: chaipaani

What she thinks of them, if she is involved with another man or not, whose wife she is, whose mother she is, whose ex wife etc etc she is doesn't matter.

Neil died she was involved. She is partially responsible. Sorry doesn't mean hey AbhiM let's get married again.

Sorry means I understand that because of me you lost someone special.

She can simply say I don't even care if you accept my apology or not, what you think, if you still blame me and what Abhimanyu did to me was not justified but still I am sorry that somewhere because of my and Neil's decision he died. I regret his death too he was special to me as well.

I wish things did not happen how it.

Your comment exactly describe Akshara's state of my mind. Main toh khush hun apne life mein mere ko kya tumhra bhai mar gya toh. This behaviour is inhumane too. Unapologetic.

As Abhimanyu's behaviour isn't justified that day and somewhere he is still paying for his mistakes.

Similarly no matter what no doesn't change the fact that Neil died, Akshara was part responsible and she refuses to accept her role in the whole mishap.

Akshara wasn’t wrong that day. Most she could is regret the loss of her brother like devar, which she had already done. Apology is out of question. And why should Akshara apologise for an incident which was out of her control. I would have understood this repeated demand for apology, if Akshara had asked Neil to go out and fight the goons, she didn’t.

She also suffered loss that day. She is also a victim.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

I think ak need to apologize to neil,arohi,roohi and harsh if he is present because for their loss….But she shouldn’t apologize to someone who blames her as murder still after 6 years ….i think arohi understood that point that ak is not responsible she is mature enough to understand things….manjiri the dida is grownup she wants everything according to her and can speak her mind off with no filter mouth…and she is still accusing ak for murder how should she apologize to her it’s like accepting that she murdered neil…then want manjiri wants her punishment in jail or hang her will ak have to accept it too without her fault…it was unintentional so apology for guilt ,sympathy,empathy,support and her involvement is okay but apology to person screaming murder on her face is like accepting she did it

AK needs to apologise to the whole Birla family.

Apologies doesn't work on conditions.

Originally posted by: Sherlockian

Akshara wasn’t wrong that day. Most she could is regret the loss of her brother like devar, which she had already done. Apology is out of question. And why should Akshara apologise for an incident which was out of her control. I would have understood this repeated demand for apology, if Akshara had asked Neil to go out and fight the goons, she didn’t.

She also suffered loss that day. She is also a victim. This constant refrain to put blame on a woman for just being there is nothing but victim shaming and misogyny ingrained deep into our psyche.

@bold someone commented exactly what happened that day. You can re-watch the episode again.

She literally asked him to go and fight.

No she didn’t. I have seen the clips. But will check again so that there is no room for misunderstanding.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

AK needs to apologise to the whole Birla family.

Apologies doesn't work on conditions.

same ways manjiri wanting her back to have happy family and blaming her for murder …then .y this be conditional?