I don’t want Abhimanyu to suffer, I want him to realise, which he is in recent few episodes. Not just about his mistakes but about his responsibility of explaining it to his mother, to Ruhi and his family too. And no, I don’t think he suffered more, we cannot compare sufferings this way. And if we question hate directed to Abhimanyu who is just a fictional character, why don’t we question the hate both Akshara and Abhinav receive too, they are also just fictional characters. The grass is always greener on the other side. People expect Akshara to tell Abhir truth but a softer version of that, isn’t that selective? Rather if she wants to reveal things to her child at an appropriate age, when he is big enough to understand, what is wrong there? Then why call her and Abhinav out as bachha chor and all?
I believe both Akshara and Abhimanyu are on the journey of understanding each other’s perspective now, which is great progress; but at the same time it is too much of an expectation for things to be revealed to a 6 year old, be it about who his father is or be it the white day. Because anyways one truth will lead to another. So it does not matter ki Ak forgives Abhi or not, Abhi is not in a situation to reveal anything if he truly cares about Abhir, or even Ruhi honestly.
And at the same time, if we call out the hate towards Abhim, who actually did something wrong in the past, shouldn’t we acknowledge the hate towards at least Abhinav too, who literally has not done anything wrong so far.
Adding to that, was it just one mistake based on which people have made a judgement of Abhim? There was the Neil paternity track, there was the Kairav-Anisha track, then there was the white day, then Abhim proposing Ak in the temple while she is married to someone else and as per him at that point has a child with someone else, and finally impulsive custody battle track? Its one thing after another, so where is the growth so far? I only see growth very recently ever since they came back to Kasauli, but will this growth actually remain once he is back under his mother’s influence. He had problem with Akshara for giving preference to her family, but he has also given his mother more preference always, which is not wrong, but should have a line. I have never blamed Abhim just for the white day, but rather for later, as he could not think of Akshara even once, then what were all those claims of marne mitne wala love? Nevertheless, I still don’t want him to suffer, I only want him to realise and grow from those mistakes. Thats all I expect of his character or any other in the show, and that is I too try to personally in my life.
Edited by R.G.C - 2 years ago
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