Can't agree with you more. Marrying armaan is the biggest mistake in abhira's life. From day one, that as***le kept sucking life out of that sunshine girl and left her lifeless in a blackhole in the end. He always manupulated abhira to make things go in his way. Whenever he was at fault, just to make feel himself better, he gaslighted abhira into think that everything is her fault. Ruhi's accident case, vidya's jail punishment & pookie's dissapearance are few examples of many.
For armaan, abhira is his personalized punching bag. After ak death, abhira lost someone to guide her emotionally and gave armaan that place and he made sure to break that poor girl completely. He made her believe that toxicity is a part of love and that's okay.
Armaan can never love anyone. He only wanted someone on whom he can claim rights, whose life he can control, someone on whom he has confidence that no matter how much he treat badly, that person will never leave, so he can do anything. First it was abhira, now its maira.
Abhira was also partically wrong for giving armaan that freedom. Armaan was a distant red flag from day one. With time, he showed his real colours. From the day abhira found her maternal family, he started having problems. Coz he was losing control on the point that he is her only family. Whenever families conflicted, he wanted abhira to agree to his point no matter how much wrong he is. When pookie happened, his real moronic self started to come out and defended it in the name of trauma. He was a narcissistic partner from day one.
When she first married him, she was helpless. Second time, she was blind in love. But when they almost got divorced for the second time, abhira had witnessed how armaan can destroy her life if things don't go in his way. Yet she gave in to her emotions and went back to him. That was her biggest mistake. Atleast now she should learn from her mistakes. She should focus on her own self instead of falling prey into hands of that emotional manupulator again.
At a point that psyco will definitely try to manupulate abhira into forgiving him using maira. But this time, abhira should save herself. Armaan always took abhira for granted because he knew that no matter how much he hurts her, insults her, wronged her, with a sorry and a heartfelt speech, he can earn her forgiveness. His that cruel confidence should shatter.
For that, abhira should never forgive him, not even for the sake of maira and should move on. Her going back to armaan won't give maira a happy, complete family. It will only be a fake image, inside she will get a family environment where her father will daily abuse her mother mentally and emotionally and her mother will be forced to endure for her sake. Just imagine, if in future maira gets involved with someone as toxic and manupulative as armaan, how can she ask her to leave him when she couldn't leave armaan??? She should lead by example.
The way armaan keep doing psyco stuff, he might paint abhira as the villain of story in maira's eyes while he will be the poor wronged father. He can hit that law too.
So, the best punishment for him will be bearing maira's hatred for deliberately seperating her from her mother resulting her willingly going to abhira and witnessing abhira moving on happily with someone who deserves her, breaking his illusion of abhira can't move on from him.
So the point is, Staying single or moving on with a man who truly loves and respects her the way she deserves, ABHIRA SHOULD NEVER GO BACK TO ARMAAN AT ANY COST....PERIOD....
PS - Since bhavna is a master of hailing toxic MLs, the chances are less. But still harbouring a tiny hope of them showing abhira completely moving on from armoron.
Edited by Sajini235 - 2 months ago
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