How come everyone can see Aarohi's selfishness and not Abhimanyu's? - Page 7

Originally posted by: In_love

This is what character growth all about .

Ak think too much about family. Doesn't priorities herself.

Abhi doesn't think about family when it's come to his happiness.

Abhi teach ak about " khudase khudka risha" and love ourself first

Ak realise abhi how it's important to include family try connect with them.

Ps- it's my pov.

I would actually like to see that

Originally posted by: aishapl013

Iss bachi ka kuch nahi ho sakta,

Arre I was Angry on this sister toh dhyaan nahi diya, You should be proud ke main kitna undivided attention deti hoon tumhari bachhi ko jija se bhi jyada☺️

Koi toh de!

bachi hai meri mandir ki carpet nahi ke jis Ka Mann kiya woh step karle uspe

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

Koi toh de!

bachi hai meri mandir ki carpet nahi ke jis Ka Mann kiya woh step karle uspe

I wanted Goenkas to fall down from that darn mandir ke seediyan 😡

Nahi toh mujhe bul lo main ek ek ko dhakel deti, I hate fake log Birlas I respect cuz jaise hain mooh par hain. They only care about their reputation n they prove that.

But Goenkas say we love our fam jhoote kahi ke, itne saalon se beheno ka Mahabharat nahi dekh sake, aur dekhake ignore karte hain. Yeh kya baat huyi ab ???🤬

Originally posted by: MimiLulu

BEFORE I GO TO BED

guys a lot of people need to stop taking what someone is saying about Abhimanyu or Akshu to heart

why: it’s a fictional show…with fictional characters that will do a 180 in a second if the writers want….they will make sense, they won’t make sense, they will frustrate some of us, they will make us fall in love with them etc etc

i see so many people here get offended and block people because someone else doesn’t like Abhimanyu or Akshu or whatever. Chill.

We are all here because for one reason or another we watch this show…Maybe we are a HC fan or a Pranu fan or maybe we like the story or like I have unofficially adopted Pranu and now are delusional enough to think Akshu is my child or maybe like bakwas someone is in love with Coconut Bhaiya or maybe like ekah someone wants to write a philosophy book or maybe like ChaiTea someone is in love with HC or maybe like PRANJU someone enjoys being fake or maybe like inTOXICator, you are trying to see what to NOT have In your future bf or maybe we don’t really have a life. If your like me you work all day and this is your only source of entertainment 😭

anyways whatever the reason, chill. It’s not that deep. We watch the show, discuss the FICTIONAL characters….move on. Don’t take it too personally unless you too are frustrated with Akshu’s dress sense..now that’s something to get upset about 😡

Word!

Do I have to bring up the blue dress poll again?😆

There are no hard facts here. Fictional characters are subjective, they trigger top down neural processing - for subjective contexts, perception IS reality and two people's perceived realities can be completely different. What's there to argue about so strenously? No one's ever changed a hard-held opinion because of being browbeaten by a faceless stranger on the internet🤣

I don’t want to reduce my disgust for Arohis behaviour today by bringing her into a discussion about Abhi - his behaviour doesn’t reduce what she did today. If I don’t get what I want the second best prize is making sure Akshu doesn’t get it. And the Goenkas are actually putting her crimes on par with Akshus.

BUT YES, A BIG RESOUNDING YES. Abhi today did everything I dislike about him. Actually let’s go to yesterday and his dialogue. I don’t know if anyone noticed that yesterday he said to bade papa, “Akshu evoke her promises to me because she didn’t want to break her promise to her sister”. No Abhi Akshu didn’t break her promises to you. She didn’t make any promise to you. Yes she fell in love with you, yes she likes you, yes I am glad she finally managed to express what she wants (though I’m not sure why she wants it). But she didn’t make any promise to you. What she was doing is giving up her desires silently and allowing her sister to manipulate her way into getting credit for Akshus actions and getting a marriage proposal form the Birlas.

Today, he has made Akshus situation worse by rubbing his arrogance in the face of Bade Papa and deserted his brother and mother. I have lesser sympathy for his mother because after all she is part of the reason for this almost marriage to Arohi. But he has deserted the brother who did everything for him. He just like Arohi is throwing his toys out of the pram when he doesn’t get what hr wants.

He is also showing a singular unwilling and lack of desire to really know his lady love. He still doesn’t want to understand the struggle Akshu has faced and will face.

However much I dislike the things he does, I still have to admit he doesn’t have the double faced, lying cheating destructive nature of Arohi. She is on a different level altogether.

Abhimanyu needs to calm down, maybe he is regressing because he skipped the attraction stage during adolescence period, now a grown man is acting like a teenager. The antics at Akshu's house gave arohi more firepower to g asaslight the situation. He just came from the mandir having broken down his alliance with the sister now doing nibba nibbi stuff with akshara is like weird, atleast wait a week or two, dude. How can you impose so much on Akshara in a day!

Jija ji is an expert blackmailer. He is resigning bcz he knows how important that is for his family. So now he will use that to get them to talk the goenkas into marrying akshu to him.. Instead of apologising to his family for the dhabba he has brought on their hard earned reputation, he will bludgeon his way out.. Just like he agreed to marry Aarohi in order to harass akshu and blackmailed akshu to go behind her family..

Abhi is not toxic or selfish. He is simply in love. Everyone is so worried about the reputation of the family but nobody cares that three prople would have been unhappy for the rest of their lives. Abhi didnt agree to marry Arohi to harass Akshu but to make his mom happy. He went through a lot of pain. He knew she loved him and her antics told him she loved him. Why does he have to act like a mahan and think about everyone and family first. Why can't he just be happy and show his love for Akshu. Of course he knows that they wont agree right now for the marriage but he said na they will fight together and he will make them agree. I wouldn't want to leave my love too after that person confessed in front of everyone. For once he forgot all the pain and is happy. His father never treated his wife with respect and Abhi stood up for her always. But for once she should stand up for herself and not let him treat her like that. Abhi doesnt' need to sacrifice just because his father could let out his anger on mom and brother. They are old enough to look after themselves. Why should he stay in the house or in the hospital? He just stayed for his mother but if his father throws him out he has no reason to see that person. He took the extrreme step to make Akshu confess because he knew she would have kept quiet.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

How is that people conveniently not seeing how Abhimanyu is as selfish as Aarohi. Patience suna hai yeh idiot doctor? So much happened. Their youngest kid's marriage broke on the wedding day. Why can't he just give them time and space to heal? Like Manish said, why is he bloody forcing this on them? Why isn't he thinking of Akshara having to deal with Aarohi? This man is as selfish and as dangerous to Akshara. Is he actually in love with her or just obsessed?

He is more delusional than Aarohi. The fact the he said, I am feeling so much at ease and peace, Akshu might also be feeling the same is proof that he knows zilch about her, and doesn't think about her. He just wants her. Uske aage, he doesn't care what she is going through as long as she says she loves him.

Who would want a partner like that with all the "soul" connection, who doesn't even try to understand their partner? I wish, he just left after checking upon her after saying bye, and figured out the equation between the sisters first, gave the family time, instead of such creepy obsessed behavior. Akshara will suffocate in this relationship. Akshara's relationship with both Aarohi and Abhimanyu are so unhealthy. I think she is so emotionally wrecked at this point she doesn't know to differentiate between healthy relationships and obsession, because the core nature of her relationship with Aarohi and Abhimanyu is the same, the only difference is the way the dynamics being played out. I really want to say Akshara deserves it, but I feel bad for her. From where to where has she gotten herself into..😒

Absolutely false.

He was the only one who cared for Akshara's feelings and emotions towards her sister and stood up in her defence in the mandir scene.

And if the Goenkas can go ahead with Arohi's wedding the very next day after Akshu's fatal accident, and can switch rishta from Akshara to Arohi and be happy for Arohi (without caring about Akshara) in a matter of minutes during 1st tilak, then they should very well not need time and space now for accepting Akshara and Abhimanyu.

Abhimanyu cares about Akshara's feelings and emotions. This has been established by the show from day 1. He can't magically deduce the sisters' dynamics unless Akshara opens her mouth and tells him.

Arohi is the bully and the abuser here. Just so that people want to hate on Abhimanyu for no reason, Arohi can't be whitewashed.

Agree with u 👏👏...Accident thing omg 😲..No one asked how it happened..No one cared for Akshu except Abhi ...Arohi hide that too that accident happened becoz of her ...