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Divya

@.Divyaa.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#111

here in akshi's case especially as she sufferd miss carriage she cant even think abt giving her child...

but yes these things r stilll prevelant in d society n i feel cv's will make the audience realize what parents feel during such circumstances...as of we know such things happen in rajasthan(came 2 know by reading d comments) yr being a serial abt rajasthanis would be watched by people over there...this track acc to me may force people to think on this matter n may be they realize that instead of giving away the child it would be better to adopt a kid or get a child through ivf...

i feel this track in naksh case may strengthen the bond between naksh n duggu😃 n mohini may adopt a child😊

this is not at all about first child or the second one...suppose if naksh have a second baby would u all be happy if dey gv it to mohini...no..atleast i wouldnt be...children r equal to the parents...akshi may under go d same trauma whether its duggu or der second baby...

its better if mohini adopt a child n set an example for people😃

Edited by srkfan4ever - 13 years ago

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Anamika_naksh

@Anamika_naksh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#112

First of all awesome post Kaumudi ! 😃
i got to know many realities through this thread ! Pehle to like u even i used to think that yea how can this happen ? Giving ur child, your part to someone else however the person is close to you ! Thinking makes me feel down !

Maybe this happen in villages or some families where ppl are too conservative but this is absolutely not correct ! I mean mothers must have to give their child against their wishes.

I really hope CV's show adoption coz m damn sure naksh will not be given to mohini ! This way they'l be spreading good message to the society !

Kase ho ? 😆

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preksha

@pree4ru

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Posted: 13 years ago

#113

Awesome :) post kamu:) this happens bt in villages where families have conservative thoughts where these things happen but how can a mother give her own child to someone hopefully cv's pass some awesome msg and end this track and show something nice :))

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prernacda

@prernacda

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Posted: 13 years ago

#114

what reality...

crying atthe dropof thepin

giving 1st child to sis or relative...is not that uncommon

only causes a confused child as both mothers are always trying to up the ante...and can g3 handle it...she cannot even stand akshi taking son to mayka...

not worth it...

speaking fromexperience, but akhshara unless she wants to be mahann should not or there will be a worldshortage of glycerin...

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madhavi

@Madhavi_Di

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Posted: 13 years ago

#115

i have one question to all who is thinking about the akshi is giving the duggu to nandu.
1 - is make nandu happy or she feel that she is the mom and not akshi?
2- did it make rukmani feel that she is dadi of naksh and not g3?
3- what if varsha will be there and not nandu and akshi want to give duggu to her do Singhaniya agree including bma?
4- if akshi is the one cant have baby and nandu have duggu as her child did she will give it akshi? and does it make g3 happy?
5- if g3 find out that akshi cant be mom then did she will react difrent then rukmani?
6- if akshi and rashmi both have child and nandu need the baby will singhaniya ask akshi or rashmi to give baby?
7- why all the time everyone expect bahu to give everything not bati? they will be happy if nandu will give her child to koyal in same way as there are ask ing akshi to do.?
if anyone think any of the above questions ? if it is NO then no one should ask akshi to give her baby not the first or second. and if akshi give the baby then nandu will mom and akshi will be the same like nandu .
and by giving baby nandu will not feel that she is mom . think about all this before we say anything and we are in 2012 not in 1950 . things are diffrent then . now days woman have more power then before. they work they study. and they have there views.
PS_ nice post Kumudi. but i think my pov is always diffrent. i think any one want to adopt the child then it should be the one who dont have parent. then there is real meaning of ma and baccha. 😃jis baache ke paas ma hai usko apana banakar keisi ko kya milega?kisi ka ghar jala kar apne ghar main ujala nahi hota.
i want to add something here. i have friend her relative got the girl from there friend and adopt it and she is now 16 and they are vary rich and now the real mom want her back. padhi likhi paise wali bati ab vapas chahiye😆

Edited by Madhavi_Di - 13 years ago

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: pragati1990

agree with u but the presention of the epi r horrible there is no proper sceenplay n story to it n top of it overacting in aksharas miscaariage we can feel the pain n connected to her but here bhabhima n daddaji r emotional scenes r not at all emoitional n we r not able to cpnnect it also , we find it torture while watching this...

completely agree with Vini here..👏 it's not very uncommon in our society , i've seen a lot of cases.many toh demand their child back after a few yrs BUT BUT BUT, it's NEVER the first child..what if akshara cannot produce a baby 2nd time? it used to happen when a couple had 3-4 children, they gave away their child to a close relative...if we look at it from the parent's pov, yes, it may be difficult for them (specially when it's a boy, they say ohhh mera future sahara n BS🤢, kya pata ye hi zyada intelligent hota aur kama leta 😆) but it also means giving a new life to a childless couple ! in my opinion, if it's done only for a boy, i.e. if a couple has daughters n they want a son n they adopt one frm their relative, i'm not for it..if the child is adopted by a childless couple (like nandini-mohit), they can find a solution like naitik akshara can give their 2nd child to them...or else adopt a baby from outside legally (YR mein drama ke liye uske real ma baap aake drama karne lagenge)🤢

this track is not that useless...at least it has substance & they r handling it well...MINUS the rona dhona ...🤢

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#117

Originally posted by: Madhavi_Di
i have one question to all who is thinking about the akshi is giving the duggu to nandu.
1 - is make nandu happy or she feel that she is the mom and not akshi?
2- did it make rukmani feel that she is dadi of naksh and not g3?
3- what if varsha will be there and not nandu and akshi want to give duggu to her do Singhaniya agree including bma?
4- if akshi is the one cant have baby and nandu have duggu as her child did she will give it akshi? and does it make g3 happy?
5- if g3 find out that akshi cant be mom then did she will react difrent then rukmani?
6- if akshi and rashmi both have child and nandu need the baby will singhaniya ask akshi or rashmi to give baby?
7- why all the time everyone expect bahu to give everything not bati? they will be happy if nandu will give her child to koyal in same way as there are ask ing akshi to do.?
if anyone think any of the above questions ? if it is NO then no one should ask akshi to give her baby not the first or second. and if akshi give the baby then nandu will mom and akshi will be the same like nandu .
and by giving baby nandu will not feel that she is mom . think about all this before we say anything and we are in 2012 not in 1950 . things are diffrent then . now days woman have more power then before. they work they study. and they have there views.
PS_ nice post Kumudi. but i think my pov is always diffrent. i think any one want to adopt the child then it should be the one who dont have parent. then there is real meaning of ma and baccha. 😃jis baache ke paas ma hai usko apana banakar keisi ko kya milega?kisi ka ghar jala kar apne ghar main ujala nahi hota.

MD, ur right..the differentiation does come in wrt to bahu and beti...n no mother wud agree to give away her child so easily ... the best option wud remain that nandini mohit adopt a child from the adoption center...

my MIL was asked to give away her first child , her son (my husband) to her tai saas bec. she had 3 daughters...but my mil's mil refused saying that pehla bacha nahi dena..n then she said ke 2nd time if she has a son then she will give him to her tai saas..toh 2nd time she had a daughter 😆 n if she had a son, she wud have given him away..why? bec. many many many ppl. respect their elder's wishes 😊

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#118

Originally posted by: moonlight08

alright, so u made this track look positive.. good..😆

but di, it's like, why are some outsiders suggesting these things? esp. when it is the first child?

and of nandini, di - akshara was portrayed to be really close with ananya - she suggested her name..
but nandini didn't share that bond with duggu? or did she.. there is surely a difference between nandini and akshara in this regard.. i have never seen nandini care for duggu the way akshara cared for ananya..

Also, bitter truth, nandini cannot take care of a newly born !

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_vinita_

@_vinita_

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#119

Originally posted by: Madhavi_Di
i have one question to all who is thinking about the akshi is giving the duggu to nandu.
1 - is make nandu happy or she feel that she is the mom and not akshi?
2- did it make rukmani feel that she is dadi of naksh and not g3?
3- what if varsha will be there and not nandu and akshi want to give duggu to her do Singhaniya agree including bma?
4- if akshi is the one cant have baby and nandu have duggu as her child did she will give it akshi? and does it make g3 happy?
5- if g3 find out that akshi cant be mom then did she will react difrent then rukmani?
6- if akshi and rashmi both have child and nandu need the baby will singhaniya ask akshi or rashmi to give baby?
7- why all the time everyone expect bahu to give everything not bati? they will be happy if nandu will give her child to koyal in same way as there are ask ing akshi to do.?
if anyone think any of the above questions ? if it is NO then no one should ask akshi to give her baby not the first or second. and if akshi give the baby then nandu will mom and akshi will be the same like nandu .
and by giving baby nandu will not feel that she is mom . think about all this before we say anything and we are in 2012 not in 1950 . things are diffrent then . now days woman have more power then before. they work they study. and they have there views.
PS_ nice post Kumudi. but i think my pov is always diffrent. i think any one want to adopt the child then it should be the one who dont have parent. then there is real meaning of ma and baccha. 😃jis baache ke paas ma hai usko apana banakar keisi ko kya milega?kisi ka ghar jala kar apne ghar main ujala nahi hota.
i want to add something here. i have friend her relative got the girl from there friend and adopt it and she is now 16 and they are vary rich and now the real mom want her back. padhi likhi paise wali bati ab vapas chahiye😆

Bingo madhavi di 👏🤗 @ bold: exactly that has happened in my taiji's case.. they demanded their daughter back once she was 17 yrs (provided my phuphaji was no more n my bhuva was not that financially stable) n then begins the real trauma The pains then of having to stay apart and longing for each others in the respective hearts of my didi and bhuva resulted into many sleepless night with all sorts of emotional n mental pain.😭 I mean is it a crime to nurture a baby so willingly but yet can't get to seem the required rights over him / her??😕 Hence in my opinion it's real injustice n unfair to demand the child back once willing given for adoption. 😊

Edited by gutky - 13 years ago