And then they claim to show reality, 'eh? - Page 14

Originally posted by: Madhavi_Di

i have one question to all who is thinking about the akshi is giving the duggu to nandu.
1 - is make nandu happy or she feel that she is the mom and not akshi?
2- did it make rukmani feel that she is dadi of naksh and not g3?
3- what if varsha will be there and not nandu and akshi want to give duggu to her do Singhaniya agree including bma?
4- if akshi is the one cant have baby and nandu have duggu as her child did she will give it akshi? and does it make g3 happy?
5- if g3 find out that akshi cant be mom then did she will react difrent then rukmani?
6- if akshi and rashmi both have child and nandu need the baby will singhaniya ask akshi or rashmi to give baby?
7- why all the time everyone expect bahu to give everything not bati? they will be happy if nandu will give her child to koyal in same way as there are ask ing akshi to do.?
if anyone think any of the above questions ? if it is NO then no one should ask akshi to give her baby not the first or second. and if akshi give the baby then nandu will mom and akshi will be the same like nandu .
and by giving baby nandu will not feel that she is mom . think about all this before we say anything and we are in 2012 not in 1950 . things are diffrent then . now days woman have more power then before. they work they study. and they have there views.
PS_ nice post Kumudi. but i think my pov is always diffrent. i think any one want to adopt the child then it should be the one who dont have parent. then there is real meaning of ma and baccha. 😃jis baache ke paas ma hai usko apana banakar keisi ko kya milega?kisi ka ghar jala kar apne ghar main ujala nahi hota.
i want to add something here. i have friend her relative got the girl from there friend and adopt it and she is now 16 and they are vary rich and now the real mom want her back. padhi likhi paise wali bati ab vapas chahiye😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

completely agree with Vini here..👏 it's not very uncommon in our society , i've seen a lot of cases.many toh demand their child back after a few yrs BUT BUT BUT, it's NEVER the first child..what if akshara cannot produce a baby 2nd time? it used to happen when a couple had 3-4 children, they gave away their child to a close relative...if we look at it from the parent's pov, yes, it may be difficult for them (specially when it's a boy, they say ohhh mera future sahara n BS🤢, kya pata ye hi zyada intelligent hota aur kama leta 😆) but it also means giving a new life to a childless couple ! in my opinion, if it's done only for a boy, i.e. if a couple has daughters n they want a son n they adopt one frm their relative, i'm not for it..if the child is adopted by a childless couple (like nandini-mohit), they can find a solution like naitik akshara can give their 2nd child to them...or else adopt a baby from outside legally (YR mein drama ke liye uske real ma baap aake drama karne lagenge)🤢

this track is not that useless...at least it has substance & they r handling it well...MINUS the rona dhona ...🤢

Originally posted by: _charu_

MD, ur right..the differentiation does come in wrt to bahu and beti...n no mother wud agree to give away her child so easily ... the best option wud remain that nandini mohit adopt a child from the adoption center...

my MIL was asked to give away her first child , her son (my husband) to her tai saas bec. she had 3 daughters...but my mil's mil refused saying that pehla bacha nahi dena..n then she said ke 2nd time if she has a son then she will give him to her tai saas..toh 2nd time she had a daughter 😆 n if she had a son, she wud have given him away..why? bec. many many many ppl. respect their elder's wishes 😊

Originally posted by: _charu_

Also, bitter truth, nandini cannot take care of a newly born !

Originally posted by: gutky

Bingo madhavi di 👏🤗 @ bold: exactly that has happened in my taiji's case.. they demanded their daughter back once she was 17 yrs (provided my phuphaji was no more n my bhuva was not that financially stable) n then begins the real trauma The pains then of having to stay apart and longing for each others in the respective hearts of my didi and bhuva resulted into many sleepless night with all sorts of emotional n mental pain.😭 I mean is it a crime to nurture a baby so willingly but yet can't get to seem the required rights over him / her??😕 Hence in my opinion it's real injustice n unfair to demand the child back once willing given for adoption. 😊

Originally posted by: pari1508

phew... Finally got time to write something here... But looks like eveything is being discussed..🥺😆
Toh main jyada kuch nahi kahungi... I only wanna say is that I agree with Vini & Charu di... 😊 It is not an unrealistic track.. These type of incidence do happen especially when you have a lady like bm at ur home.. Cvs have brought somewhat sensical track after ages.. So I have no complains except Bhami ma's overacting...🤢
I m actually looking forward to this track as it will be real testing time for Akshara & Naitik... Hope we get to see a good naksh & naksh duggu bonding during this track.. 😛

Originally posted by: moonlight08

you were one of the first people of like my post, and the last one to comment here.. how rude..😆

okk, with all this discussion, my perspective has changed.. the only problem i have is/are :

1. Bma is over-reacting. She's a mother, i don't blame her THAT much.. but im tired of her crying, to be honest..
I dont think any mother would overeact the way BM is doing.. I am talking about in terms of her rona dhona... Its just too much...

2. everyone is saying as if it is the end of the world, even the GEN Y..
I will not say GEN Y is acting as its the end.. Naitik n Akshara are trying to calm down the situation right now.. I think its just the beginning of track.. and I m sure GEN Y will surely come up with solution in near future...

3. akshara is trying or may be shown as mahaan by her dialogues - mera baccha sabka baccha n all..🤢
She has been the ideal bahu.. Toh it is obvious that she will behave that way only... n I dont find anything wrong in this.. If she can give happiness to DJ n BM by making them spend some time with duggu, toh its good only naa??

4. mama mami, who have never cared to come to SInghania sadan suddenly crop up out of nowhere and create havoc in the household..
Haa this thing is annoying.. But to be honest ghar me jo bhuchal aate hai naa, those come only bacause of outsiders only... You remember Hum Sath Sath hai.. This situation is like that situation only...😆

i think, bus itna hi..😆

Originally posted by: pari1508

When I liked the post, I was from my cell... And that stupid opera was not working on my phone that time..😡 Toh normal browser se comment karna was almost impossible for me..😃
Haa agar us vakt bhi comment karti toh jo Vini likha hai wohi mai bhi likhti... She has written exactly my thoughts..😃

Hop[e I have answered all ur queries..😆