MANJARI'S OLD TRUNK 📦 - Page 9

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

bahut jaldi Deviji ko apna shaadi ka vachan yaad aa gaya 😆

Usme se apne patidev ko uda diya 😆

Dining table pe...itne kareeb se Birlas ko dekh liye the mahanta ki devi ne...abhi kya microscope mangaye 😎

Per deviji ko to Kaleidoscope hi pasand hain jisme rangbirangi designs hi dikhti hai

Family ko Apna manke kar rahi hai to..family ko to involve hi nahin kiya preparation mein??? 😆...Neil ko bhi nahin...Tab to Deviji ko apna Kairav bhaiya yaad aa gaya...😲 Devar nahin...Sirf naam ke lagte hain aur rishtein...

Muje Deviji ka ek hi kaam lagta hain Birla House mein -

Nishtha, Neil, Parth - Shefali, Abhi, Manju-Harsh, Anand-Mahima...sabka birthdays, anniversaries plan karna...😛...

PS - The accident track was not closed properly...Ak's dealing ways are again triggered in me...I need to vent...

See, bella ak is not aware of of the dynamics of the family. Dining table she saw PB being extremely rude to manjari but in her mind if he married her, there must be love right?

As for not telling everyone, ak have always been like this. Doing things be herself.. she thought she could surprise everyone.

And Birlas always complained about lack of time, being busy, no time for fun. So, Abhi's "this doesn't happen in this house", she intercepted as that. So, she organized the party hoping that he she give them the place to enjoy, they will. She wasn't wrong in thinking that, they did enjoy the wedding.

Ak never has time to do something for her parents. She was too young when she lost them. It's also that wish of doing something for her parents. The girl accepted Abhi with everything of his. His flaws, qualities.. All the bad things along with good. She is trying to makev HIS family happy because she loves him. She accepted them as her "maa" and "papa" because they are his parents.

Ak is smarter than we give her credit for. Did you not notice the longing in manjari's eyes. When she talked about how they doesn't have time for parties and celebrations. Yes, ak made things a lot worse. But ak just saw manjari craving for that and she did it for the woman who love her, accepted her with whole heart. Even when ak broke her son's heart, she never resented ak. Ak sees that.

And as for Abhi, the surprise was for his too. Abi craves for a family like goenkas...he might not sat it but he does. You can see that with his interactions with goenkas. Ak sees that too.

She just have no idea how bad things are. Quite naive of her.. but the girl is innocent. And I see that as a plus.

Both Abhi and ak should be applauded for the people they are...even after the traumatising childhoods.

With that being said, ak is not perfect. Neither is Abhi.

But these flaws make them more real... "Mary sue's" are not for me. Yes, this party was a mistake but it wasn't at the same time. Because ak did this for Manjari and she wanted that... Regardless of scenarios.

I love these characters, they are flawed, make mistakes but I have yet to meet a person who is perfect and never made any mistakes.

Manjari ma dimag se paidal na hoti toh baat hi kya thi 😆 She takes pride in serving harsh , she never felt wrong abt his behavior , she enables him, just like akshu enables arohi. Manjari ma giving mixed signals to akshu is not surprising..one blind person helps other blind person to cross the road.

What exactly will she be happy about now ?

1. Harsh abusing manjari

2. Harsh abusing akshu

3. Abhimanyu and harsh fight

Like..there r so many places to shower love.do some social service , the saas bahu duo😆 abhimanyu can get her a private clinic for music therapy and manju can help

Originally posted by: _charu_

The other day abhimanyu is yelling at harsh that akshus intentions are good . And they try to justify everything with akshus good intentions ..that's their way of letting the fl get away with everything after messing it up. 😆

they need to understand that good intentions alone aren't enuf. It should he coupled with smart actions otherwise its always disastrous . Hell even Hitler believed that his intention is good , that to purify his race .

Did akshu achieve good results with her good intentions towards aru? Of course bec akshu is akshu, by chance sab apne aap hoga bec someone else is writing her character ..I doubt in real life it works.

Same thing i said in my main post..The result of her dealings is only that - people participate temporarily in her action but does not bring realization and reflections in the person to bring transformation. Good intention ke saath pehle disease to samaj le...Chalo disease nahi pehchane per kuch symptoms to samaj leti???? Mimi ki folower hai..try and error...until success...but jumping looks so unrealistic approach for snail character like AK....

Ak ne theka nahi liya hai dusere ko sudharne ka...As Hari said ....but she is taking up things in her hands to fix it..so indirectly sudharo mission...

Aarohi is still traumatized that she has lost her reputation....Ak is still blind to this reality...that how a girl when left at mandap faces society...Ak never has apologized Ar openly...

It's same for Ar that she has not apologized her for abuse and emotional torture neither she had admitted her blackmailing to AK to Goenkas

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

So true Meher..... She still thinks they are like every other family..... Abhi already made her understand that this family is totally different..... Its not about bunch of professionals out there....its all about ppl leading a rather mechanical life ....No one is happy with their married life....

Only loving couple now is Abhira.... If Akshu keeps doing aisi harkath her relationship with abhi is going to be in trouble.....

What does she even know about the Birlas? No ground work nothing directly jumped into battle field thinking its going to solve all issues in one go....

Main prob is she never consults anyone before doing anything .... Jo man mein aaya bas kardhiya.....

Credits mile tho bhi bas usko hi.... Damage hua tho bhi usse hi....

She is on and off annoying with her harkath....😒

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

No ground work...she assumed..maa ko celebrate karna hai because maataji gave mixed signals to her..

But anniversary involves two people 🤣 she forgot...

Papa Birla's taunts and behaviour at dining table...

She should be sensible at least to notice that it is not open happy consent to celebrate...thats why i say she wears Kaleidoscope...but it turns into Periscope ...reflecting the unseen in the eyes...but madam still wants to fix the kaleidoscope designs....

Her dialogues to Abhi - Tumhe samajne ki jarurat hai...But does she apply this for herself when Abhi tells her to take it easy...??

Why it's always Abhi has to listen and mend..why Deviji can't??? Please do not say in love we do not see all this..Love is to respect, take care of partner's perspective also...try to understand the reason behind it ...

Credit to le jaati hai deviji but Damage is happening to Manju and Abhi and Harsh too...His anger and hate is raised...Manju will be paying for deviji's mistake and childish behaviour...This has riled me up...

U see even with Aarohi...She is still traumatized...by loosing her reputation...Ak has no idea about it!!!!

I swear .... After that dinning table khaand she should have not done this ....

After that big issue of music therapy closure she shouldn't have done this....

There are so many things hinted or directly expressed by PB his hatred towards manjari....

Phir bhi usne yeh sab kiya? The main issue is as u said.... Usko bas karna hey..... Uski impact she doesnt think of.... Nor realizes later.....

All she is bothered about is zyadha pyar baato .... Infact tooso .... So the other person feels suffocated as he does not want that.....

The main gussa of abhi is the reaction of Harsh towards manjari.....

She could have as well celebrated the occasion alone with akshu by going out and doing shopping .... Mil dil date..... And a musical concert or a movie.... Without involving the Birlas .... But Nehi..... Hame panga hi chahiye....😡

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

I swear .... After that dinning table khaand she should have not done this ....

After that big issue of music therapy closure she shouldn't have done this....

There are so many things hinted or directly expressed by PB his hatred towards manjari....

Phir bhi usne yeh sab kiya? The main issue is as u said.... Usko bas karna hey..... Uski impact she doesnt think of.... Nor realizes later.....

All she is bothered about is zyadha pyar baato .... Infact tooso .... So the other person feels suffocated as he does not want that.....

The main gussa of abhi is the reaction of Harsh towards manjari.....

She could have as well celebrated the occasion alone with akshu by going out and doing shopping .... Mil dil date..... And a musical concert or a movie.... Without involving the Birlas .... But Nehi..... Hame panga hi chahiye....😡

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

See, bella ak is not aware of of the dynamics of the family. Dining table she saw PB being extremely rude to manjari but in her mind if he married her, there must be love right?

As for not telling everyone, ak have always been like this. Doing things be herself.. she thought she could surprise everyone.

And Birlas always complained about lack of time, being busy, no time for fun. So, Abhi's "this doesn't happen in this house", she intercepted as that. So, she organized the party hoping that he she give them the place to enjoy, they will. She wasn't wrong in thinking that, they did enjoy the wedding.

Ak never has time to do something for her parents. She was too young when she lost them. It's also that wish of doing something for her parents. The girl accepted Abhi with everything of his. His flaws, qualities.. All the bad things along with good. She is trying to makev HIS family happy because she loves him. She accepted them as her "maa" and "papa" because they are his parents.

Ak is smarter than we give her credit for. Did you not notice the longing in manjari's eyes. When she talked about how they doesn't have time for parties and celebrations. Yes, ak made things a lot worse. But ak just saw manjari craving for that and she did it for the woman who love her, accepted her with whole heart. Even when ak broke her son's heart, she never resented ak. Ak sees that.

And as for Abhi, the surprise was for his too. Abi craves for a family like goenkas...he might not sat it but he does. You can see that with his interactions with goenkas. Ak sees that too.

She just have no idea how bad things are. Quite naive of her.. but the girl is innocent. And I see that as a plus.

Both Abhi and ak should be applauded for the people they are...even after the traumatising childhoods.

With that being said, ak is not perfect. Neither is Abhi.

But these flaws make them more real... "Mary sue's" are not for me. Yes, this party was a mistake but it wasn't at the same time. Because ak did this for Manjari and she wanted that... Regardless of scenarios.

I love these characters, they are flawed, make mistakes but I have yet to meet a person who is perfect and never made any mistakes.

Very well explained Riddhi...I buy some of it...thank you

But Ak herself always says after doing...sorry Abhi, muje puch lena chaiye tha, muje yeh kar lena tha...but she does not correct herself...after making mistakes after mistakes...sorry kehke nikal jati hai...until someone shows anger, she can't get in her head...During anger also she is not able to take it then why provoke someone if you can't soothe them...

Ak has communication problem..This is the deep personality trait of hers that she prefers to be in lala land....

remember the date night ...madam phone bhi nahin kiye Abhi ko ki pooja mein hu..he waited and left...She acts very dumb at a time...

During Shivratri..she did not even message Abhi...

If she keeps it up to her the credit and damage it's Ok...but why giving pain to Manju??? Chalo Abhi ko bhi pain de thik hai...but who is she to become the cause to inflict pain for Manju???

Like how she made kheer for her...those kind of acts are meaningful and digestable and relatable to bring happiness for your loved ones...

Abhi is ok if pain is given to him but if that creates pain for Manju...then he cannot tolerate..Will Ak tolerate if Abhi gives pain to any Goenkas??? Yet to be seen...

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Amru they don't do like us. 😂 They poke it more and show the issues rippled with this affect. They want drama and angst to be built this way. No character is perfect. It's all situations affect them.

This trp things spoils the entire maza of the show.. slowly we start losing interest Hope they dont butcher characters for trps..... Achcha kasa show ko karabh karne me thule hein....

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

It's transformation after shadi . 😂 Because we threw katoras for her increasing speed. Did we not ask many times to reduce Abhis speed and increase ak. Abhis anger is reduced in a different level. He is not throwing things or shouting.

Kuch nahi re...

celebration ke naam pe hi Jump karti hai...

Jab jump karna hai tab to nahi karti???? e.g. samajne mein...Uske patidev ko samajne mein to snail hai...he said to be ready at 8...did she even think of it for a minute???? Why he told so?

Originally posted by: _charu_

Manjari ma dimag se paidal na hoti toh baat hi kya thi 😆 She takes pride in serving harsh , she never felt wrong abt his behavior , she enables him, just like akshu enables arohi. Manjari ma giving mixed signals to akshu is not surprising..one blind person helps other blind person to cross the road.

What exactly will she be happy about now ?

1. Harsh abusing manjari

2. Harsh abusing akshu

3. Abhimanyu and harsh fight

Like..there r so many places to shower love.do some social service , the saas bahu duo😆 abhimanyu can get her a private clinic for music therapy and manju can help