How can you say that abhimanyu did nothing wrong to akshara - Page 8

Supreme Court in 2013, "refusal to let wife stay in same house is domestic violence".

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Didn’t want to deviate from topic but just wanted to highlight what Abhimanyu has gotten from the three Goenka siblings. And I think its only because Abhimanyu is genuinely kind hearted that he still looks at his own faults and tries to overcome them to be a better person rather than taking revenge. Whenever Akshara or Abhinav have spoken to him calmly he has always listened to their complaints, demands and wishes - its just when people ignore his existence in his own son’s life that he acts out.

What does he want from goenka siblings ? Who asked him to be the philanthropist? If they hurted him so much he must maintain a distance....instead...he stopped arohi from leaving bh and promised a marriage ? Stay away from kairavs marriage and focus on abhir...stay away from goenkas after white day bec ultimately they were aksharas relatives and akshara will always be close to them....What's all this ? Charity case ?

For the starters , akshara wasn't the one who went running behind him, it was him who pestered her to the end of the world to say yes to him..was her true nature not known to him? Is he that dumb headed? The girl who can put her step sister above her love , who puts her family above herself , what exactly were his expectations when he married her ? And on white day if her true nature became known to him, why is he still behind her ? Propose her and then his mother proposes her ?

can see he is kind hearted ..fine..I have always praised him post the leap for the way he behaved with Sharma family ...but why are akshnav made into monsters who snatched his child ? It was his mistake also 6 yrs bk can't he realize that ? Whenever he talked calmly with them, they responded calmy..when he challenged her , she challenged him..when she asked him for time to tell the truth , he agreed.

Pl let's not blame both abim and akshara for the mess created by elders.

it's both abim and aksharas fault that they didn't sit down and find a solution , rather let the stupid elders decide. Ab "she had no intention of telling the truth " is merely an assumption . Chalo. Dr won the case , let me see how he becomes the sach ka bahubali and tell abhir the truth .

Ps. I loved your previous post..woh abhim and akshu being on the opposite sides of the spectrum ..👍🏼

Originally posted by: Krinya

What does he want from goenka siblings ? Who asked him to be the philanthropist? If they hurted him so much he must maintain a distance....instead...he stopped arohi from leaving bh and promised a marriage ? Stay away from kairavs marriage and focus on abhir...stay away from goenkas after white day bec ultimately they were aksharas relatives and akshara will always be close to them....What's all this ? Charity case ?

For the starters , akshara wasn't the one who went running behind him, it was him who pestered her to the end of the world to say yes to him..was her true nature not known to him? Is he that dumb headed? The girl who can put her step sister above her love , who puts her family above herself , what exactly were his expectations when he married her ? And on white day if her true nature became known to him, why is he still behind her ? Propose her and then his mother proposes her ?

can see he is kind hearted ..fine..I have always praised him post the leap for the way he behaved with Sharma family ...but why are akshnav made into monsters who snatched his child ? It was his mistake also 6 yrs bk can't he realize that ? Whenever he talked calmly with them, they responded calmy..when he challenged her , she challenged him..when she asked him for time to tell the truth , he agreed.

Pl let's not blame both abim and akshara for the mess created by elders.

it's both abim and aksharas fault that they didn't sit down and find a solution , rather let the stupid elders decide. Ab "she had no intention of telling the truth " is merely an assumption . Chalo. Dr won the case , let me see how he becomes the sach ka bahubali and tell abhir the truth .

Ps. I loved your previous post..woh abhim and akshu being on the opposite sides of the spectrum ..👍🏼

Originally posted by: Krinya

What does he want from goenka siblings ? Who asked him to be the philanthropist? If they hurted him so much he must maintain a distance....instead...he stopped arohi from leaving bh and promised a marriage ? Stay away from kairavs marriage and focus on abhir...stay away from goenkas after white day bec ultimately they were aksharas relatives and akshara will always be close to them....What's all this ? Charity case ?

For the starters , akshara wasn't the one who went running behind him, it was him who pestered her to the end of the world to say yes to him..was her true nature not known to him? Is he that dumb headed? The girl who can put her step sister above her love , who puts her family above herself , what exactly were his expectations when he married her ? And on white day if her true nature became known to him, why is he still behind her ? Propose her and then his mother proposes her ?

can see he is kind hearted ..fine..I have always praised him post the leap for the way he behaved with Sharma family ...but why are akshnav made into monsters who snatched his child ? It was his mistake also 6 yrs bk can't he realize that ? Whenever he talked calmly with them, they responded calmy..when he challenged her , she challenged him..when she asked him for time to tell the truth , he agreed.

Pl let's not blame both abim and akshara for the mess created by elders.

it's both abim and aksharas fault that they didn't sit down and find a solution , rather let the stupid elders decide. Ab "she had no intention of telling the truth " is merely an assumption . Chalo. Dr won the case , let me see how he becomes the sach ka bahubali and tell abhir the truth .

Ps. I loved your previous post..woh abhim and akshu being on the opposite sides of the spectrum ..👍🏼 Thanks ❤️

I don't think Akshnav are monsters. As parents all three felt in their hearts that this is wrong but gave in to families' pressure instead of thinking of a better solution. That's why I had said yesterday no matter who wins Abhir will lose. He loves them all so losing any one would break his heart more so when its the parents he has known all his life. Had Manish-Manjiri not interfered, they probably would have finally gotten down to discuss co-parenting that kept Abhir's happiness and well being as the most important.

I was only listing the Goenka's fault because every time Abhimanyu is criticised he is made to be the villain in their life while her faults are ignored. I just hope when people criticise they hold everyone to the same standards. If there are expectations from Abhimanyu to do right thing toward her and family, then same should be expected from Akshara. Sorry if it came out any other way in my post.

I do not think between Abhimanyu and Akshara one is right or the other wrong. Both have their own issues and I do think they weren't compatible. I actually liked the fact that they showed that love no matter how strong doesn't always conquer all situations. Love doesn’t always last like some happily ever after of fairy tales - relationships require a lot of effort. We can't take for granted that the other person will always accept us even if they are hurt because of us - both Abhimanyu-Akshara were in that illusion that their love would make the other person come back even when they failed to communicate how they truly felt- and with each other they still lose their calm when talking and the important issues get neglected. With everyone else they have better discussions.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I was only listing the Goenka's fault because every time Abhimanyu is criticised he is made to be the villain in their life while her faults are ignored. I just hope when people criticise they hold everyone to the same standards. If there are expectations from Abhimanyu to do right thing toward her and family, then same should be expected from Akshara. Sorry if it came out any other way in my post.

I do not think between Abhimanyu and Akshara one is right or the other wrong. Both have their own issues and I do think they weren't compatible. I actually liked the fact that they showed that love no matter how strong doesn't always conquer all situations. Love doesn’t always last like some happily ever after of fairy tales - relationships require a lot of effort. We can't take for granted that the other person will always accept us even if they are hurt because of us - both Abhimanyu-Akshara were in that illusion that their love would make the other person come back even when they failed to communicate how they truly felt- and with each other they still lose their calm when talking and the important issues get neglected. With everyone else they have better discussions.

Bold black. Can't put it better than this. Thx..

Bold red. Well..let's keep the families aside ..they both had responsibility towards each other..they were supposedly in love..however there is never a definite right thing to do...everyone goes by their instincts .....what's in our hands is to not hurt someone intentionally , not cause any harm intentionally ,kisi ka bura na socho na bolo na karo..so akshara fits into my definition of right .. ....I agree to all mistakes akshara did on the white day , I also believe she was being careless and stupid that she jumped into a crime scene n it spiraled into a disaster. But the way she was punished breaks my heart 💔 how can a person be so cruel ? If I have this expectation from abhim, def I held him to very high standards (I always supported him and not akshu pre leap) , therefore disappointment was huge .

Her lying and keeping secrets..we all know why she did it ..right or wrong , she had her reasons . She didn't owe anything to abhim after the way he treated her.. not revenge but anyone will hold immense resentment ...

Coming to who admits their mistakes and who's apologetic , none of them did it uptil now..they may talk to others or there may be 1-2 monologues here and there, that's about it ..the closure to that day is pending ..so I hope in the upcoming epis , akshu files a retrial and the case is discussed from that angle so that we get familiar with their thought process n this debate ends once and for all.its poor writing nothing less....

Originally posted by: Krinya

Bold black. Can't put it better than this. Thx..

Bold red. Well..let's keep the families aside ..they both had responsibility towards each other..they were supposedly in love..however there is never a definite right thing to do...everyone goes by their instincts .....what's in our hands is to not hurt someone intentionally , not cause any harm intentionally ,kisi ka bura na socho na bolo na karo..so akshara fits into my definition of right .. ....I agree to all mistakes akshara did on the white day , I also believe she was being careless and stupid that she jumped into a crime scene n it spiraled into a disaster. But the way she was punished breaks my heart 💔 how can a person be so cruel ? If I have this expectation from abhim, def I held him to very high standards (I always supported him and not akshu pre leap) , therefore disappointment was huge .

Her lying and keeping secrets..we all know why she did it ..right or wrong , she had her reasons . She didn't owe anything to abhim after the way he treated her.. not revenge but anyone will hold immense resentment ...

Coming to who admits their mistakes and who's apologetic , none of them did it uptil now..they may talk to others or there may be 1-2 monologues here and there, that's about it ..the closure to that day is pending ..so I hope in the upcoming epis , akshu files a retrial and the case is discussed from that angle so that we get familiar with their thought process n this debate ends once and for all.its poor writing nothing less....

The major things that werent disclosed in court were the dynamics and eviroment of birla house despite being doctors family there is no family to be honest today mahima called out manjari but isnt mahima wrong too isnt manjari wrong too now parth will enter house because abhi and abhir will be there also all kept telling that ak should feel mj pain did ak to lose her twins didnt ak lost abhir today so mj should feel ak pain too right but instead she was shading haapy tears and was telling birlas to be happy

also abhira fans were unhappy and angry on mj before neils death but most of ab solos are now like supporting mj even though she is vile and manipulative

AK DREAMS- her every dream is coming true like abhir going away it happened through coustody and now she saw mj manipuating abhir which can be next track

mj today said that they didnt do anything wrong with ak neither now nor in past like what the hell

Originally posted by: Krinya

Bold black. Can't put it better than this. Thx..

Bold red. Well..let's keep the families aside ..they both had responsibility towards each other..they were supposedly in love..however there is never a definite right thing to do...everyone goes by their instincts .....what's in our hands is to not hurt someone intentionally , not cause any harm intentionally ,kisi ka bura na socho na bolo na karo..so akshara fits into my definition of right .. ....I agree to all mistakes akshara did on the white day , I also believe she was being careless and stupid that she jumped into a crime scene n it spiraled into a disaster. But the way she was punished breaks my heart 💔 how can a person be so cruel ? If I have this expectation from abhim, def I held him to very high standards (I always supported him and not akshu pre leap) , therefore disappointment was huge .

Her lying and keeping secrets..we all know why she did it ..right or wrong , she had her reasons . She didn't owe anything to abhim after the way he treated her.. not revenge but anyone will hold immense resentment ...

Coming to who admits their mistakes and who's apologetic , none of them did it uptil now..they may talk to others or there may be 1-2 monologues here and there, that's about it ..the closure to that day is pending ..so I hope in the upcoming epis , akshu files a retrial and the case is discussed from that angle so that we get familiar with their thought process n this debate ends once and for all.its poor writing nothing less....

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

High expectations ?????

Abhimanyu cant fulfill even the basic expectations from a life partner.

Yes sure he had a ryt to angry on Akshara and even blame her ( which I personally dont think she ws responsible fr ) for Neil's death. Yes he also had a ryt to care for his mother first.

But No not the babies. A child belongs to both mother and father. Infact in their case Abhimanyu didnt want Akshara to hv a child. She wanted to risk her life to have a child. So no he doesnt get to blame a mother fr losing a child. Noone does. A mother suffers more pain in a miscarriage than a father can even imagine. Abhimanyu alwys sees his pain as higher and ignored Akshara's pain.

Being angry , blaming her and treating her like shit ws still somewhere understandable but throwing her out , divorcing her ( second time btw) .....how is that right ?? Is marriage a joke ?? Anytime u face a hurdle , you throw your wife out of ur life ? And expecting Abhimanyu to be a decent husband is high expectations ?? How ?

Abhimanyu was still expected to fulfill the basic expectations of being a life partner when his own life partner violated the basic expectations from her in the worst possible way , this is what I called high expectations exclusively from abhiM. It always works both ways in a relationship.

According to you , even if father's pain is lesser than mother's pain during miscarriage , does it mean that the pain of father is completely unsignificant and can be conveniently ignored. Everything in this world is somewhere less when compared to something else , does it means that the former is completely insignificant.

And what does it mean by treating her like shit , it was akshara who continuously violated AbhiM and his family's personal space which they needed to handle their grief and mourn the deaths caused by none other than akshara . Akshara became violent when she believed AbhiM was responsible for abhir's critical condition, whereas AbhiM didn't even touch her during Neil's situation. By God's grace , in the present scenario , violence is recognized as violence whether done by a man or woman.

Because he really didn't did anything wrong. He was just offered her divorce, blame her for sirat death, didn't listen her call, after 6 yrs he purpose a married woman who is now his ex. Na no need for redemption.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Because he really didn't did anything wrong. He was just offered her divorce, blame her for sirat death, didn't listen her call, after 6 yrs he purpose a married woman who is now his ex. Na no need for redemption.

Yeah, no need of any more pain for him. We have seen him suffering enough for the past half a year- just want him to be happy for a while even if its short-lived. Have seen Abhinav’s breakdown too. For a change let Akshara shed tears this time! And later Manjiri, Mahima, Parth can have their turn to cry.. I want all three Abhi’s and Ruhi to smile for sometime please.