Abhinav man with heart of gold - Page 10

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Attractiveness isn't just about looks or money, is what I was explaining, but it seems you don't have any other definitions. You need to be able to, at the very least, talk to them about stuff like your interests and hobbies. So yes, you do need someone intellectually compatible. Not to mention someone who isn't emotionally draining all the time.

And again, if you are saying "perfect," then he really needs to be perfect. It's not a comparison with Abhi. If he is perfect, only in comparison to Abhi, then what you are saying is he is an upgrade, which is a different conversation. Perfect is an ideal, and he is by no means an ideal.

Rich of you to assume that I don't have any other definitions, when your initial comment only mentioned two traits. Lmao.

You again failed to explain what your "perfection" really is. What is it?

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Rich of you to assume that I don't have any other definitions, when your initial comment only mentioned two traits. Lmao.

You again failed to explain what your "perfection" really is. What is it?

Maybe you didn't read my initial comment properly, but it specifically mentioned personality. You fall in love with someone's character, their personality and their quirks. But that is just about love.

And perfection is obviously not a real thing, the whole point is that making Abhinav the perfect husband is kind of stupid because there is no such thing. Every person has flaws and everyone makes mistakes. But the way Nav is glorified in and out of the show, makes it seem like he is the model husband which is just not true.

The first and most important thing of a spouse is compatibility and that is what I was discussing. It's not just about equal status or looks, but about what conversations you can have with someone, if your sense of humor matches, etc. I have said this before, but I would have loved it if Akshnav were really friends to partners type of relationship. But that's just not what has happened so it's still quite awkward. It's more like they are the same person and they like each other and understand each other cause they are literally the same person! They just took Ak and gave her traits to Nav and then made Ak meaner to balance it out, but it doesn't work cause they have nothing to build up to their relationship.

Ak-Abhi relationship was also clunky but they had the attraction for each other and compatibility that made them bearable. Ak-Nav relationship could have been beautiful if they took some more time to develop it. If they showed Ak and Nav being friends for example at the beginning of the leap - like real friends, sharing things with each other, making fun of each other, etc. But they showed just two adults co existing and then immediately jumped to husband and wife.