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Posted: 7 years ago
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Both the families - Singhanias and Goenkas came together to patch up between Karthik and Naira , but are Singhanias mentally and emotionally ready for it ?

Today Naitik bursted for no reason. He just heard Surekha asking Naira not to go in front of Suwarna, and she spoke very politely with absolutely no spite. It was an advice which was good for the time being but Naitik just listening to those words flew out of handle and then was supported by Keerthi and Naksh.


I don't blame them for reacting like this as they are possessive about Naira and their past experience with Goenkas have turned them like this.


Today Goenkas were quiet as they were at fault, but for how long would they be, if Singhanias continue with their bitter words, as these words are only going to create a rift between the families.


Naitik wants his daughter to be healed, but before that he needs to heal himself as well as his family too coz they have turned so bitter due to past experience that they are ready to fight and break Naira's marriage for any thing which they feel according to them is wrong without trying to seek truth.


This is more dangerous .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Although this is true, singhania family's bitterness isn't doing anywhere near that much harm to this situation or kaira's marriage than the goenka's silence and their inability to talk to swarna with more firmness is.

Even if singhania's try to stay calm, understanding and say nothing, the goenka's are practically doing so much harm by staying in fear of swarna's behaviour and reactions, that neither of them are confronting her or telling her what they should really tell her, and that is that just because she lost one son, she is ruining her other son's life by forcing him to stay away from the girl he loves more than his own life and forcing him to break his marriage by emotionally blackmailing him and guilting him just to get him to do as she wants.


Goenka's are the one's who need to make it loud and clear to swarna that by living in the past, she is not only ruining all the relationships, but punishing them all and making them all suffer. They also need to say to her that all this time she has tagged naira as being responsible for shubham's death without even allowing her or asking her to explain what had happened, with them also explaining to her that karthik used to hate her, but naira was the one because of whom he started considering her his mother, and whom removed hatred for her out of karthik's heart, so how can she break naira's marriage with karthik so selfishly when naira selflessly got swarna karthik's love?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Naitik was not wrong.
Coupled with the fact the goenkas have a history of blaming naira for anything and everything. How is a father to remain quiet when his daughter is being told not to show her face to suvarna it doesnt matter in what tone it was told...
But what on earth did naira do to deserve that?
She was the one who saved suvarna but she gets no thanks...rather she is told didi got sick because kartik and her were together.
Kartik knew himself as a grown man what would happen if naira was seen there.
Yet he stayed there...He continued as her professor...
I think its high time naitik stood up for her. Because naira sure as hell wont because of her nature of being innately sweet and respectful.
Someone needs to put their foot down. Its harder to stomach watching the singhanias kiss the goenkas ass's...
When because of them mainly suvarna naira's entire life is ruined...
It took the goenkas two years to figure out kartik is suffering and try to unite him and naira.
Two damn years...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17

Although this is true, singhania family's bitterness isn't doing anywhere near that much harm to this situation or kaira's marriage than the goenka's silence and their inability to talk to swarna with more firmness is.

Even if singhania's try to stay calm, understanding and say nothing, the goenka's are practically doing so much harm by staying in fear of swarna's behaviour and reactions, that neither of them are confronting her or telling her what they should really tell her, and that is that just because she lost one son, she is ruining her other son's life by forcing him to stay away from the girl he loves more than his own life and forcing him to break his marriage by emotionally blackmailing him and guilting him just to get him to do as she wants.


Goenka's are the one's who need to make it loud and clear to swarna that by living in the past, she is not only ruining all the relationships, but punishing them all and making them all suffer. They also need to say to her that all this time she has tagged naira as being responsible for shubham's death without even allowing her or asking her to explain what had happened, with them also explaining to her that karthik used to hate her, but naira was the one because of whom he started considering her his mother, and whom removed hatred for her out of karthik's heart, so how can she break naira's marriage with karthik so selfishly when naira selflessly got swarna karthik's love?


Exactly. You can't blame a family for standing up to their daughter for once, she has been kicked out so many times by her in laws..
And what the hell have Goenkas done? They are letting this crazy person dictate their lives like she is some messiah. Swarna needs medical help, they know it.. and still they don't do a thing about it? What even?

I'd say Singhanias are too unrealistic.. I would NEVER let a member of my family near such a crazy person. I totally expect Swarna to either write a suicide note blaming Naira and committing suicide OR better yet.. killing off Naira. Swarna is giving me that crazy vibes (THIS after fast forwarding her scenes like plague) I have no clue how you guys are watching her without banging your heads on the wall. 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Precap was misleading while watching precap I also though Naitik overreacted but when I watched entire episode...I believed he was justified in his outburst most of all thankfully he was given new dialogues...as much as it is Karthik's flaw not being able to see beyond "ma ka dard" all of them are responsible for it Manish, KD and Surekha...because they are not deeply indebted to Suwarna or deeply connected to Suwarna to see beyond the emotional aspect the way Karthik is being shown lately...why not get her treated?...why they gave her so much authority?...for her life?...but living in hatred and denial is the best kind of life...its all of their fault...not to speak truth infront of Suwarna...not to wake her up from deep slumber...nobody suggested them to give up on mental patient...but mental patient roaming around and driving isn't good for herself and mankind too...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

Precap was misleading while watching precap I also though Naitik overreacted but when I watched entire episode...I believed he was justified in his outburst most of all thankfully he was given new dialogues...as much as it is Karthik's flaw not being able to see beyond "ma ka dard" all of them are responsible for it Manish, KD and Surekha...because they are not deeply indebted to Suwarna or deeply connected to Suwarna to see beyond the emotional aspect the way Karthik is being shown lately...why not get her treated?...why they gave her so much authority?...for her life?...but living in hatred and denial is the best kind of life...its all of their fault...not to speak truth infront of Suwarna...not to wake her up from deep slumber...nobody suggested them to give up on mental patient...but mental patient roaming around and driving isn't good for herself and mankind too...


@red : Exactly. It's not good for the society. She could have killed someone in her road rage. What then? Oh wait, richie rich Goenkas will buy some more witnesses and save her but won't get her treated.
Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: vellainsaan


@red : Exactly. It's not good for the society. She could have killed someone in her road rage. What then? Oh wait, richie rich Goenkas will buy some more witnesses and save her but won't get her treated.


they did that when mansi killed nairas mom.. so i wouldnt put it past them to do that again with swarna... i think they all are gone pagal with swarna and naira is honestly better off without them... i thought the whole point of the leap was for them to yeah be angry but then start working their differences out... but they still stuck in the past so there was no need for leap... story literally picked up from when shubham died... if they just wanted kaira separate what was the point of the past 2 months... they were already living separate... there was no point in sending kartik to mumbai... and no point in making it look like they were finally starting to be together
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I sincerely expect that suvarna confronted kartik on why he did it instead of road rage drama and I won't see your face . It really makes me go mad at the writers. But seems like they don't have any justification for suvarna s behavior too, just forcefully keep kaira away from each other .

Coming to the point , surekha did a good thing by updating naira on suvarna s mental condition ... naitik's outburst was overdue as his points were bang on , whether or not the timing was correct ( kartik and suvarna must be given a lecture on this, not surekha) . It's entirely the fault of kartik and goenka family that naira was present at that point . They were the ones who raised her hopes that this relationship can be mended..They initiated it..If suvarna saw naira and kartik together, it's kartiks fault. He hid the truth that he was meeting naira and continued living in the same building .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

I sincerely expect that suvarna confronted kartik on why he did it instead of road rage drama and I won't see your face . It really makes me go mad at the writers. But seems like they don't have any justification for suvarna s behavior too, just forcefully keep kaira away from each other .

Coming to the point , surekha did a good thing by updating naira on suvarna s mental condition ... naitik's outburst was overdue as his points were bang on , whether or not the timing was correct ( kartik and suvarna must be given a lecture on this, not surekha) . It's entirely the fault of kartik and goenka family that naira was present at that point . They were the ones who raised her hopes that this relationship can be mended..They initiated it..If suvarna saw naira and kartik together, it's kartiks fault. He hid the truth that he was meeting naira and continued living in the same building .


Which reminds me.. he gave a lecture to Manish about how he should have told Swarna about Naira during that anniversary party while he himself didn't tell a single thing about college or apartment... continued hiding...

Abbeyyy???!!!

Hypocrisy ko thoda toh control karo bhai.😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I actually liked Naitik standing up for Naira. Surekha being polite or rude is not the point. The thing (from Naitik's pov) is he has seen his daughter become lifeless during these 2 years w/o having done anything wrong. (Yes, she hid Shubham's secret but in no way is she responsible for his death- but that's a discussion for another post).
I didn't like the way things were handled post leap. Watching on and off. So I still don't understand how Dadi (of all people) let Suwarna take control?! Suwarna who wouldn't even do anything trivial w/o Dadi's permission.

And I hate that they are ruining Kaira's bond. 1 thing which I have always liked about YR is the ML-FL bond. So much love respect and trust. Yet the cvs have made Kartik so spineless for no apparently strong reason.

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