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Posted: 7 years ago
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I was watching an older episode and something hit me in the midst of it. Kartik was mad at naira for according to him taking manish and suvarna's side about his moms death and was on a champion destructive/anger mode.
Two things in this track stuck out to me. Kartik not being able to handle a word against his mother. It made me extremely cringey for next weeks episodes.

And then secondly naira's behavior during his disappearance at teej she lights a lamp and says she is ok with his anger, him telling her he never wants to see her, everything about him but not him dying.
Then later, she has this moment with naitik where explains, simply that even when he was young he would get angry all the time. And akshara would samhalo him. Its a womans job to handle things or make things right🤢
I cringed hearing that no wonder the singhanias have 0 self respect they believe its ok for a husband to act like a complete asshole. and bahu's and woman should take it😕because woman r more mature, and must nibhao their relationships.
I felt odd watching that scene. Extremely odd.
In a relationship its give an take. How can u always expect one person to give and only one to take. so unhealthy guys...
so unhealthy...
(but other than that enjoying suvarna getting blasted 😆and kartiks expressions of distaste and him sunaoing her for coming between him an naira)

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Husband-Wife relationship is/should be based on equality are the mere words...Singhanias are very unrealistic and confused though CVs try to show them positive,progressive or changed due to their DIL...firstly unrealistic adjustments for Keerti and now unrealistic standards for their daughter Naira make them more regressive than Goenkas...who never claimed to treat their DIL and daughter alike (except Suwarna mata)...for me Goenkas have always been better than overly sweet Singhanias...where Naksh has always been confused and stressed...Naitik doesn't know when to speak and when to stay silent...Bhabhi Maa wanted to beg infront of Suwarna...even Maheswaris had some self respect which Singhanias clearly don't have...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I believe equality is irrelevant , we can't keep a tab on who was given how many chances and who was left out ..In a husband wife relation and In love ..If for the sake of love, one person is angry and he is wrong , the other can act patient and bend /adjust ...It's not as if kartik was being an asshole to naira always , he has been very nice infact extremely loving ,caring and adjusting too..So much that he had put naira on a pedestal and entire goenka clan was burning with jealousy..That's why I've been repeating that in this situation , at least one of them shouldn't have given up...They have went through a lot of ups and downs but this one particular incident didnt deserve a separation ..And kartik miserably failed by listening to his mother and distancing himself from naira..If he turned alcoholic to give him punishment , it was ok, but he actually started behaving weird like I am not gonna hear her name or meet her..



I agree maheshwaris were better than the singhanias..I had been saying this..Vishambhar was a wonderful father ..He never failed akshara , not even once..He always did the right thing , in the best interests of his family..singhanias are left confused without akshara ..They are neither here nor there types..They act randomly ..


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