And then they claim to show reality, 'eh? - Page 16

Originally posted by: pari1508

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@ bold, which awareness you are referring to??? 😕 If you refering about nandini's disability to conceive... Toh maan lo naa ki wo kabhi bhi maa nahi ban sakti & then watch the show.. It will be more easier for you then..

awareness about these malpractices, u know, baccha goadh lena and all.. i mean, CVs didn't show their pain - or they? btao? scenes chodo, dialogue mein bhi nahi di.. Mohii never talked about it.. achanak se hi akshara ko pata chal gaya, achanak se hi mami ko pata chal gaya.. achanak achanak mein hi kya ho gaya mere palle kuch nahi pada..😆
Yup, I agree that they have not given mohini much screen space.. But to be frank, will you be interested in watching mohini & their dukhbhare scenes?? 😆 so its good in a way for us...😃

good for us, arre sach mein di.. bohot accha hua nahi dikhaya.. but, naa dikha kar bhi humein kaun se bohot acche naksh scenes mile? kuch toh nahi mila humein.. atleast unka dard dikha dete, it would have been much better than bma ka rona dhona and mama mami ka ek hi raag alaapna.. if not in scenes, in dialogues?😕
And more than Mohini's sorrow, I think cvs wanna concentrate on Naksh & how they will handle this situation..

okk, this i can agree upon - but naksh bhi kaha hai di? sirf mama mami hi toh chhaye hue hai har jagah..😡 haa if agar akshara bma ya mami ko kuch bolti hai after she comes to know about this, okk - it is all justified.. par agar nahi, toh kya? i think we'l have to wait..😊
And finallly haa they are showing all this for TRPs only... But in this too they are portraying a real life situations.. And we should be happy with this only...😊

Originally posted by: _charu_

exactly ! even if she has her own baby, it'll be really difficult for her..tht's why test tube babies bhi itna acha option nahi hai...i'm saying this bec. i know how hard this responsibility is..running around 24X7 is not sufficient n nandu cannot even stand n hold the baby...so it's better she adopts a slightly older child...i said this is the best option bec. after a few days/months/years, ma ki mamta n family ka attachment jaag hi jaata hai , specially when the baby is in front of their eyes...there r thousands of needful children who need parents so why not them?

yes, time may be different in my mil's time but time abhi bhi wohi hai, only the method may be diff...it's nothing to do with gen x or y...i keep reading many articles tht many couples r paid to do this..produce a child n give him/her to another couple, but this info is kept secret , kiska bacha hai n kisko dena hai..they do it for money...obviously it's misused also bec. many do it for a boy...gen Y aisa bhi karti hai 😲 after reading this much n hearing so many incidents, i've stopped thinking abt "HOW" ! c'mon how can any mother give away her child? C'MON big deal, thousands of ppl. do it n we never get to know, duniya kitni tarah hai, yahan kuch bhi ho sakta hai !!! one of my close friends, her cousin bhai bhabhi had a divorce..that girl LEFT her newly born in the hospital bec. she wanted a divorce frm her husband !! the child is being raised by his grandparents now ! neither the husband wants him nor wife !

coming to YR, how much time r they gonna take in telling everyone? 🥱 tomorrow naitik will know, uske baad 1 week gayitri-rb,, phir 1 week baad daddaji, phir 1 week baad akshara , uske 1 week baad mohit-nandu 🥱 next ME tak meri chutti , kuch dhang ka aaya toh comment karoongi 😛 meanwhile, hats off to the scriptwriter for thinking of so many surprises 🤢 naitik ka b'day, akshara ka b'day, naitik akshara ki anniv , duggu ka b'day, gayitri ka b'day, daddaji ka b'day, 🤢 itna bore kabhi nahi hui main ! next yr jab b'day hoga toh kya surprise hoga?😕

Originally posted by: anurao.66

This kind of thing does happen in India. My cousin' s wife could not have a child. And they wanted children. They are a joint family and though not living together, they are quite attached. My Cousin brother asked his cousin to give him a child. This cousin of mine convinced his wife and they gave birth to another child and gave it to my cousin who was childless. This has happened and the worst is that the child knows who his real parents are. This kind of thing is so disgusting. Have they not heard of Fertility treatment or surrogacy?

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Originally posted by: --Nishita--

Bma will regret it big time if she goes and asks Naitik and Akshara to part with their child just to make her own daughter happy. Bma is not in her senses...she is trying her best to keep her brother and sister in law quiet but cant understand these relatives...just because Akshara is understanding, she doesnt have to give up her child😡. How much do they know Akshara for them to even come up with this suggestion? Anyway, nothing of that sort will happen coz Naksh, Dj, Gayatri and Mohit will never let that happen.

When I went through this thread, I got to know that many people still give away their children to make someone else happy...it is a very senstive issue and the person who takes such a decision should do it willingly and not under compulsion.

Originally posted by: prernacda

g3 would freak out if itwas varsha...

it can be first child...has been in my pers experience

Originally posted by: Saraella

I dont know. the track is surely annoying but its the harsh reality of India. it happens. I know some people which this happen with. Its reality but cvs could protrayed this track in much better way, they are doing now.

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Moon - Wonderful topic...👏How do you do that, so much maturity at such a young age👍🏼 Your parents must be proud, they should be! You know how I got to know about this one. Yes, my BFF, Divi...😉 She sent me this link coz she knows, puraan likna is my forte...🤣 I haven't watched YR; so I have no clue what is going on. I know the premise from Divi & read some of the discussion but not all 18 pages, I have to admit. So forgive me if I go O/T.

Di..🤗 Thanks for the compliment di.. coming from you, it surely means a lot..😃 Divi di..🤗 thanks for bringing her here..😆 my thread is graced..😃

First of all - 🤗 to all my friends here, MB, Charu, Ashu, Pari, Vini, Sandhya, et al (if I have forgotten any!)😊

Coming to the discussion - I think it is nonsense. Giving away your child to your relative is common practice; but not the first one. Maybe if the parents have more than 2 or 3! Akshara already had a MC, so that make this ludicrous! This could be the only child she can have. But, hats off the writers for trying! But not good enough, they should come up with a decent plot not a half-hearted attempt at a story. Would have been a solid track if any of the above criteria I mentioned were met.

yess, i agree to the above di.. story, i don;t know - didn't know until now ki duniya mein aisa bhi hota hai, but dialogues, yess - kuch acche dialogues hote toh this track would have been at a different level.. u don't know what's happening in the show na? i'l tell you - in every epi - ranjan mama and lalita mami come and repeat the following - JIJI, nandini ki godh mein akshara ka baccha de do.. ghar ki baat ghar mein reh jaaegi.. same lines, everyday.. how novel..

naitik - thanku akshara..

akshara - aap bilkul sahi keh rahe hai naitik..

or vice-versa..

iske alawa show mein kuch nahi hai di, kuch bhi nahi.. beech mein ruku aa kar, koyal ki shaadi singhania's ke ghar se karaegi.. bus!🤢

utter nonsense.. 😡

Coming to the morality of the issue- unfair to the new born! We can choose everything in life but not our parents. God chooses it for us. Who are we to then decide to give away our child to someone else? Should happen only under extreme situations like if the girl were an unwed mother; parents couldn't afford to keep the baby due to dire financial issues. Those situations are understandable coz the child will have a better life without social or financial burdens. Other than such extreme situations, it is inexcusable to give away your child. Just not fair to the child.There is always that hurt; the child will always try to find why her/his parents gave her/him away. Why not one of the other kids, why me? Even if they have had a wonderful life with the adopted parents, the question will still remain. Coz it's not about what they have but what they don't; which is their own mom & dad. Why was I treated differently? I get that for silly things like why did he get a extra hug or kiss, go figure...This is indeed a really big deal...

*clap* *clap* i can say nothing more..😃

The bond between biological parents and kids is unexplainable. No matter how many years go by, one look, one hug could erase all the hurt! Which means it is unfair to the adopted parents...It is a no win situation for all involved...Bottom line you are responsible for the life you chose to bring into this world; fulfill your obligation to the best of your ability.

how true di.. parents are responsible for how a child will be when he grows up.. n parents are the one who'd be there with the child till their very end..😊

I am assuming from the discussion that BM is in favor of Akshi giving up her child😲Would BM give away Nandini because she was disabled & adopt a healthy baby? Family pressure should not lead to giving away your own...

actually di, she's not in favour of this until now, but in a coming few days, she'd agree to it.. okk, justified - u tend to get influenced by people around.. again, main problem - the dialogue -

ranjan, lalita, tum samajhte nahi ho, ye nahi ho sakta..

that;s it..

i just can't understand how worst can it get now?

Originally posted by: pari1508

Kaumu, i have nothing to say now.. Jo bhi expectations thi na meri is track, all these are gng down n down with each passing day.. The story has stagnated.. And i agree is track se nahi mohini ka dukh dekhnemila aur nahi naksh scenes.. All they are showing is mama mami bm.. Ye log kya kam the jo ab isme rj bhi jud gai.. Ab mai bas yahi chahti hu ki kisi tarah ye track khatam ho jae bas..
Looks like cvs will never learn from their mistake.. As always they introduced a track with gud potential, dragging it like anythng and in the end they ll give it a clumsy finish..
In all this I have learnt that YR se kuch bhi ummide lagana is like a big crime..