Feeling worthy/MyThoughts- Epi 930

AK and AbhiN discussing their insecurities regarding their child look normal ( I know it is getting OTT and repetitive), but a 40 year old man jumping and telling his Mom, how happy he would be when his kid would call him papa, looks so weird. He should atleast be sharing these things with his future partner who is going to be important factor in the relationship.

One question that I had was: AbhiN always wanted to let Abhir and AbhiM know that they are father and son. He is actually on AbhiM's side. He believes in blood- relations. It is AK who is holding him on her side. AbhiN wanted AK, AbhiM and Abhir to be the family. Then why current insecurities? Is it because it is easier said then done? Or is it because AK after AbhiM' s kasauli visit and their UD visit, made repeated efforts to make him think otherwise and now that he has got attached to the idea of them being a family, all his insecurities are surfacing?He said during the pizza date that he never feared when he had no one but is very fearful to loose his family. So much insecurities look odd for AbhiN's character.

Feeling worthy of it is better than having it while feeling unworthy: AbhiN feels unworthy of having AK and AbhiN. Even if in future, AbhiM gives back Abhir to AbhiN, would AbhiN be happy if he feels he does not deserves it? I don't think so.. AbhiN should struggle to feel worthy of it or do something that makes him feel worthy. Else, he should let go off them.