Originally posted by: hari15
Sorry Bela I was busy today so couldn't catch up in the forum.
I tried to catch up with as much points as I could hope I could clear few of your concerns.
Ak came to know about maa and papa anniversary and was excited to celebrate it and abhi said nothing like this happens in their house. Abhi said mom does house hold work and sir goes to house.
Next when she wished manjari and asked her about party manjari said all are busy with their work and harsh too is a workaholic. But when asked manjari too showed her wish to celebrate parties and anniversaries.
Anyone who can put 2 + 2 together in this scenario will think
1. Parties and anniversaries are not done because of no time and work pressure.
2. Manju has the wish to celebrate her anniversary but she can't arrange her own anniversary party or others are busy to do it so ak thought let me do this.
ABHI said to ak after bluffmaster song that "you do what you want in that house and give time to accept paga family"
Abhi even told ak just as much as others opinion and POV is important ak her opinion and POV is also important and she can tell them.
Regarding DINNING TABLE fight that day harsh asked manju to get sugar free manju went next moment abhi came broke the plate and the fight was between abhi and harsh only. Harsh didn't humiliate manjari that day and the tone that he used is his usual which anyone new would think HARSH is BEING VERY MUCH HARSH only nothing out of line. Harsh talking sweet will be the only out of line scenario.
Later abhi came and told ak that she must have known SIR and his equation today she got to see it. When abhi asked her to understand this she told maybe it's abhi who needs to understand.
The fight was between abhi and harsh and ak as an outsider till this moment has no idea of the way how harsh treats manjari. Ak doesn't know the real equation of the couple and the real truth that MANJARI is the catalyst between Harsh and Abhi fight.
So ak has this mindset that father and son only have bad relationship not husband and wife. That is why when abhi said his family is not same she said all families are same. She was strong in her belief and compared harsh and manjari to a happy couple like manish and swarna.
Harsh said to anand and mahima that he can't tell the truth about his wedding to all so he have to accept these gifts on his anniversary when the gifts came.
So for outside world they have had a good facade for years. Harsh never insulted manjari in front of outsiders he had supported her even in tilak 1 when she was at fault so obliviously people tend to believe they have good bond seeing such moments.
In precap we saw harsh telling things to manjari and ak heard. In a way this would be the first ever time ak will see something like this strange about the birla couple.
If she keeps it up to her the credit and damage it's Ok...but why giving pain to Manju??? Chalo Abhi ko bhi pain de thik hai...but who is she to become the cause to inflict pain for Manju???
Like how she made kheer for her...those kind of acts are meaningful and digestable and relatable to bring happiness for your loved ones...
Do you think ak would have done something if she knew it will hurt manju. Manju herself again and again gave signals of having a good anniversary and ak wanted to only fulfill her mother wish.
Regarding why ak arranged a party after 2 days of her wedding. It falls 2 days after their wedding. If ak too ignored that then what will be the difference between the whole birla clan who kept manjari as their doormat not considering her feelings and ak who claims to love her as equal to abhi and her own parents.
Regarding why their was not a private one. This is ITV kaand Or parties it's always grand. Specially this is YEH RISHTA KYA KHELATHA HEY which for 13 years talking about stories of joint families and their significants. Here parties, birthdays, anniversaries, wedding, name ceremony everything is grand. I bet in future if ak and abhi get a cat or a dog they will celebrate its birthday too grand. 🤣🤣🤣
PARTY was a surprise ak had accepted them as a family and she took that haq as her family. If she asked permission what is the difference between a home and an office and ak wants to make birla family as her home. As a family what we cultivate along with them since start is what happens on a long run.
Shifali ran from home since beginning and she is still running and ak took them all as her own and that is how she will proceed in her long run.
Whatever might happen after this will have strong effects ak did indeed touched the wrong never. Just like any of us who is watching this show ak is also dark to birla family dynamics. I mean do we all know why harsh and manjari are like this. Whatever we talk most are just our assumptions. We only know harsh doesn't treat manjari well and abhi fights over it. Ak doesn't even know that harsh and abhi fight for manjari.
As harsh said it's all a facade and ak is unknowingly cleaning all those facade and showing everyone's real image to us.
Regarding ak proving herself in her career and then doing other things.
Ak told she won't prove them wrong but she will prove they are right. When ak said those words this is what I felt. Their are 100s of people who will point fingers on you on a daily basis in process of trying to prove them wrong will you ever get to live the right way you wanted to live.
So ak telling abhi she will prove them we are right is her telling she will move at her own phase and make them see they are right and accept it.
No matter how high ak goes even on her own for birla's she will be always Dr. Abhimanyu Birla wife, a surgeon's wife, a big doctors family bahu through which she gained her goodness and fame.