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Posted: 2 years ago
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People dream about their success, their career, and all she wanted was a happy family!

Her journey right from wanting to be a mother, to getting the news, to convincing Abhimanyu that this is worth her life and trusting her inner feeling to winning everyone's support...!

It was never an easy journey, but she made it through.She took her first risk and she thought she lost her children, she was divorced and asked to leave because of that risk after being miscarried. She was broken because of very people she trusted and she loved. She was devastated, but destiny had different plans when she found out that she had one of her child alive, maybe a blessing for saving lives while taking that risk...

The journey continued with second risk she took- trusting a stranger... Stranger who got her to hospital when she fainted, a stranger who helped her in the journey of finding home and stranger who saved her several times! She distinctly saw this stranger forming unnamed bond with her child. He stood by her when she was to deliver a baby through complicated pregnancy in a stormy night. She thought she lost that one child until she saw him alive safe in arms of that stranger! She couldn't help herself from acknowledging him as real father for her child who wouldn't even be there without his struggles. Story continued for six years ahead as they together built a happy family that was shattered by a storm that she always feared.

This beautiful video basically sums up the entire journey

https://twitter.com/povgirl123/status/1675903429456146446?t=snEpGF-ooMmBpzti2LhmqA&s=19


I didn't find anything wrong in the tweet or the video that pretty much sums up Akshara's pain as mother. It's a point of view where Akshara has suffered. If this isn't acceptable as per IF COC, I would request post to be deleted as whole.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I cannot unsee her struggle to bring Abhir into this world and raise into such a fine kind and that’s why I will never ever not fail to empathize with her losing her lifeline to the very same man who ruined her world six years ago and came back again to bring destruction to her small world which she painstakingly build over the years with her husband

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Posted: 2 years ago
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She don't deserve what she is going through now...


I really didn't get what her mistake in all these.. she trusted someone who never wants to listen her and she also gave up on him and wanted to live for her kid....Now all of sudden someone re-entered and snatched her reason to live....I wish she doesn't give up now and fight for her Abhir

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I cannot unsee her struggle to bring Abhir into this world and raise into such a fine kind and that’s why I will never ever not fail to empathize with her losing her lifeline to the very same man who ruined her world six years ago and came back again to bring destruction to her small world which she painstakingly build over the years with her husband

You need not unsee it... Just appreciate how wonderful that was!


It's sad but true... He once again snatched her sukh and chen...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Akshara's journey is torturous

A journey many mothers encounter

Being a mother Manjari can't see " Akshu''s pain"

Grown up man who can't live without his Mom ,

Decides to take away 6yr old boy from his mother

I can see the pain Akshu going through

Making off spring doesn't make any one a great father seeing the heart of the child makes a great father

Akshu fought a " war " no one other than Abhinav was there for her

There was no richness or arrogance , she filled her child's days with happiness

I feel the pain , can feel the sword piercing through her heart , with it can see mocking faces

It is in the story but in reality also " money and power " wins at men's court but not the battle of heart

Stepping on Akshu's blood stained tears no one will ever " conquer " her son's heart 💔

Winning heart of a child , is not by possessing it by force ! What was Akshu's fear became true she will be mercilessly abused again , her child will tear off from her !

Pranali acting it with such conviction , making it more heart touching

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Posted: 2 years ago
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People keep throwing the words that Akshara keeps running away? What else was she supposed to do? She was always made to feel solely responsible for tragedies that happened around her. Her own family sent her away first and set the stage for her leaving afterwards. Most people in her place would choose to leave instead of causing the people around her more pain.

As for the birth certificate thing, while it definitely could have been handled better, however, most women in her place would have reacted similarly and chosen to give their child a father who would love them. It was an emotional decision. One that was taken right after her delivery, one where she and her child nearly died. I mean, considering all that trauma backing her, expecting someone in that state to make a sensible decision is a bit too much. It should have been better, but there is a difference in capacity to handle situations, and Aksahra was saturated then.

And legally, doing so wouldn't be such a huge deal in a custody case. It could be overlooked if the entire situation that led to such a decision being made was also disclosed.

I'm sure that had Abhimanyu known, he would have loved the child, too, but he created a situation where his own actions led to him not knowing about Abhir. It doesn't happen how it came to be; it happened. Like they can blame Neil's death on Akshara, it doesn't matter her intention, it happened, and she played a part in it. If she had to live through the consequences of that, then shouldn't Abhimanyu live through the consequences of his actions?

And I feel with Abhimanyu, the problem is his character is being written so poorly. With Abhir, his feelings come across as a sight between selflessness and selfishness, but it's the selfish part that's won. He wants to be Abhir's father and wants him to know him as his father, doesn't matter if it comes at the cost of Abhir's mental well-being. Even right now, he's okay with Abhir being with him, irrespective of how it would impact him to lose the only family he's ever known. That pain his child will suffer isn't more important than the pain he doesn't want to suffer by not being acknowledged as his father. It's like staking in ownership, but Abhir isn't a property. He's a child with emotions.

They could have easily worked out a way to keep Abhimanyu in his life as a second father figure and told him later that he's his biological father when he's old enough to deal with it. I feel like Aksahra would have given in and included him in Abhir's life if only he hadn't threatened or implied taking her son away.

A father is important, but he can't ever top a mother's place in a child's life. There is a reason why mothers are given a higher standing across all societies and religions, it's because the pain they go through to bring a child into the world is incomparable.

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