Often people have debated over the topic who was right and wrong.
I believe either both are right to hide the identity of Neil and Abhir or both were wrong.
Manjari got Neil home a reminder of the betrayal by hEr husband yet loved him like his own. Infact Abhimanyu got him home while prior to adopting him she made sure she visited him at the orphanage (unsaid) taking care of his needs which is selfless if you think about it. She thought it will be better to hid the truth for whatever reason.
Similarly Akshara decided to hid the truth of Abhir from everyone and Abhir himself. She had her reasons for her she did what she felt was best.
Both of them did what they felt is best for the kid and as per the situation so either both were wrong or both were right. Not otherwise one right one wrong.
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