How come everyone can see Aarohi's selfishness and not Abhimanyu's? - Page 4

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

Here’s the thing. You keep bringing in Akshu like we are denying Akshu being wrong. We all know that sweet fashion-challenged child of mine is an idiot and problematic ….

here we are talking about how everyone calls Aarohi selfish but drool over Abhimanyu

Bold: that was directed at the 2nd part of my post. The first part of my post talked about how there are no grounds to even compare Arohi and Abhimanyu.

And italics: if Abhi is being brought in, why not Akshara then? He's as at fault as Akshara here, and he has accepted and apologized for his mistakes in front of everyone. While Arohi has been out to sabotage Akshara's happiness even before Abhimanyu's entry in the show. There's no comparison between Arohi the abuser who is selfish in sapping the life out of Akshara, and Abhimanyu with whom Akshara was visibly exhilarated and liberated in the mandir. Just because people want to hate on Abhimanyu for no reason, there's no need to whitewash an abuser.

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

Sadme mein Main hoon ke meri beti 85 saal se ek e dress pehn ke ghoom rahi hai..tu Kyun Abhimanyu ki tarah Daanth nikal ke hahahehe kar rahi ho? 😡

JIJA TOUCHED A LIGHT BULB AND IT WAS HOT

HAHA HEHE HUHU 🤣

The answer is very simple. He wants the best for akshu and aroho wants the worst for akshu.

THIS IS A THREAD ABOUT ABHIMANYU AND AAROHI, NOT AKSHARA.

DISCLAIMER: AKSHARA IS ALSO WRONG. 🙄

Originally posted by: _charu_

The answer is very simple. He wants the best for akshu and aroho wants the worst for akshu.

He wants what he thinks as the best, not what is best for Akshara, hence he is delusional. And his idea of best is already putting her in trouble.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

He wants what he thinks as the best, not what is best for Akshara, hence he is delusional. And his idea of best is already putting her in trouble.

bUt He LoVeS hEr

some of y’all sound like my ex’s mother 🤢

Well hahahehe blocked me 😭

but how many posts do you see from Akshu’s fans applauding her behavior? Oh wait none cause as Akshu’s only fan (me) I’m too much in sadma over her fashion sense

Compared to how many posts we see of people melting over Abhimanyu

why did hahahehe block me? 😭

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Bold: that was directed at the 2nd part of my post. The first part of my post talked about how there are no grounds to even compare Arohi and Abhimanyu.

And italics: if Abhi is being brought in, why not Akshara then? He's as at fault as Akshara here, and he has accepted and apologized for his mistakes in front of everyone. While Arohi has been out to sabotage Akshara's happiness even before Abhimanyu's entry in the show. There's no comparison between Arohi the abuser who is selfish in sapping the life out of Akshara, and Abhimanyu with whom Akshara was visibly exhilarated and liberated in the mandir. Just because people want to hate on Abhimanyu for no reason, there's need to whitewash an abuser.

All the posts made in pasts really hints towards this fact that people are okay to accept arohi and whitewash her just because they hate abhimanyu.

I wanted to avoid commenting here but anyways i will just post my pov. Everyone are free to agree and disagree.

Arohi: she is jealous with akshu from childhood. She never liked sharing her mom. Then her mom died she blamed it on akshu so that akshu leaves her with the guilt. Akshu did that. She left goenka for almost 3 years. She came back because she felt arohi has accepted her but she realized it was kairav who wrote that letter.

Then akshu wanted to go to picnic arohi kept a condition that she has to leave everyone then only she will attend the picnic.people might say akshu is free to do whatever she likes but she always kept aru above herself. She agreed for that as well. She was supoosed to leave but panic attack changed the game.

Then in iccha kund scene she made a statement i dont get anything that i like. If i dont get it this time i will be shattered . Akshu changed her wish for that..

Arohi went on doing this everytime. After her suicide attempt after that fire incident.. so on...

She knew exactly how to control akshara and she did that.

Now comes abhi. The only mistake that abhi did was he was unable to asses the relationship between two sisters. He might have assumed that arohi would be like akshara. He went with the flow. He tried to bring her feelings out.. i am not supporting him on dragging on bike thing but he was still attempting her to accept her feeling.. He never tried committing suicide to force akshu to confess. He even ignored her calls on the day of wedding as he accepted that he is going to marry arohi. But that pic changed entire feeling and now its a do or die situation for him.

Either he has to make her confess her love so that he can assure manjari that he will only marry akshara no one else. So he knew by looking at the photo that unless his life is in danger akshu will never confess her feelings. He took that step.

And voila she confessed.

But he never forced her to do that if she really does not care for him she can very well ignore him go back. Why should she even cared to come to that place.

If akshu is selfless and abhi also becomes selfless relation wont stay long. As both will end up sacrificing for everyone else.

We need someone who complements akshara for her selfless character which abhi has.

Regarding todays epi he only wanted to convince goenkas along with her. He does not want to leave her alone.

Sorry for the long post. But here are my points.

No now I'm not angry with Akshu because I pity her, the girl herself doesn't know the meaning of love. And to even start with how will she understand she got parents love for couple of months now then they died.

She got Sirat but her sister had turned it in a competition, for the sake of her responsibility she left her family and now was all alone. Further when she went to the Mask festival she met a Boy who gave her attention which wasn't divided with her sister it was wholey n souly hers. She thought that's love n for me that is fairly understand able when you are disappointed in everything even small things give you hope.

She sacrificed Abhi under the manipulation of her sister, who took what she wanted n rubbed it in her face. Then came Abhimanyu the soul wala pyar person, he who claims to love her like his Guide Mahadev, well funny it is when Sati had burned herself Mahadev didn't go searching for sisters. He knew from first that Sati Devi was going to die after getting insulted but still didn't stop her n this is love to respect others opinion not what Jija was claiming.😡

Ik the story but didn't tell the other part of Mahadev know cuz I was waiting for the right time, Agreed that Akshu didn't speak for herself n trust me I'm also disappointed like you. But she confessed cuz Abhi n her sister manipulated her. So now I pity this girl instead of Abhi its Akshu who should be taught what its love ?😭

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

All the posts made in pasts really hints towards this fact that people are okay to accept arohi and whitewash her just because they hate abhimanyu.

I wanted to avoid commenting here but anyways i will just post my pov. Everyone are free to agree and disagree.

I am only going to address this part. Nobody whitewashed Aarohi's behavior. I clearly said everywhere I posted Aarohi is not a decent human being.

You think people are whitewashing Aarohi because you are misunderstanding their point. Most of them are appreciating the consistency in her character. The fact the she doesn't claim something she is not. She is rude, brash and will go to any extent to get what she wants. She knows and she says that out loud to everyone to hear. She clearly said everything is fair in her dreams and ambitions. She is not getting support and that is totally fine and understandable.

The moral lecture is given by Abhimanyu and Akshara. But the point is they are hypocrites. Abhimanyu is as selfish, rude and obnoxious as Aarohi, the only slight difference is in how they operate. That's what people have problem with. Aarohi is a monester/demoness/witch, fine. But she is true to herself. She doesn't claim to be mahaan like Akshara.

Whereas in Abhimanyu is so self righteous. That's what he is being called out for. The entire point of this topic is not to whitewash Aarohi but call out Abhimanyu for depicting the same kind of shades.