Natik Straw that broke the camels back!

Why is it that people say that yes Naitik is like a child or his actions are childish, but that its okay and that Akshara should understand this and change.

Why is it always the female to change and adopt to her surroundings. Why after getting married the men can always continue to be the same way and act like a spoiled brat and yet the poor wife is to be blamed for not understanding her husband when clearly he is acting like a 2 year old child who doesnt want to leave his mothers side.

He needs to grow up and be and start acting like a man. Getting married or getting your wife pregnant is not the only actions of a man, but to be understanding, loving, caring person is what makes a man a man. Someone who grows in his married life with his wife, someone who understands that his wife is know with child and that she will be going through different mood changes and needs and wants. Its someone who doesn't jump to stupid misunderstandings at a drop of a pin. Its someone who takes his wife a side and sits her down and explains his feelings to her and makes sure she understands him clearly with out hurting her or anyone else. He never did that at all.

You cannot expect your wife to be buy your side all the time day and night. That is unreasonable. A good healthy marriage needs the couple to be part for a day or a few hours at least. This way they do not get annoyed with each other and they love each other more when they do get the time to spend with one another.

He wasnt saying anything to his mom when they were taking all the time with this wife, and telling her what to eat and where to eat it and what to look at and all, but he is having a problem with his mother in law.

Originally posted by: MARHABAA

No one is saying she needs to be like his shadow however, considering she more happy in the kitchen then she is with him that attitude is rather odd .Neither is it being stated that Natik is justified in his immaturity.

If she was spending her time other than doing housework then if she ignored him because of time constraints it would make more sense ! Kaam kaam kaam is all the excuse she has?

Its a simple fact of life women compromise and adapt more after marriage - This serial is not addressing social issues of lack of compromise off in laws to the daughter in law - its a series showing how the DIL blends into them and that's what she has done.

Yes he should grow up BUT he wont -he's still starving for attention .To stay adamant in your own little world is also wrong .If Akshara can change so much for everyone else cant she STAY THE SAME as she was before marriage for Natik ?

She needs to learn how to keep herself happy .