Naksh Argument...:-( - Page 9

Originally posted by: _charu_

it's not the question of "always"...if we all remember, when akshara accused naitik of being insensitive to her feelings bec. he never wanted a child, at that moment, did she think what all naitik did for her? she can think so low of him on what basis? it was a moment of anger or pent up feelings which came out in the form of frustration..she never meant it right? a small MU is nothing in front of what Naitik did for Akshara but Akshara NEVER valued it, it's a fact...

what is consistent is akshara having time for everything in this world except naitik...what is NOT consistent is Naitik accusing her this way...if akshara can take care of anshu's kurta, kaki's worry, bma chabi so on and so forth she can def. ask naitik why he is feeling sad and what can she do to make him feel better...she had the time to go in search of anshu but she never had 2 mins to spare for naitik...yes, it was naitik's fault to hire chandni , if he had known she wud not do her work properly, he wouldn't have called her in the first place..he wanted a grand wedding for his sis and therez nothing wrong with the idea...along with that, he wanted to take off the workload from akshara n he discussed it with her...she never appreciated any of his efforts..was it SO wrong like maate said??? .yes, his choice of varmala cud be wrong but can't akshara discuss everything with him and do all the arrangements so that he feels his view is important???? so that he feels that he's doing some work in his sister's wedding??? yes he needed rest but how can he sit in the corner in his sister's wedding , couldn't akshara understand one simple thing? therez lot of work that he cud do while sitting but maate never let him do that also...fine, it skipped her mind completely that naitik will think that way BUT this is what naitik is complaining about !

if we look at the bigger picture, naitik is right... yes, may be akshara is not doing everything to impress everyone but her parivar prem is just too much to handle, too unrealistic specially if it's weighed against naitik's love...rashmi meri behen hai n all that, maate crying more than rashmi, & gayitri 🤣 pahleez, it's never that way...rashmi behen hai toh she's her behen bec. of naitik, her husband...when naitik is out of the picture, rishte nibha ke kya milega? her argument that we are one is useless..i dun find any base to it...if they were one, naitik will not be complaining tdy...

Naitik never took RR's name in all this..he heard akshara saying that naitik cannot do xyz job n hence the argument and misunderstanding...he heard the same from his relative, RR but he never expected akshara to say it...n i guess everyone agree with me here that she shouldn't have said it , she should be extra careful with RR bec. she knows Naitik is very touchy abt this topic

Originally posted by: _charu_

Anji, that he's done very well...it's very unusual bec. females r much much better in communicating than men...previously at the time of mc, akshara's outburst was totally baseless, naitik ignored her once and she went on and on with "aapko sab apni tarah karna hai" 🤢 at that moment, naitik asked her 2-3 times when he saw her upset but she never communicated to him what was troubling her...and here, naitik clearly said a lot of times that he's feeling helpless , he's not liking it that he won't be able to do any work but akshara never paid attention n prolly thought that he's worried ke sab kaise hoga he also told her once that in all prev. weddings, akshara had to do all the work n she had no time for him so this time, bec. of the planner, they will be able to enjoy the wedding together...what does that imply? maate never takes any clues , she's lost in her own world of kaam, kitchen , ma and gharwale ...in the midst of all this, she never listen to him...as if his view is of no importance to her..okay baisa didn't create an issue out of her mc, but when naitik asked her not to tell the truth to her, why did she do it? phir ye theek nahi hai woh theek nahi hai naitik ..when the decorator asked naitik abt the arrangements, why can't she consult him "naitik kaunsa design acha hai?" ...her approach in tackling her husband is wrong n hence these MU keep cropping up..she's understood the demands of kitchen kaam gharwale well but not her husband...

lemme assure you guys one thing...maate who readily solved bindiya's problem will not be able to solve her problems with naitik over the same issue ! n this track is coming next...pucca...now naitik will not have time for maate n maate will have the time of her life.

Charu,

I do see your points and join our untiring rant against their untiring gibberish. In bet'n, some relief in their topical juxtaposing of Naksh Saptapadi scenes -(u know I loved those scenes and powerful interplay of emotions that time)- in context of their current bickering. Reminding Naitik some lapses in his own outburst as well as Akshara's missed priorities? But they can not continue to cash on same vintage every time. They need to come up with fresher outputs, right?

@ Fellow readers,

Are we all critiquing Naitik only?

@ Nandalala,

It was a treat to read your sharp insight. Incidentally, just as you are returning from your hiatus, some of us are trying to embark on the one! The point is, a hard worn habit is a harder to put off! Will look forward to your inputs. Right now stealing from my earning hours!

Originally posted by: Nandalala

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Charu, my point about the communication had more to do with today. My apologies I was not clear...I know from the discussion and the updates that Naitik has made strides in bridging the communication gap--he has shown his understanding, particularly during the mc. My gripe is that by the time we do come to some serious discussion about what has happened, there are tears and a ttl breakdown involved...& yes, mostly it has to do with Aksh not taking the time to sit down and have a talk with him, or involve him in what she deems are things in 'her domain.' As I had mentioned in a previous post, the formality still remains between them...thats why there is a desperate need for Akshara's recharacterization vis a vis her emotional relationship w/Naitik...

Originally posted by: moonlight08

anyone here who feels naitik went on just too much in yesterday's episode.??

"ab rona band kijiye" i mean.. i understand he's angry.. and im on his side at this point.. but he shouldn't have said all this to akshara.. those words were very harsh.. it brought memories of mohini MU back.. this is not the way to talk to ur spouse.. i realise the fact that he is very disappointed.. but use aisa nhi kehna chahiye tha.. if i can say akshara made a wrong choices of words initially.. i must say naitik did the same thing today.. i totally agree with whatever he said on friday's epi.. but yesterday he did cross his line.. akshara ki galti hai.. but itni bhi nhi hai ki she deserved such rude behaviour from naitik.. it was really hurtful..

Originally posted by: _charu_

on the contrary, i found it very funny that he said "abhi bahut KAAM hai pehle woh dekh lete hai" 🤣 n maate ka rona toh aise hi 5 mins mein start hone hi wala tha..she had to give company to gayitri 😭😆

on a serious note kamudi, u all sympathize with akshara but the person who's least bothered is maate..she's abs normal , crying for rashmi and anshu, not bec. her husband is upset with her 😆

Originally posted by: simran_20

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atleast koi toh naitik ke side me hai...nahi toh all sympathising akshara...

Originally posted by: _charu_

on the contrary, i found it very funny that he said "jayiye jayiye aapko bahut KAAM hai pehle woh dekh lete hai" 🤣 n maate ka rona toh aise hi 5 mins mein start hone hi wala tha..she had to give company to gayitri 😭😆

on a serious note kamudi, u all sympathize with akshara but the person who's least bothered is maate..she's abs normal , crying for rashmi and anshu, not bec. her husband is upset with her 😆

Originally posted by: smrth

Charu,

I do see your points and join our untiring rant against their untiring gibberish. In bet'n, some relief in their topical juxtaposing of Naksh Saptapadi scenes -(u know I loved those scenes and powerful interplay of emotions that time)- in context of their current bickering. Reminding Naitik some lapses in his own outburst as well as Akshara's missed priorities? But they can not continue to cash on same vintage every time. They need to come up with fresher outputs, right?

@ Fellow readers,

Are we all critiquing Naitik only?

@ Nandalala,

It was a treat to read your sharp insight. Incidentally, just as you are returning from your hiatus, some of us are trying to embark on the one! The point is, a hard worn habit is a harder to put off! Will look forward to your inputs. Right now stealing from my earning hours!