MANJARI'S OLD TRUNK 📦 - Page 10

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Kuch nahi re...

celebration ke naam pe hi Jump karti hai...

Jab jump karna hai tab to nahi karti???? e.g. samajne mein...Uske patidev ko samajne mein to snail hai...he said to be ready at 8...did she even think of it for a minute???? Why he told so?

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

I swear ....

All she is bothered about is zyadha pyar baato .... Infact tooso .... So the other person feels suffocated as he does not want that.....

The main gussa of abhi is the reaction of Harsh towards manjari.....

She could have as well celebrated the occasion alone with akshu by going out and doing shopping .... Mil dil date..... And a musical concert or a movie.... Without involving the Birlas .... But Nehi..... Hame panga hi chahiye....😡

Please donot swear especially for this FL 😆...she is one confused soul who talks internally most of the time..."Iska matlab to yahi hua...woh yahi chahti hai, isse sabhi khush ho jayenge...muje sabashi denge..." She was expecting people to give her thanks for the party...😆

@bold red - so true...Why not show her love by supporting during emotional turmoil..spending time as you said in things that makes you happy...

Why drag people who does not like it???

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Very well explained Riddhi...I buy some of it...thank you

But Ak herself always says after doing...sorry Abhi, muje puch lena chaiye tha, muje yeh kar lena tha...but she does not correct herself...after making mistakes after mistakes...sorry kehke mikal jati hai...until someone shows anger, she can't get in her head...During anger also she is not able to take it then while provoke someone if you can't sooth them...

Ak has communication problem..This is the deep personality trait of hers that she prefers to be in lala land....

remember the date night ...madam phone bhi nahin kiye Abhi ko ki pooja mein hu..he waited and left...She acts very dumb at a time...

During Shivratri..she did not even message Abhi...

If she keeps it up to her the credit and damage it's Ok...but why giving pain to Manju??? Chalo Abhi ko bhi pain de thik hai...but who is she to become the cause to inflict pain for Manju???

Like how she made kheer for her...those kind of acts are meaningful and digestable and relatable to bring happiness for your loved ones...

Abhi is ok if pain is given to him but if that creates pain for Manju...then he cannot tolerate..Will Ak tolerate if Abhi gives pain to any Goenkas??? Yet to be seen...

Hey! I never said Abhi is wrong in his anger. He is completely justified...I think most of the people here are aware of my love for Abhimanyu Birla.

I was explaining I don't find ak is at fault. No need for Abhi vs Akshu....thru are Abhira same team.

The thing is I agree she had communication issues, but from where I see, she got a lot better... She have like this from childhood... It's not going to change in day or might not change at all...and I am ok with that.

It's not a crime against humanity.

But she have changed so much, yes she told her parents she is ok., When she clearly wasn't. But with Abhi she is honest now.

After that dining table drama, she could have told him she is ok but she didn't. She told him she is upset. She is telling Abhi how she feels. She is being honest with him from where I see. Yes, she didn't tell Abhi about the "surprise" party because it was a surprise not just for manjari but the whole family. Giving these busy, busy people a medium to enjoy.

And I don't think it's ok for her to hurt Abhi not at all. He have all the right to be mad...even if he understand that ak wasn't wrong. He would still be mad because intensional or not she made things a lot worse.

And as for manjari...ak did this for Manjari...she might have hurt manjari but it's clear as day that she wanted to give manjari what she never had.. intensions matter.

I understand that you want ak to be perfect... But that just make the characters fake. She is making mistakes bit people tend to do that...that doesn't make them bad people.

PS. Ak's character inconsistency, well that annoyed me too. And I am pretending that didn't happen but currently she is the ak I was interduced too.. so, this is about the current track.

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Hey! I never said Abhi is wrong in his anger. He is completely justified...I think most of the people here are aware of my love for Abhimanyu Birla.

I was explaining I don't find ak is at fault. No need for Abhi vs Akshu....thru are Abhira same team.

The thing is I agree she had communication issues, but from where I see, she got a lot better... She have like this from childhood... It's not going to change in day or might not change at all...and I am ok with that.

It's not a crime against humanity.

But she have changed so much, yes she told her parents she is ok., When she clearly wasn't. But with Abhi she is honest now.

After that dining table drama, she could have told him she is ok but she didn't. She told him she is upset. She is telling Abhi how she feels. She is being honest with him from where I see. Yes, she didn't tell Abhi about the "surprise" party because it was a surprise not just for manjari but the whole family. Giving these busy, busy people a medium to enjoy.

And I don't think it's ok for her to hurt Abhi not at all. He have all the right to be mad...even if he understand that ak wasn't wrong. He would still be mad because intensional or not she made things a lot worse.

And as for manjari...ak did this for Manjari...she might have hurt manjari but it's clear as day that she wanted to give manjari what she never had.. intensions matter.

I understand that you want ak to be perfect... But that just make the characters fake. She is making mistakes bit people tend to do that...that doesn't make them bad people.

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Hey! I never said Abhi is wrong in his anger. He is completely justified...I think most of the people here are aware of my love for Abhimanyu Birla.

I was explaining I don't find ak is at fault. No need for Abhi vs Akshu....thru are Abhira same team.

The thing is I agree she had communication issues, but from where I see, she got a lot better... She have like this from childhood... It's not going to change in day or might not change at all...and I am ok with that.

It's not a crime against humanity.

But she have changed so much, yes she told her parents she is ok., When she clearly wasn't. But with Abhi she is honest now.

After that dining table drama, she could have told him she is ok but she didn't. She told him she is upset. She is telling Abhi how she feels. She is being honest with him from where I see. Yes, she didn't tell Abhi about the "surprise" party because it was a surprise not just for manjari but the whole family. Giving these busy, busy people a medium to enjoy.

And I don't think it's ok for her to hurt Abhi not at all. He have all the right to be mad...even if he understand that ak wasn't wrong. He would still be mad because intensional or not she made things a lot worse.

And as for manjari...ak did this for Manjari...she might have hurt manjari but it's clear as day that she wanted to give manjari what she never had.. intensions matter.

I understand that you want ak to be perfect... But that just make the characters fake. She is making mistakes bit people tend to do that...that doesn't make them bad people.

@Bold black- Riddhi..i did not mentioned this in my post..so i donot understand the context here you put...

I am not sure if my post is making Abhi versus Ak....

I am sharing views because now they are married and Ak also needs to give space to Abhi in understanding...Abhi asked her to be ready at 8..she did not even thik about it for a minute that why he asked me? Is he taking me out? surprise?? any plan???

I am not asking for perfect FL...but basic common sense....sorry...

May be giving surprise party for most of you seems reasonable and justified...

But not for me ...it's just the third day and that too when previous two days were not normal at all...Jumping for it..is so uncalled for...the time being....

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

During anger also she is not able to take it then why provoke someone if you can't soothe them...

Here i gave reference of the accident track confrontation between Ak-Abhi at the haysack..

His anger was completely justified...But then Ak baby rather than giving proper answers..asked him not to talk to her in this tone....

So I am telling...pehle she does things so the person is provoked and then she is not able to take that reaction...

Other incident..When Ak was lost the drunken night..Abhi said the same thing -- you do things and then do not expect people to get angry even???

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Very well explained Riddhi...I buy some of it...thank you

But Ak herself always says after doing...sorry Abhi, muje puch lena chaiye tha, muje yeh kar lena tha...but she does not correct herself...after making mistakes after mistakes...sorry kehke nikal jati hai...until someone shows anger, she can't get in her head...During anger also she is not able to take it then why provoke someone if you can't soothe them...

Ak has communication problem..This is the deep personality trait of hers that she prefers to be in lala land....

remember the date night ...madam phone bhi nahin kiye Abhi ko ki pooja mein hu..he waited and left...She acts very dumb at a time...

During Shivratri..she did not even message Abhi...

If she keeps it up to her the credit and damage it's Ok...but why giving pain to Manju??? Chalo Abhi ko bhi pain de thik hai...but who is she to become the cause to inflict pain for Manju???

Like how she made kheer for her...those kind of acts are meaningful and digestable and relatable to bring happiness for your loved ones...

Abhi is ok if pain is given to him but if that creates pain for Manju...then he cannot tolerate..Will Ak tolerate if Abhi gives pain to any Goenkas??? Yet to be seen...

Italic.. this was what I was talking about. I never said it's ok.

Plus it's my perspective. I mentioned in my post that i am talking about current scenario...as, they experimented with ak's character in the past.

As for it being just the third day, that's when pb and manju's anniversary falls. She is a family oriented person. She clearly believe that "you don't just marry a person, but marry in to the family".

I respect your opinion, everyone is entitled to have one. I might have sounded rude but that's because my love for abhi.

Point is , will akshu go out of the way to make abhimanyu happy ? She has always kept him last , except for choosing him over arohi at the last moment , did she keep his happiness first at any instance ? The only one thing he has always demanded / requested is that she shouldn't give up anything that's rightfully hers. Be it abhimanyu or the therapy department or it's as petty as winning the ring game. If abhimanyu is supporting her , and wants to fight for her , she gives it up to maintain peace in the family? If she wanted to do something independently , she shouldn't have accepted the "gift" from her would be . Clearly her aim was pleasing harsh alone an avoid fights. When abhimNyu asked her to not do anything for anniversary she didn't listen.

I will love it , if she tries to keep abhimanyu happy for a change. If she keeps everyone happy but him what's rhe point ? If she does everything by keeping him in loop, by not keeping secrets and listen to him , she can blunder her way through birlas , ok by me

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Italic.. this was what I was talking about. I never said it's ok.

Plus it's my perspective. I mentioned in my post that i am talking about current scenario...as, they experimented with ak's character in the past.

As for it being just the third day, that's when pb and manju's anniversary falls. She is a family oriented person. She clearly believe that "you don't just marry a person, but marry in to the family".

I respect your opinion, everyone is entitled to have one. I might have sounded rude but that's because my love for abhi.

Yes for you it's not OK...we do not approve of it.

But what i have seen...so far is Abhi has taken so much pain for Ak..

..Abhi as a character is ok to accept the pain from AK due to her actions or words...intentional or unintentional..his love is unconditional...Same goes for Ak too ..she will accept her share of pain from situations or person or her loved ones...

Note: I am here for Abhimaniyu Birla's love journey...too...

But you used "Anger" so i could not understand...

Originally posted by: _charu_

Point is , will akshu go out of the way to make abhimanyu happy ? She has always kept him last , except for choosing him over arohi at the last moment , did she keep his happiness first at any instance ? The only one thing he has always demanded / requested is that she shouldn't give up anything that's rightfully hers. Be it abhimanyu or the therapy department . If abhimanyu is supporting her , and wants to fight for her , she gives it up to maintain peace in the family? If she wanted to do something independently , she shouldn't have accepted the "gift" from her would be . Clearly her aim was pleasing harsh alone an avoid fights. When abhimNyu asked her to not do anything for anniversary she didn't listen.

I will love it , if she tries to keep abhimanyu happy for a change. If she keeps everyone happy but him what's rhe point ? If she does everything by keeping him in loop, by not keeping secrets and listen to him , she can blunder her way through birlas , ok by me

Well pointed Charu..

I mentioned this very precisely during accident track fiasco...that when she and Ar ran to admit the accident ...she was faced to Abhi gifting her the department...

I told...where is her self respect????? Instead of owning up the accident hit and run..she accepted gift from him...That was the perfect time for her to refuse the gift...But i said in the context because she was guilty at that time and should not take preference from Birlas when she and Ar left Manju to bleed to death...by refusing she would have shown self-respect...

Some have the POV that because of Abhi's love, she accepted and did not want to hurt him..and then when she was gathering herself to speak, she got panic attack...the entire scene portrayed was very bad...

For me, instead of singing song..she could have confessed..that time she did not get panic attack??? that time she thought because they hit Manju, she is not deserving..she did not think that in other way a that time...