Why Akshara should say sorry for Neil - Page 4

When abhim or manjiri r ready to accept ak back and proposed is in different situations then y did this apology not remember…..when she rejected then this murder and apology came back…..y this is based on manjiri favor for everything

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I re-watched it too and Hence made this post.

Her impulsiveness took Neil's life and here her attitude is choti si galati.

Atleast learn that before taking such actions consequences k baare sochlena hai.

And then to see how we defend this with another counter arguments is funny.

No matter what they say. This happened and Akshara was involved atleast accept your role in it. Tell AbhiM that he was wrong that day and she isn't that bad a person but she is sorry. Basic courtesy.

To even say she is happy married to the man she loves why should she apologies to her ex and his family. Cause she was the reason her ex and his family lost a son for that. How hard it is. How is moving on is at all related to it.

With this logic if Abhimanyu moves on then doesn't matter Akshara Abhir lives or died that day. He has moved and his happy with the new wife.

Seriously 🤣

U know Manjari when she knew about Akshara going to concert was only and only concerned about her well being and her babies.. and that when she knew she was critical why is she taking a risk when she promised.. that promise was emphasized so much by Abhi and Manjari..if you keep aside extreme actions of Abhi keep them aside for a.minute..what he was focussed was on why don't u listen to me...what was need for you to be reckless ...why did u put Neil..you and our children at risk...you always do what you feel like..then mess up and I have to clean your mess. Which is true..and this was after that khera leap. Their relationship hadn't strengthened even when they got back together..that anger trust issues were not resolved...and if you see this statement for may be 10 times put in his head...by everyone...why did Akshara have to take that stupid decision and why did she go to concert when she promised..she didn't have logical answers except those girls need help

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

same ways manjiri wanting her back to have happy family and blaming her for murder …then .y this be conditional?

Manjari k bolne se that they deserve a second chance no one died.

How is these two scenes are comparable.

Neil Died Someone is no more coz Akshara was impulsive.

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

U know Manjari when she knew about Akshara going to concert was only and only concerned about her well being and her babies.. and that when she knew she was critical why is she taking a risk when she promised.. that promise was emphasized so much by Abhi and Manjari..if you keep aside extreme actions of Abhi keep them aside for a.minute..what he was focussed was on why don't u listen to me...what was need for you to be reckless ...why did u put Neil..you and our children at risk...you always do what you feel like..then mess up and I have to clean your mess. Which is true..and this was after that khera leap. Their relationship hadn't strengthened even when they got back together..that anger trust issues were not resolved...and if you see this statement for may be 10 times put in his head...by everyone...why did Akshara have to take that stupid decision and why did she go to concert when she promised..she didn't have logical answers except those girls need help

Yes it's been so long that people have forgotten the finest details.

I think makers might bring that back coz they made sure to execute in a way that these two were at fault it's not like ML did something horrible to FL out of nowhere or some misunderstandings.

FL actions drove him to that reaction (still what he did was wrong moreover the timings were bad)

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

When abhim or manjiri r ready to accept ak back and proposed is in different situations then y did this apology not remember…..when she rejected then this murder and apology came back…..y this is based on manjiri favor for everything

Read my post again

I mentioned that regardless of the things this apology might bring peace to all. To be honest more than Birla's Akshara needs this.

Her diverting the topic today is again her way of not facing her faults.

The first step to healing is accepting your self your mistakes your flaws.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Yes it's been so long that people have forgotten the finest details.

I think makers might bring that back coz they made sure to execute in a way that these two were at fault it's not like ML did something horrible to FL out of nowhere or some misunderstandings.

FL actions drove him to that reaction (still what he did was wrong moreover the timings were bad)

You know from a personal incident from my family..my close relative lost her young 20 year old son..she was totally out of her senses when she saw body...she pushed everyone who was trying to calm her that you guys are lying to me..how can you all hurt me like that..she blamed doctors that they messed up..then blamed herself and this is part of grief .sometimes denial sometimes anger..a person isn't even in their senses ..to judge them or expect anything out of them..you can't even expect any sort of logical reaction from person that time out of extreme emotions...there was a show I have seen in which in kid got killed by gun his father who was policeman accidentally forgot to lock...female lead divorces him and goes totally in depression and blames him every single time sees him.hates him..I think losing a child there is nothing more painful than that...I so wish this show was little more complex with heart and instead of caricatures it showed real characters who were human..and deal with emotions better. White day is not ONLY about Aksharas pain or blame..it is about pain of everyone involved.

Originally posted by: Sherlockian

Akshara wasn’t wrong that day. Most she could is regret the loss of her brother like devar, which she had already done. Apology is out of question. And why should Akshara apologise for an incident which was out of her control. I would have understood this repeated demand for apology, if Akshara had asked Neil to go out and fight the goons, she didn’t.

She also suffered loss that day. She is also a victim. This constant refrain to put blame on a woman for just being there is nothing but victim shaming and misogyny ingrained deep into our psyche.

Just forgot to add one thing repeated demand of apology cause AK never apologized.

Even AbhiM mentioned Neil to Akshara first time today.

And see the difference between them.

Atleast AbhiM while leaving was like sorry for bringing Seerat topic. At that moment Abhimanyu was not even like demanding her back or anything he just simply state that he is sorry

Akshara ne toh aj tak us tone mein bhi Sorry nahi bola.

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

You know from a personal incident from my family..my close relative lost her young 20 year old son..she was totally out of her senses when she saw body...she pushed everyone who was trying to calm her that you guys are lying to me..how can you all hurt me like that..she blamed doctors that they messed up..then blamed herself and this is part of grief .sometimes denial sometimes anger..a person isn't even in their senses ..to judge them or expect anything out of them..you can't even expect any sort of logical reaction from person that time out of extreme emotions...there was a show I have seen in which in kid got killed by gun his father who was policeman accidentally forgot to lock...female lead divorces him and goes totally in depression and blames him every single time sees him.hates him..I think losing a child there is nothing more painful than that...I so wish this show was little more complex with heart and instead of caricatures it showed real characters who were human..and deal with emotions better. White day is not ONLY about Aksharas pain or blame..it is about pain of everyone involved.

Exactly. For months i supported Akshara understanding her pain from WD onwards but it's high time now Akshara to realises that others were in pain too

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

Akshara's intention wasn't wrong. She just wanted to help those girls but her way of helping is questionable.

She initiated that dumb decision of going to concert scene, when she had high risk pregnancy & was completely unarmed. Neil asked her to inform police & then he suggested to go back to Birla House. But she emotionally manipulated by saying " Mein Khud ko maaf nahi kar paungi " ..

More than what happened that day, what happened after that pisses me off..She absolutely has zero guilt for whatever happened that day.. Neil's statement "Bhabhi hum kar hi kya sakte hai, ghar chalte hai " should haunt her for life.

She dragged Neil to that situation & Neil went there because he was protecting Akshara.. When Neil went out to fight with the goons, she was sitting inside the car & I was like behen, agar car mein hi baithe rehna tha to waha gayi kyu... She came out of the car only when Neil was about to die.

Neil kept doing things that Akshara wanted to do because he was protecting Akshara.. Neil died while saving Akshara, not even NGO girls.. And eventually it was police who came on the right time & saved Akshara & NGO girls..

Neil's life was sacrificed for Akshara's stubbornness & dumb decision when eventually it was police who saved NGO girls & Akshara. .. Neil died while protecting his bhabhi & she has absolutely zero guilt about it.

Even on white day, Abhimanyu said the same thing that her intention was not wrong but her way of helping was definitely wrong. And still she shamelessly keeps saying "meri kya galati hai ".

Akshara didn't kill Neil but she is directly responsible for the incidents that lead to Neil's death... There is something called survivor's guilt which is absolutely missing in her..

When Aarohi said Akshara that Abhir is lucky to have 2 fathers but Roohi has none, there should have been some guilt & remorse on her face but she is so insensitive that she didn't even flinch for a second. How insensitively she keeps saying "Neil mar gaya", " meri kya galati hai " , "chhoti si galati "

She must apologize to Manjiri, Aarohi & Roohi specially but I know that will never happen

Bold - Exactly. Completely agree, her intentions were good, she just wanted to help, but she didn’t understand that they were not prepared or equipped to deal with such a situation. In the heat of the moment, one can take irrational decisions, but how can she not retrospect on it in all these years, specifically now that she in front of the family who lost a child, brother, father, husband!!

How can she not even reflect for a second about what would have happened if they acted differently that day. How doesn’t she feel survivor’s guilt.

She is still unable to understand Manjiri’s pain even though she is going through the similar pain of losing her child. But in her case the child is well and alive but just away from her. But Manjiri lost her child to death.

The way she dodged the topic when AbhiM brought it up, she is just trying to block it out and avoid it because her pain, her fears are greater than everyone else’s!!

Akshara can apologize, but it is also expected for Manjari and Abhimanyu Birla to apologize for their respective mistakes. Listing their mistakes and addressing them may take an eternity. Even apologies should be fair and come from both sides.