do akshara and abhimanyu really have a traumatic childhood/past? - Page 7

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Akshu definitely had traumatic childhood where Arohi mentally harassed her..abused her physically even...Karmas will certainly get back to Arohi...Even after grown up she tortured Akshu...every second asking for payment to give up her family, lover everything for the situation where Akshu wasn't responsible...

Even Akshu getting panic attacks...Arohi doesn't show mercy..She is ruthless...I don't have good feelings for Arohi...I feel nothing when she gets insulted...Karmas do come back in some or other way...Abhi and Mahima are doing the honours...

Originally posted by: Indira1211

when did Arohi abuse akshara physically ? I don’t remember ever seeing that …which episode did it happen 🤔

She jolts Akshu harshly in the temple with hands..pushing her near the fire. she snatched kangan roughly from her hand without realizing it's hurting her...

she knows from her words she gets panic attacks...panic attacks are physical manifestation...

Arohi even didn't admit in the family that because of her Akshu ran behind the car that caused the accident to Akshu...

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

She jolts Akshu harshly in the temple with hands..pushing her near the fire. she snatched kangan roughly from her hand without realizing it's hurting her...

she knows from her words she gets panic attacks...panic attacks are physical manifestation...

Arohi even didn't admit in the family that because of her Akshu ran behind the car that caused the accident to Akshu...

Originally posted by: Indira1211

in that car accident episode..Arohi had driven off ..and then akshara got hit by the car…she didn’t know akshara got hit by the car until the nurse in the hospital told her,,,and it’s the same as how akshara called Sirat and Sirat fell to her death trying to get to akshara..both were accidents..so we can’t blame either girls…as for the temple scene.If your sister just ran away with your future husband and your wedding got cancelled you will be angry and lose your temper and push your sister, so that’s also understandable..and as for the bangles ..it was arohis tilak ceremony and akshara had on the bangles so she pulled them off because manjeri had brought them for her..So I don’t think we can say Arohi physically abused akshara. Also akshara is almost 2 years older than Arohi ..akshara is arohis big sister, Akshara should have made Arohi treat her like a big sister and she shouldn’t have let herself get spoken to so harshly by Arohi.. if akshara acted like the responsible older sister who made the decisions and guided her younger sister the relationship between the 2 would have been different…this is just my opinion..everyone sees and analyses the characters differently,🤷🏻‍♀️…and this is how I see akshara and Arohi..

Arohi saw Akshara is running behind her from the side mirror. Arohi even said in her mind that when she regains consciousness i will apologize to her but she never did.

Even taking out Kangan shouldn't be that harsh...it's

Akshara kept telling her not to keep blaming her for Sirat's death but she keeps using that every time. Always trying to demean her and her profession in front of others, especially Abhimaniyu..

Yes, as you said..everyone has their own perspective and I respect that 😊

Arohi is well aware of her panic attacks as a doctor...and what triggers that..

Originally posted by: Indira1211

in that car accident episode..Arohi had driven off ..and then akshara got hit by the car…she didn’t know akshara got hit by the car until the nurse in the hospital told her,,,and it’s the same as how akshara called Sirat and Sirat fell to her death trying to get to akshara..both were accidents..so we can’t blame either girls…as for the temple scene.If your sister just ran away with your future husband and your wedding got cancelled you will be angry and lose your temper and push your sister, so that’s also understandable..and as for the bangles ..it was arohis tilak ceremony and akshara had on the bangles so she pulled them off because manjeri had brought them for her..So I don’t think we can say Arohi physically abused akshara. Also akshara is almost 2 years older than Arohi ..akshara is arohis big sister, Akshara should have made Arohi treat her like a big sister and she shouldn’t have let herself get spoken to so harshly by Arohi.. if akshara acted like the responsible older sister who made the decisions and guided her younger sister the relationship between the 2 would have been different…this is just my opinion..everyone sees and analyses the characters differently,🤷🏻‍♀️…and this is how I see akshara and Arohi..

I agree that the reaction that arohi give might be normal then with that logic the reaction which abhi gave to arohi is also normal.

Just quoting it as i just want to give my point in the same line.

If arohi taking out kangan and if she pushing akshu is her normal reaction for the situation then abhi is also behaving normal according to the scenario.

In the first tilak abhi told arohi that he loves akshu.. he even apologized to her politely. Then even he hided the fact that he has told arohi to delete that messages to protect her dignity.

But arohi kept on pressurizing akshu.. when abhi failed to prove his father that akshu loves him he has to oblige to the promise that he made. I.e marrying the girl whom ever his father chooses. Everyone knows whom would harsh will choose.

He tried avoiding this by telling her in the beginning itself that he loves only akshu in the hope that she will deny marrying him. But she never did that.

She agreed. He tried to show her. This would be her married life by showing her that she means nothing in his life..

That bike scene... engagement scene..drunk scene where abhi found with akshu. etc are sort of hints for her to realize. Which she ignored as she wanted to be birla bahu.

Then on the day of wedding when abhi finally accepted this marriage.. he got to know about the truth that whatever he was thinking was incorrect. Akshu lied... arohi lied....

I beileve he would definitely be frustrated to know that arohi is the culprit and he accepted her over akshu. As he would have got his akshu on tilak day if arohi cleared everyones doubts. But he missed to see how she treats or questions her in hospital.. thats the only mistake i see in his character.

He would definitely not show any mercy to her considering she know it all.. also the way she started blaming akshu made him realize she even have tortured akshu by constantly doing emotional blackmail or using sirat's name.

His reaction is normal to me.

This is how i see arohi akshu and abhi.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I agree that the reaction that arohi give might be normal then with that logic the reaction which abhi gave to arohi is also normal.

Just quoting it as i just want to give my point in the same line.

If arohi taking out kangan and if she pushing akshu is her normal reaction for the situation then abhi is also behaving normal according to the scenario.

In the first tilak abhi told arohi that he loves akshu.. he even apologized to her politely. Then even he hided the fact that he has told arohi to delete that messages to protect her dignity.

But arohi kept on pressurizing akshu.. when abhi failed to prove his father that akshu loves him he has to oblige to the promise that he made. I.e marrying the girl whom ever his father chooses. Everyone knows whom would harsh will choose.

He tried avoiding this by telling her in the beginning itself that he loves only akshu in the hope that she will deny marrying him. But she never did that.

She agreed. He tried to show her. This would be her married life by showing her that she means nothing in his life..

That bike scene... engagement scene..drunk scene where abhi found with akshu. etc are sort of hints for her to realize. Which she ignored as she wanted to be birla bahu.

Then on the day of wedding when abhi finally accepted this marriage.. he got to know about the truth that whatever he was thinking was incorrect. Akshu lied... arohi lied....

I beileve he would definitely be frustrated to know that arohi is the culprit and he accepted her over akshu. As he would have got his akshu on tilak day if arohi cleared everyones doubts. But he missed to see how she treats or questions her in hospital.. thats the only mistake i see in his character.

He would definitely not show any mercy to her considering she know it all.. also the way she started blaming akshu made him realize she even have tortured akshu by constantly doing emotional blackmail or using sirat's name.

His reaction is normal to me.

This is how i see arohi akshu and abhi.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes we feel this way about abhimanyu but someone just told me that abhimanyu appeals to them because he’s rude and disrespectful to people who deserve it… So obviously fans like this rude, disrespectful, bossy, bully abhimanyu 🤦🏻‍♀️. You know there was this movie dhadkan with akshay Kumar..in that movie akshays step mom and her kids used to be so rude and unkind to him..but he would always show respect and kindness to them ..and when his wife questioned him why is he being so nice to them..he said that he’s hoping they’ll see his kindness and change one day ..and eventually the stepmom did. Personally my dad always used to say that we should show rude people that we are bigger than them..so we don’t need to meet rudeness with rudeness..if people are rude..you carry on being respectful in your words..you don’t need to stoop down to their level. So I would have preferred an Abhimanyu who had this class,, where he was always dignified and in control..the way he goes around kicking and breaking things is so undignified and unclassy. A man of his level of education who gets so much respect professionally should have more class and social etiquette 🤷🏻‍♀️

Now I know why arohi and harsh are loved so much .😆 Wonder why same behavior from abhimanyu is criticized 🥱 anyways..the context in which I said what I said is as follows.

Yes , we must not.leave our goodness for bad people. Akshara and manjari are waiting for arohi and harshs acceptance . Ek Din aayega when we will see their transformation . Bec this is a serial and dhadkan is a movie , they will have a eureka moment ...akshay Kumar tolerated their nonsense but when they questioned his wife's character, he kicked them out..this is exactly what I like in any character ....but such a moment may never come in real life. The husbands who abuse their wives on daily basis , the mil who mentally abuses her dil, so on and so forth , they must quietly take it bec one day the abuser may realize something ? Are we supporting abuse here or we wanna encourage the weak to stop being a doormat ? Stop bullshitting themselves.

Yes it's my personal choice , I will pick a badtameez abhimanyu and a badtameez naira over characters like akshu ...somebody who can speak their mind and call a spade a spade....I admire akshu and manjaris pertinence but I have seen people around me, suffering ..people like akshu and manjari are made to believe that they are wrong .are we normalizing stockholm syndrome? may I ask if abhimanyu treats akshu the same way after marriage as arohi treats her , she should be nice to him and wait for him to love her ?

@bold. I guess that's what the topic is all about. Abhimanyus undignified and unclassy behavior stems from his traumatic childhood, how he has seen his father ..his helplessness that he is unable to stop his father from interfering in his life , bec his father is connected to him through his mom and his mom loves his father inspite of all the abuse....he can't leave them, ideally he should...abir of yrhpk used to run away and live in camps bec he was fed up of his mom(she was like harsh btw) ..abhimanyu is not doing it but he smartly.keeps an upper hand .

Harsh and Arohis undignified and unclassy behavior stems from their selfishness and superiority complex. That's why I like abhimanyu over them

May I know what efforts did Aarohi put into this marriage?

Everything was served to her ready in a plate and madam on her wedding day ran away from her marriage to give exam.Imagine if the exam wasn't a scam and she wrote the exam and would be late to the venue and hence the wedding would be cancelled,then wouldn't the families hardwork and money be wasted?Would you still not blame Aarohi?

Okay she knew Abhi didn't love her and hoped,rather was confident that he will love her in the future,but how?Did she take atleast a step to impress him,or atleast talk to him or win him?I know he was not even seeing her,but if she claimed she loved him,shouldn't she be putting some efforts to win him?

Every ritual,I repeat each and every ritual has happened with Akshu and the bride herself was least bothered about anything related to Amy ritual or her wedding in general:

1.Aarohi herself asked Akshu to try out her jewelry and clothes.I mean which bride does that?It's your wedding,the shagun has come for you and you are asking your sister to wear them?

2.The card pooja was done in Akshu's name and not Aarohi.

3.Ganesh sthapna was done by Akshu and Abhi not Aarohi.

4.The engagement was not properly done.

5.Mehendi was applied on Akshu's hand and bride did not even have Mehndi on her hand and Aarohi was least bothered about it.

6.Haldi was applied to Akshu before Aarohi.

All of them literally happened in front of her eyes and she was like be cool everything is alright and normal...

Originally posted by: vismaya

May I know what efforts did Aarohi put into this marriage?

Okay she knew Abhi didn't love her and hoped,rather was confident that he will love her in the future,but how?Did she take atleast a step to impress him,or atleast talk to him or win him?I know he was not even seeing her,but if she claimed she loved him,shouldn't she be putting some efforts to win him?

Every ritual,I repeat each and every ritual has happened with Akshu and the bride herself was least bothered about anything related to Amy ritual or her wedding in general:

💯 arohi didn't love him ..she never loved him..she.never would have loved him. She is not "interested" in "love" or "marriage" . She made it clear what she wants ..fame..degree...Birla surname..power couple.. nothing wrong in doing MD and beyond that , no problem with a girl choosing her career over shadi either . But she was using marriage as a card to become a famous Birla doctor plus , get #1 topper husband. If abhimanyu wasn't a Birla and he wasn't a topper , she wouldn't be running after him. Normally a doctors life is tough, they need to work day and night , years after years , to achieve a level of fame . Arohi would get a Jumpstart with birlas , but shortcuts don't work everytime.

Abhimanyu is wrong for what he did but what happened with arohi was her karma. She was trying to get something forcefully which was never hers. She was delusional enuf to not see 🙈 . Bure kaam ka bura natija

Why doesn't Aarohi understand Sirat's fall was as accidental as Akshu's was?

The only unfortunate event was Sirat died and luckily Akshu survived.Amd whatever the reason may be,doesn't give her the right to mentally or physically harass Akshu.She just had an accident the previous day and the so called best 'doctor' was pushing her and hurting her. Did she even realize that there was fire behind her when she pushes her?

An inch of imbalance more and Akshu would have fallen in the havan kund,would you still support her?

And according to you, if Aarohi's manhandling Akshu is a right behavior for the situation, then can Akshu slap her each time she blames her or abuses her,just because she is mentally disturbed by her taunting?