Its not abt Naitik or Akshara but Naksh - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Stutz-

Stop fighting guys! If you don't agree, don't post on the topic! Please don't quarrel. Just spoils the atmosphere of the forum! We don't want fights here.

I had specified healthy discussions. Don't point fingers. I will be forced to close the topic otherwise.

Originally posted by: pree4ru

Well i was shocked to see few topics or a debate on the particular track , to be frank this track is something which even a couple cant debate on so we are way too small , Now coming to the topic i saw a topic of Naitik being harsh on duggu well i didnt find it wrong at all as as father dont u call ur child buddhu ? 😲 leave alone father we are self call our friends when they do something we call them buddhu so big deal naitik said what duggu said was way embarrassing so i dont think Naitik is wrong ,Now coming to Duggu taken to party akshi told to take duggu but if naitik didnt want he cud have approached gaya3 to indirectly divert duggu and keep him home so its both naksh fault in getting duggu to party.Second abt Akshara giving attention to duggu in party well thats normal thing of any mom sppl duggu jaise bache 😆 duggu is naughty guy chances of him running out and things so she was being careful with him as simple as that .So the entire track is something where we cant judge the track is abt balancing ur privacy along parenting which naksh are facing now .So lets not take it to seriously and debate rather watch peacefully ! 😃
P.S I have no offence with the Topic maker of both post i just wrote what i felt .

Originally posted by: _charu_

i dun get it, why Naitik has to feel embarrassed bec. of Naksh? he's his son and it's the responsibility of the parents to guide their children...children will not behave like adults in any case...if Naksh did a mistake (which was not even a mistake) or Akshara was distracted, what's the big deal about it? winning a stupid game is imp to Naitik? 😕 wonder how was he in his childhood days? i understand he wants to discipline his child but he cannot teach him everything in one day and expect him to act mature...in a joint family , kids get over pampered , he can't do anything about it...if he scolds Naksh for something, his dadi or any other member will comfort him so kids do get spoilt that way...accept it and do something about it rather than throwing attitude on all others yaar..he was acting like those nagging parents who are constantly putting indirect pressure on their kids to perform & comparing other children to theirs ! it can have serious repercussions on the child...a kid should never feel that parents are ashamed of him...they will develop inferiority complex

Originally posted by: -Puja-

@red well there was no one fault, both were ryt in dere place and regarding embarraseddment if someone open any open personl things in front of all every feel the same way like naitik feel, which even i feel the same but even tats not kid fault also..

if we make pinpoint on small-small issue then we cant enjoy the show propoperly and its easy to criticzed someone but its difficult to understand them..

we do intend many things but thats never meant for

Originally posted by: _charu_

i never said any of them were at fault, nor i was criticizing..if they raised an issue through this serial , it needs to be discussed in general sense...i'm not aware of any debate going on b/w who's right b/w the 2...i dun know who's the right party here..uska bhi mujhe pata hai, she must also be wrong somewhere..

kids are kids and parents are parents. if parents act like kids then who will show the right way to the kids? what kind of an example is Naitik setting for Naksh?😕 he will become a grumpy child like Naitik and why not?? lalla is Gayitri's upbringing 😆...Naksh is a kid and if Naitik get embarrassed with petty things then will he stop bringing Naksh out in public till the time he grows up?? or explain him properly that Naksh shouldn't be saying all that ?? the hoity toity group in which he socializes understand how kids are? their kids are not from Pluto na..for Naksh, to learn social etiquette and manners, he should be brought to these parties occassionaly...these things r best learnt in practical...and they will do mistakes only then they will learn na...Naitik was in comma for 4 years and akshara couldn't spend time with Naksh, he doesn't know about all these things , at least his parents should understand..

I understand where Naitik comes from, it's with his behavior from day 1, when he met Akshara..it's easy to blame others(Akshara, Naksh, his family) but for him, it's difficult for him to admit that he can be wrong..not wrong but following a wrong approach..n he doesn't realize it till the time the negative effect start showing up...the moment he's out of his comfort zone he starts acting weird...who knows him better than I 😆 ab baap ban gaya hai , ab toh bada ho jaa ..I defended him all these years , sab kuch change ho gaya but not good old Naitik 😆..this attitude was okay with his wife but it won't work with his kid...

Originally posted by: -Puja-

second thought completey !!

very diplomatic answers dear, Dont every parents has own way to treat to their child ?? so does naitik-akshara do whats wrong in it ?? does everyone one perfrect in this world ? regarding naitik he will learn wen he got spent more time he cant be become superman in one day, every relation needs to take time to grow.. so does father and son..

well you judgeing from one incident does make them wrong ? there is a thousand reasons we can make pinpoint and make a issue here ? can we ? yes you right parents do guide dere child but its needs time they cant become gud from one day or one party, wen naitik said going to be bore there he was rite eventully he become bore, dosent he ? or didnt he think of him tat time..

past is past never ever comes back again, he makes mistake in the past and reliaze also 👏 tats the big thing..i am sure both naitik-akshara both become super mom-dad in the end..

its easy to create if and but 😊

Originally posted by: _charu_

absolutely ! everyone is different, nobody is perfect , people have their own way of dealing with everyone and everything acc. to their nature..so did Naitik & Akshara..nobody becomes a good parent in one day (infact therez no rulebook to be a good anything), nobody becomes a good well mannered perfect bacha in one day..naitik took 1000 episodes and he's still naitik, akshara is akshara, gayitri is gayitri and naksh will be naksh..just like real life...so allz well..peace ! 😆