Abhimanyu the victim......... - Page 2

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I have said this multiple times, but it's about perspective. People can choose to like whomever they want. Lots of people like Abhi because of who he is; all the negatives, so to speak, are actually positives. Obviously, not how the events transpired, but his reactions to things are more understandable than Ak's. That is all. In general, no one is really right. They are all just characters looking at things from their own perspective.

I thoroughly disagree with this. This isn't a matter of perspective, what Abhimanyu did that day is completely, objectively wrong. He being a doctor couldn't sympathise with a woman who had a miscarriage and sure he was angry and upset understandably due to the loss of his children and brother but he piled on Akshara while she was also going through all that suffering without making one attempt to understand what she was going through. For all his so called "soul love" crap that he spews that he loves Akshara, he can't live without her and etc, he couldn't even sympathise with his wife one bit?

Liking toxic characters doesn't somehow make them good people, that is plain stupidity. And for one how are his reactions more justifiable/ understandable?? Who genuinely keeps divorce papers in their closet to use in an opportunity when life gets tough and also how are you conveniently ignoring him blaming Akshara for Sirat's death. That isn't soul love, that isn't any form of love, this is Abhimanyu victimising himself in the whole situation and giving further guilt and sadness to Akshara after knowing what Aarohi saying that had done to Akshara for multiple years, how much Sirat's death scarred and hurt her and especially after already berating her for Neil and the kids deaths. And then, Abhimanyu has the audacity to tell Akshara and her husband that Akshara loves him, that they're soulmates, that she is his - further treating her like she's some trophy/toy and he still hasn't realised the gravity of his errors. He acts like its one thing just one small thing, everybody deserves a second chance but that wasn't one small thing and all the multitude of second chances hes had, hes botched them. This isn't a matter of persective, he was completely in the wrong that day. His actions that day were done out of intent and anger at Akshara, what happened to Neil and the kids that day happened through unfortunate circumstances and she suffered as a result too.

At this point, any rational person wouldn't support what Abhimanyu's done, unless its your favourite character or actor.

Originally posted by: PreRish-Kabir

I thoroughly disagree with this. This isn't a matter of perspective, what Abhimanyu did that day is completely, objectively wrong. He being a doctor couldn't sympathise with a woman who had a miscarriage and sure he was angry and upset understandably due to the loss of his children and brother but he piled on Akshara while she was also going through all that suffering without making one attempt to understand what she was going through. For all his so called "soul love" crap that he spews that he loves Akshara, he can't live without her and etc, he couldn't even sympathise with his wife one bit?

Liking toxic characters doesn't somehow make them good people, that is plain stupidity. And for one how are his reactions more justifiable/ understandable?? Who genuinely keeps divorce papers in their closet to use in an opportunity when life gets tough and also how are you conveniently ignoring him blaming Akshara for Sirat's death. That isn't soul love, that isn't any form of love, this is Abhimanyu victimising himself in the whole situation and giving further guilt and sadness to Akshara after knowing what Aarohi saying that had done to Akshara for multiple years, how much Sirat's death scarred and hurt her and especially after already berating her for Neil and the kids deaths. And then, Abhimanyu has the audacity to tell Akshara and her husband that Akshara loves him, that they're soulmates, that she is his - further treating her like she's some trophy/toy and he still hasn't realised the gravity of his errors. He acts like its one thing just one small thing, everybody deserves a second chance but that wasn't one small thing and all the multitude of second chances hes had, hes botched them. This isn't a matter of persective, he was completely in the wrong that day. His actions that day were done out of intent and anger at Akshara, what happened to Neil and the kids that day happened through unfortunate circumstances and she suffered as a result too.

At this point, any rational person wouldn't support what Abhimanyu's done, unless its your favourite character or actor.

It is a matter of perspective. If people understand the someone under a lot of grief may lose themselves and may do things they later regret. To say he didn't regret that day is stupid. He was shown regretting everything multiple times. On the other hand, Ak has not been shown to regret that day even once. A person can be flawed and that doesn't make them a bad person. At least not to the level some people on this forum have taken it. He was not a toxic husband, the narrative has been rewritten now but it doesn't matter cause people still remember.

What he did that day he did under grief, lots of good people do lose perspective in similar situations. If you look at statistics itself, lots of couples divorce cause of miscarriages or deaths in the family. It's a normal thing, that usually can get resolved with therapy but of course in yrkkh world there is no therapy. Abhi didn't think that Ak would go out into the wind. He didn't think that's it, that's what been shown. And yeah when you are in trauma, thinking is hard.

And I have already talked about the temple confession. He didn't place any claims on her, that's not what I heard. I heard him talking about himself and how he feels and that is not wrong to do. He thought she loved him too cause she ran after him. That's it. Why that's a bad thing I will never understand. Her being married has nothing to do with it. He just wanted to know if she felt the same way. Plus he was under drugs so yeah.

Is he impulsive ? Yes, but I like that about him. Has he made mistakes, also yes, tons. So has Ak. So have all the characters. But unilaterally calling him a bad guy and calling everyone who likes him irrational isn't right either.

Originally posted by: PreRish-Kabir

I thoroughly disagree with this. This isn't a matter of perspective, what Abhimanyu did that day is completely, objectively wrong. He being a doctor couldn't sympathise with a woman who had a miscarriage and sure he was angry and upset understandably due to the loss of his children and brother but he piled on Akshara while she was also going through all that suffering without making one attempt to understand what she was going through. For all his so called "soul love" crap that he spews that he loves Akshara, he can't live without her and etc, he couldn't even sympathise with his wife one bit?

Liking toxic characters doesn't somehow make them good people, that is plain stupidity. And for one how are his reactions more justifiable/ understandable?? Who genuinely keeps divorce papers in their closet to use in an opportunity when life gets tough and also how are you conveniently ignoring him blaming Akshara for Sirat's death. That isn't soul love, that isn't any form of love, this is Abhimanyu victimising himself in the whole situation and giving further guilt and sadness to Akshara after knowing what Aarohi saying that had done to Akshara for multiple years, how much Sirat's death scarred and hurt her and especially after already berating her for Neil and the kids deaths. And then, Abhimanyu has the audacity to tell Akshara and her husband that Akshara loves him, that they're soulmates, that she is his - further treating her like she's some trophy/toy and he still hasn't realised the gravity of his errors. He acts like its one thing just one small thing, everybody deserves a second chance but that wasn't one small thing and all the multitude of second chances hes had, hes botched them. This isn't a matter of persective, he was completely in the wrong that day. His actions that day were done out of intent and anger at Akshara, what happened to Neil and the kids that day happened through unfortunate circumstances and she suffered as a result too.

At this point, any rational person wouldn't support what Abhimanyu's done, unless its your favourite character or actor.

agree completely...

people /fans come up with arguments that he was in grief...as if akshu was dancing with joy...she had also lost her kids and neil was like her brother...

and even if he was in grief...he did not bother to find out about akshu for 7 months...he was rude to her wh when she herself called him many times to tell about abhir.....

he was shown celebrating with his family and akshu's family...what grief was he then?

and mainly, when he met akshu in kasauli...he just said sorry for seerat maa...he had no realization of what he had done.....he had no regrets of divorsing her and throwing her out when she was most vulnerable...

the argument that he was in grief, ends when he rejects akshu;s calls and shows no concerns for her....after kicking her out when she miscarried...

the argument that he regrets, ends when he clearly said sorry for seerat maa....he had no realization of what he had done to akshu...

He failed as a doctor. human and husband....leave aside being in love...

Don't get me wrong. If this were a real life situation, I would obviously support Ak. But I would not support her living with some random guy instead of going to her family or hiding the kid's truth. But again, none of this makes them bad people. There is the objective right and there is the feelings in a moment. Both of them have taken bad decisions based on their feelings in that moment. Abhi is waaay more wrong that Ak. But none of that takes away his rights as a father.

Most people sympathise with Abhim because they are hardcore Harshad fans and are watching this show for Harshad alone and can not separate the actor from the character, lol

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Most people sympathise with Abhim because they are hardcore Harshad fans and are watching this show for Harshad alone and can not separate the actor from the character, lol

yup...i got this quite late...😂 mujhe jab apni thinking per shaq hone laga, ki how come I dont feel abhi ka pain.....patthar dil to nahi hun mein...

then I read posts that they will leave the show if harshad exits...tab bheje miein ghusa, ki abhi nahi harshad ko support kar rahe hain...😂

warna abhi hero nahi, villain hai story mein filhaal....😂

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Don't get me wrong. If this were a real life situation, I would obviously support Ak. But I would not support her living with some random guy instead of going to her family or hiding the kid's truth. But again, none of this makes them bad people. There is the objective right and there is the feelings in a moment. Both of them have taken bad decisions based on their feelings in that moment. Abhi is waaay more wrong that Ak. But none of that takes away his rights as a father.

No one have take his father right. He lost that precious moment because of himself only. The thing is he can't care about everyone at the same time. Ok he lost Abhir but he get Ruhi. But what he did for her. Is she any type of replacement? How he conveniently forget about her when he was proposing AK. Tell me what type of good father can forget his Dil? He lost Abhir that day when he kicked out his miscarriage wife instead giving her medication being a doctor at least. He lost Abhir that day when AK called her but he was not ready to listen. He lost to be the good father position when he was purposing AK. He is biological father to Abhir and can be the good father in future but Abhinav will remain a special position in Abhir life. My take is if he can allow his niece to called him poppy then why not AK choose a good father for her child. Why not Ruhi call him bade papa or Taya? As if for Ruhi that is easy na because she know the truth. If he can be the foster father of his niece then someone else can be the foster father for some one.

Ye kya baat Hui bhala ki Abhimanyu kare to hero baki log zero.

It need not be necessary that all are harshad fans here. I like him as a actor but i have not seen his many shows.

Ppl don't defend blindly everyone have their thought process. If i put myself in akshu's shoe. I will not even do a single thing what she did. So i can't relate to her.

I don't want to divert the topic but tagging ppl as hc fans just because they have differecnce of opinion is funniest thing i have ever heard 🤣

Yes i will quit the show if hc leaves as i can't tolerate dumb characters on screen 🙂

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

It need not be necessary that all are harshad fans here. I like him as a actor but i have not seen his many shows.

Ppl don't defend blindly everyone have their thought process. If i put myself in akshu's shoe. I will not even do a single thing what she did. So i can't relate to her.

I don't want to divert the topic but tagging ppl as hc fans just because they have differecnce of opinion is funniest thing i have ever heard 🤣

Yes i will quit the show if hc leaves as i can't tolerate dumb characters on screen 🙂

Diya, u urself gave it away....

U will leave the show if HC leaves...not Abhi leaves.(character exits)...

Agar aap ko Abhi (character) pasand hota to aap Abhi (character) likhti....HC(actor) nahi....

Not that ki mujhe farak padta hai isse...😂

It is just a show...at least for me....😂