Aarohi vs Akshara - why one has more substance than the other! - Page 5

Exactly. But I'm surprised how did Manish Swarna and all of them let this happen of akshu being away. When it comes to arohi for sure shes going to create problems for Akshara and Abhimanyu.

I don't know how people are blindly supporting Aarohi character. Are they all seeing only the past 1 week episode haven't they seen episodes where young akshu and aarohi where shown. Aarohi was always competiting with Akshu even when they were young. Her coming to know akshu is not her sister was just a chance for her to openly show her jealous and not caring attitude. Even if Sirat didn't die aarohi would have acted like this with akshu.

What's with her calling Akshu as sautelee isn't aarohi is the one who is the step sister. God someone knock that sense into her.

To those people who can see Aarohi's pain and not Akshu's. Yes Aarohi lost her mother but it clearly wasn't anyone's fault it was sirat who wants to save akshu and went their and that time aarohi blamed I can accept that since she was in pain. But even after 12 years she is holding this grudge is too much. If she doesn't want to talk then she need not but she has go and taunt her and ask her to get out of her own house.

To people who think Akshu doesn't have a backbone the girl has it you can say it from the reply she gave to Mahima. The girl lost her mother few months after her birth then no one told her about this. She has been calling another woman her mother and comes to know about her birth from someone else. God knows no one would have talked about her birth mother to her. Then before coming to terms with her own mother she even losses her step mother and bears it's guilt.

Her one flaw that I could see is taking all of aarohi's tantrum and this is happening only because she herself hasn't yet forgiven herself for what happened to sirat.

To those people who think Akshu is not ambitious.

Everyone need not go around getting state rank scores and fight for top rank to know they are ambitious. If anyone who is strong independent and ambitious it's akshu in this story. Despite all those hurt, gulit, suffering and panic attacks the girl still faces everyone with a brave heart. She had lived independent and alone for the three years away from family.

If anyone who has clear ambition in this story then it's akshu the girl wants connect with herself well and work in NGO to help people like her and she had taken her first step for it too.

If Aarohi was as ambitious and independent like that she should have gone to BIRLA hospital to apply for a job not to look over some handsome doctor.

P. S : these were simply my opinion over akshu and aarohi please don't take it to heart.

Arohi has always been jealous of akshara for no reason. She does not need any reason to hate her.

Originally posted by: lovereading14

She might be educated but she is clearly not ambitious, and she is not strong. A typical FL. Because any woman who is career oriented, even the slightest bit modern and wears pants and t-shirt is of course villainous and and an out right vamp.

She is not weak because of her panic attacks... i never said that in fact kudos for displaying mental trauma as a very real thing. She is weak because she doesn't have backbone, she is weak because she can't give it back to her sister and she is weak because she can't stand up for herself.

My point is the fact that aarohi is very easily termed selfish for her bitterness and egoistic for her trauma. Just because akshara's trauma has taken the face of panica attacks and aarohi's has taken a more self destructive and bitter form akshara automatically becomes the bechaari and Aarohi becomes egoistic? People deal with trauma in different ways, trauma takes different forms. They both faced childhood trauma, but forget helping Aarohi through her bitterness and projected anger but she was neglected and her trauma was not even acknowledged. There is no empathy for her but buckets and buckets for Akshara.

Bold:SHE WAS A CHILD! she saw the way her mother was treated, she knows her mother was always second best and she knows she will never be loved the way Akshara is. Akshara is not only clingy but down right annoying (the actress doesn't really help either). And Akshara is older she should no better. She is reminded everyday that she is not good enough, that akshara os the favourite and that is why she has a burning need to come first, that is why she is so competitive. So why no understanding for her?

How can you say she is not ambitious or strong she took on Dr. Mahima and came out on top in that argument that in my opinion is far note strong than anything arohi have done so far that is blaming her sister who doesn't even fight her.

Akshu has a spine and backbone to give back to someone who is far more ahead in everything than her sister arohi. And as I said the only fault akshara has is not telling her sister to grow up and smell the coffee and behave like a mature adult rathar than a toddler with a tantrum.

As you said people deals with trauma in different ways yet you termed her weak because of how she deals with her trauma. If akshara's trauma makes her weak arohi's trauma makes her bitter. Atleast akshara doesn't treat people like shit because of her trauma.

Bold: she is literally a year older then her and why should she know better she has more baggage than arohi and she has more reason to resent arohi as it was her mother who replaced naira literally after 3 months after everything she did for that house and her father. And didn't even bother to tell her about naira.

Arohi was child accepted but it doesn't give her any right to treat her sister like that and her mother should have taught her that way more firmly then she did. Rather then emotionally blackmailing akshu to behan ka dhyan rakhna promises.

Being someone's favorite is not upto akshara it's upto people who makes her favorite people can prefer anyone they want to prefer. It's a choice and if she doesn't have problem with people who prefer akshara over she has no business taking her bitterness out on akshara.

Exactly!

Just because Akshara is elder,she should forget her pain and trauma and run behind her bratty sister,who doesn't even listen to her?

She better stop trying to win over Aarohi,let her herself realize Akshu's worth,if at all she does anytime.

Originally posted by: hari15

I don't know how people are blindly supporting Aarohi character. Are they all seeing only the past 1 week episode haven't they seen episodes where young akshu and aarohi where shown. Aarohi was always competiting with Akshu even when they were young. Her coming to know akshu is not her sister was just a chance for her to openly show her jealous and not caring attitude. Even if Sirat didn't die aarohi would have acted like this with akshu.

What's with her calling Akshu as sautelee isn't aarohi is the one who is the step sister. God someone knock that sense into her.

To those people who can see Aarohi's pain and not Akshu's. Yes Aarohi lost her mother but it clearly wasn't anyone's fault it was sirat who wants to save akshu and went their and that time aarohi blamed I can accept that since she was in pain. But even after 12 years she is holding this grudge is too much. If she doesn't want to talk then she need not but she has go and taunt her and ask her to get out of her own house.

To people who think Akshu doesn't have a backbone the girl has it you can say it from the reply she gave to Mahima. The girl lost her mother few months after her birth then no one told her about this. She has been calling another woman her mother and comes to know about her birth from someone else. God knows no one would have talked about her birth mother to her. Then before coming to terms with her own mother she even losses her step mother and bears it's guilt.

Her one flaw that I could see is taking all of aarohi's tantrum and this is happening only because she herself hasn't yet forgiven herself for what happened to sirat.

To those people who think Akshu is not ambitious.

Everyone need not go around getting state rank scores and fight for top rank to know they are ambitious. If anyone who is strong independent and ambitious it's akshu in this story. Despite all those hurt, gulit, suffering and panic attacks the girl still faces everyone with a brave heart. She had lived independent and alone for the three years away from family.

If anyone who has clear ambition in this story then it's akshu the girl wants connect with herself well and work in NGO to help people like her and she had taken her first step for it too.

If Aarohi was as ambitious and independent like that she should have gone to BIRLA hospital to apply for a job not to look over some handsome doctor.

P. S : these were simply my opinion over akshu and aarohi please don't take it to heart.

Bold: There is no blind support, it is very obvious she is going to become a vamp and then there will be nothing to support for (an honest wast of talent and potential) . I have seen on the forum a lack of empathy for aarohi and unconditional support for Akshara, my main motive was to shed light and Aarohi's characterisation and perspective.

Blue: Maybe, maybe not. one can't make definitive statements in iffy scenarios. But Sirat's death only acts to make her character and reaction more real and evoke sympathy for her.

Pink: My very point about the general attitude of people towards aarohi as the other person, the outsider. The goenka's too look at her that way. That is the reason she is so alone, that is the reason she has to think about herself first, that is why she is under constant pressure to prove herself. Also they are each others step sisters, no one is the particular other.

Green: Yes yes akshara faced trauma too, but it is the other way round. Everyone can see Akshara's pain but not aarohi's. My point is the fact that aarohi is very easily termed selfish for her bitterness and egoistic for her trauma. Just because akshara's trauma has taken the face of panic attacks and aarohi's has taken a more self destructive and bitter form akshara automatically becomes the bechaari and Aarohi becomes egoistic? People deal with trauma in different ways, trauma takes different forms. They both faced childhood trauma, but forget helping Aarohi through her bitterness and projected anger but she was neglected and her trauma was not even acknowledged. There is no empathy for her but buckets and buckets for Akshara.

For the whole ambition arguement have a look at my previous response, i'm to lazy to type it again 😆

Purple: just general discussions and opinions dw :)

Originally posted by: lovereading14

Bold: There is no blind support, it is very obvious she is going to become a vamp and then there will be nothing to support for (an honest wast of talent and potential) . I have seen on the forum a lack of empathy for aarohi and unconditional support for Akshara, my main motive was to shed light and Aarohi's characterisation and perspective.

Blue: Maybe, maybe not. one can't make definitive statements in iffy scenarios. But Sirat's death only acts to make her character and reaction more real and evoke sympathy for her.

Pink: My very point about the general attitude of people towards aarohi as the other person, the outsider. The goenka's too look at her that way. That is the reason she is so alone, that is the reason she has to think about herself first, that is why she is under constant pressure to prove herself. Also they are each others step sisters, no one is the particular other.

Green: Yes yes akshara faced trauma too, but it is the other way round. Everyone can see Akshara's pain but not aarohi's. My point is the fact that aarohi is very easily termed selfish for her bitterness and egoistic for her trauma. Just because akshara's trauma has taken the face of panic attacks and aarohi's has taken a more self destructive and bitter form akshara automatically becomes the bechaari and Aarohi becomes egoistic? People deal with trauma in different ways, trauma takes different forms. They both faced childhood trauma, but forget helping Aarohi through her bitterness and projected anger but she was neglected and her trauma was not even acknowledged. There is no empathy for her but buckets and buckets for Akshara.

For the whole ambition arguement have a look at my previous response, i'm to lazy to type it again 😆

Purple: just general discussions and opinions dw :)

We'll have to wait and see for how long they'll play in aarohi's grey shade before making her a complete vamp...

Like aarohi said in last episode.. When akshu was awarded first.. Inspite of aarohi coming first.. It triggered insecurity in her.. They was akshu was counting all the problems naira has solved for goenkas.. I'm guessing there was quite an amount of naira jap that went on in the house through their growing up years which fuelled these insecurities in her..

At the end of the day we will be in a phase where she does something irrational that how much ever we try to empathise with aarohi we can't justify it..

I feel pranali's performance affects our opinions to an extent.. Right now even if they want to show her as a strong person and ambitious.. It is not coming across that way... Lets see how story progresses and I wish the actor uses her full potential to convince us that she's not a Doormat FL

Green:In that case,you are saying that Akshu is weak just because she gets panic attacks and Aarohi is strong just because she is dealing with it without expressing it?

Of Goenkas didn't care or love Aarohi,they wouldn't let Akshu leave the house in the first place.Abd in how much ever trauma Aarohi maybe,what or who gives her the right to blame Akshu for everything and ask her to go out of her own house?

Originally posted by: vismaya

Green:In that case,you are saying that Akshu is weak just because she gets panic attacks and Aarohi is strong just because she is dealing with it without expressing it?

Of Goenkas didn't care or love Aarohi,they wouldn't let Akshu leave the house in the first place.Abd in how much ever trauma Aarohi maybe,what or who gives her the right to blame Akshu for everything and ask her to go out of her own house?

She is not weak because of her panic attacks... i never said that in fact kudos for displaying mental trauma as a very real thing. She is weak because she doesn't have backbone, she is weak because she can't give it back to her sister and she is weak because she can't stand up for herself. Her trauma is more visible and the conventional form trauma takes, this why there is more sympathy for her. Aarohi is hurting too but you are unable to see beyond Akshara and so are the Goenkas.

As I said earlier, Goenkas do love Aarohi just like they love Akshu,but can't Aarohi see that beyond her mindset that Akshu was responsible for Sirat's death?

If they didn't love Aarohi, they wouldn't let Akshu leave at all,but they kept quiet only because of Aarohi's happiness.

But shouldn't the family correct the child's mistake?what does Aarohi expect?That she can blame Akshu baselessly of buttering their mother because she is the step daughter,blame her for Sirat's death,blaming her of stealing her happiness and still everyone should keep quiet and bear her tantrums?Just because they scold her or reprimand her,doesn't mean the family doesn't love her.If Akshu will make any mistake,they will scold her too.

And what Aarohi has been blaming Akshu of sharing her mother,Akshu can do the same thing and blame her for having to share her father with Aarohi,but is she doing that?