How come everyone can see Aarohi's selfishness and not Abhimanyu's? - Page 5

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

Well hahahehe blocked me 😭

but how many posts do you see from Akshu’s fans applauding her behavior? Oh wait none cause as Akshu’s only fan (me) I’m too much in sadma over her fashion sense

Compared to how many posts we see of people melting over Abhimanyu

why did hahahehe block me? 😭

i guess we're not funny enough 🤣

Akshu kab mujhe message karegi?

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

He wants what he thinks as the best, not what is best for Akshara, hence he is delusional. And his idea of best is already putting her in trouble.

Nopes. You think what's best for akshara is best for akshara , that's also not true . Everybody's idea of best is different , if you find abhi problematic, doesn't mean akshu also looks at him the same way. We r only judging their actions as per our thinking for timepass.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

You think people are whitewashing Aarohi because you are misunderstanding their point. Most of them are appreciating the consistency in her character. The fact the she doesn't claim something she is not. She is rude, brash and will go to any extent to get what she wants. She knows and she says that out loud to everyone to hear. She clearly said everything is fair in her dreams and ambitions. She is not getting support and that is totally fine and understandable.

The moral lecture is given by Abhimanyu and Akshara. But the point is they are hypocrites. Abhimanyu is as selfish, rude and obnoxious as Aarohi, the only slight difference is in how they operate. That's what people have problem with. Aarohi is a monester/demoness/witch, fine. But she is true to herself. She doesn't claim to be mahaan like Akshara.

I don't understand where this is coming from. Arohi had put up a facade of a decent bahu and "just like akshara " , for the longest period of time in s3...she was exactly doing the opposite of what you mentioned. Claim something that she is not . Abhira are hypocrites , so is arohi. She was loud and clear in the temple but only in blaming others , not owing up her mistakes. She lied bec she had to lie but akshu is a liar bec she is in this temple with her fiance ?

There is one thing she is consistent in. Blaming akshu for her mistakes.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Nopes. You think what's best for akshara is best for akshara , that's also not true . Everybody's idea of best is different , if you find abhi problematic, doesn't mean akshu also looks at him the same way. We r only judging their actions as per our thinking for timepass.

I don't claim to understand what is best for Akshara. But I would say since I know the entire equation regarding Akshara's character as an audience who has been presented a 360 degree view. Whereas Abhimanyu doesn't know her like the audience do. For me Akshara is a grown up individual who can think for herself. Yes, she has been conditioned to act in certain and needs the push to open up. I just don't think what Abhimanyu is doing the right thing. Nor do I think he is a good match for her and that I believe he will suffocate her. Let's agree to disagree, coz there isn't more to debate here.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

I am only going to address this part. Nobody whitewashed Aarohi's behavior. I clearly said everywhere I posted Aarohi is not a decent human being.

You think people are whitewashing Aarohi because you are misunderstanding their point. Most of them are appreciating the consistency in her character. The fact the she doesn't claim something she is not. She is rude, brash and will go to any extent to get what she wants. She knows and she says that out loud to everyone to hear. She clearly said everything is fair in her dreams and ambitions. She is not getting support and that is totally fine and understandable.

The moral lecture is given by Abhimanyu and Akshara. But the point is they are hypocrites. Abhimanyu is as selfish, rude and obnoxious as Aarohi, the only slight difference is in how they operate. That's what people have problem with. Aarohi is a monester/demoness/witch, fine. But she is true to herself. She doesn't claim to be mahaan like Akshara.

Whereas in Abhimanyu is so self righteous. That's what he is being called out for. The entire point of this topic is not to whitewash Aarohi but call out Abhimanyu for depicting the same kind of shades.

She only said this to herself and us. Has she confessed this infront of everyone ?. No right.

This behaviour is typical behaviour of kamolika who wanted to win anurag because she was obsessed with him. Vamps will definitely be consistent in all shows. But it does not mean we will golrify there deeds. I understand that you might not be doing it. Its just my general opinion.

When we compare abhi and arohi.

Abhi has made it clear to everyone from the beginning he only loves akshu. He also ensured to be there even though akshu rejected him again and again or she even gifter him to her cruel sister.

He even politely told arohi that he loves akshu and then even hided the fact that he asked her to delete the message as he really cares for her izzath. But that was her first chance to realize her mistake.

She did not realized it then so now abhi again being polite asking her to understand does not make any sense to me. He has to take stand for himself and akshu as he knows akshu will drink poison if arohi asks her to do.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

I don't agree here. The biggest harm he will cause to Akshara. He doesn't even understand her or her priorities. He keeps saying he does, but his actions speaks louder that he doesn't. He is as delusional as Aarohi.

I had no issues when they showed that he fell in love with her in three days. But now I don't honestly what he has for her is love. It is just a very unhealthy obsession and relationships that literally scares me. Akshara is going to be so suffocated because he is so obnoxious. She wanted him to leave and not disrespect her bade papa, but he kept doing it like a psycho.

@HahaHeheHuhu9, We are not gonna agree at all. I know that. Let's agree to disagree and move on. 😅

Obnoxious is too big a word here. Relationships can never be in black and white, people can have different facets and colors to them.

They are not showing a non-existent phenomenon, elopements love failures and the drama has become a common sight in India where marriage is still predominantly decided by elders consent.

For people settled in the west a boyfriend like abhimanyu rings dangerbells because the relationship is between only 2 consenting people. But in a controlled indian setting where there's so many relations involved he is not that dangerous.

In India every male tiger can be domesticated and tamed with marriage.🤣

I am not endorsing abuse of any form by anyone on anyone, I agree that people should made to feel safe and comfortable.

Toxicity is contagious and spreads faster than a virus just by watching the toxicity and discussing about toxicity.

After all what's the point of watching and discussing about something which is toxic.

KEEP SAFE AND STAY SAFE☺️

Idk if this makes sense but I think he does have regard for her, but it’s limited. He has cares for and about her but not her family and her values. Which is problematic because that’s a huge part of who she is. In the future, he’ll likely be okay taking Akshara away from her family (thinking it’s the best decision for her) but that’s the opposite of what she’ll ever want.

He lacks the ability to see things from the other perspective which is why the thought didn’t cross his head that Akshara’s going to have a terrible night with her sister and family enraged at her.

But the one difference between Aarohi and Abhimanyu, and I hope this is the difference people are using to decide whose the “hero” and whose the “villian”, is their intentions. Aarohi’s intentions were to deceive. Although she didn’t lie or start the misunderstanding, she actively hid the truth with the photo drama. Whereas Abhimanyu, however wrong he did, was trying to do right by his love.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Nopes. You think what's best for akshara is best for akshara , that's also not true . Everybody's idea of best is different , if you find abhi problematic, doesn't mean akshu also looks at him the same way. We r only judging their actions as per our thinking for timepass.

Seriously Nairas wardrobe was so good I literally have a Pinterest board dedicated to her outfits post marriage and then there’s Akshu looking like… she needs to change her costume designer