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Posted: 14 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh
Kya karu kaumudi? I am not blaming anyone...so thought of opening another thread... 😆 I agree with you if I look it from Naitik's POV... magar Akshara ki taraf se sochu toh I disagree. I am looking things from third persons view. As u urself said taali ek haath se nahin bajti.

ha bilkul di..

taali ek haath se nhi bajti.. exactly..

im not saying naitik is TOTALLY correct.. i say he's acting too stubborn abhi..

and akshara too is not totally wrong here.. but she desperately needs to set her priorities straight..

and i loved ur post..

from a third person.. it's beautiful..

par i'd side with naitik this time..😳 im loving him from the time miscarriage occured..😳

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Posted: 14 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: _charu_
Thanks Asawari 😆 took me some time to understand the whole thing, i dun watch YR that closely nowdays...naitik has a reason to crib but maate is not responsible for it...sach kabhi taunt nahi hota...doubting maate's intention is wrong, coz ms perfectionist can never do anything wrong 😆 she cares for his feelings , or should i say she WANTS to BUT she doesn't know him that much...too surprising bec. she's learnt to tackle ppl. like baisa n gayitri..not just understand them but making them dance to her tunes 🤣..i abs agree with Kamudi here (thanks dear, i missed out on this point) , that maate can SENSE that therez something wrong with anshu, her maayka family is worried, she asked them 3-4 times what's the matter , so on and so forth..if she can do that much , if she has that much vella time for irrelevant things (anshu's mom n dad r there to look after him, he's not maate's responsibility) , then howcome she didn't figure out that naitik is upset for xyz reason? .when it's naitik's question, kaam kaam kaam takes precedence n she's ready with the list of excuses...i think her telling naitik abt kaam that she did for rashmi hurted naitik all the more ...bec. this was not the first time they argued abt it...

i'm not sure what image she has in her mind abt naitik..may be ke he wants his wife in the bedroom all the time n he never understood her responsibilities as a bahu...may be naitik expects more from her, may be she can make it possible but she does not...lastly, i dun agree with maate's last dialogue that she's nibhaofying her 7 vachans ...revise karo maate phir se...😆

Charu, u hit the nail on the head...I would say she WANTS to care for his feelings, but often stops short of actually verbalizing it (I guess its 'khamoshi ki bhaasha' at work again😕) And when she does verbalize she often comes off as condescending & gyaanvanti...Why is that she is quick to use a harsh tone only with Naitik? Why is it that the wrong words are used only with him? I agree with Kamudi completely...she has to show tact when she speaks to Naitik, especially in stressful situations...in the SS, he is her ally--front & center...others may come & go, but she made the 7 vacchans with HIM, not the others...

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Rasha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Awesome post asawari.i dont know why,first time im taking naitik's side.i think his each nd every word is absolutely r8.i couldnt connect with akshi's reasons.muje laga wo dono debate kar rahe hai.usmein akshara apne aapko sahi saabit karne k liye wo sab kaha,wo dil ko bilkul nahi chua.but naitik's words straightly went 2 my heart.i can hear his words now also.they were so sentimental nd so true.im a mad akshara fan.isliye ab tak jo kuch bhi hua un sab mein humesha mein akshi k side se hi sochti thi but this certain incident mein i think akshi is totally wrong.atleast now akshi should think abt naitik nd his feelings.naitik k ek ek baath sach thi wo akshi ko samajna zaroori hai.i didnt get one thing why they r arguing now,they can argue aftr d ceremony also.but no,they always like 2 spoil their mood like charu di said.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Charu, u hit the nail on the head...I would say she WANTS to care for his feelings, but often stops short of actually verbalizing it (I guess its 'khamoshi ki bhaasha' at work again😕) And when she does verbalize she often comes off as condescending & gyaanvanti...Why is that she is quick to use a harsh tone only with Naitik? Why is it that the wrong words are used only with him? I agree with Kamudi completely...she has to show tact when she speaks to Naitik, especially in stressful situations...in the SS, he is her ally--front & center...others may come & go, but she made the 7 vacchans with HIM, not the others...

sach ! looks like she's taken saat vachans for his family not naitik...😆 howcome she gets frustrated with naitik's pyjama and NOT Rashmi's sandals 😲🤣 she can see kaki's worried face but NOT Naitik's sadness? this is not the first time naitik accused her of ignoring him and she, giving her fav. kaam ka bahana 🤢

i know one thing that failures are disappointing, it can frustrate anyone and frustration is taken out only on the ppl. close to us...naitik was feeling helpless bec. of various reasons and he needed support...frm chandni to varmala, whatever he did was criticized...since akshara is closest to him, he expects her to provide that support...i said it a week back that he only needed appreciation...what they showed was more symbolic...rashmi taking vachans and naksh not nibhaofying their vachans 😆

@kamudi, akshara needs to set her priorities straight but she and most of us are not able to balance everything properly..so we settle with what we think is right and in best interest of everyone...basically settle with the amt of adjustment we can make...i dun think CV's can EVER do justice with this character bec. she's never shown to manage the 2 ends tactfully, she never tried i think...even if she'll become naitik's dreamgirl, she'll not be able to balance her household responsibilities properly and when complaints will start coming frm that end, she will again bounce back to her prev. routine...in real life, we ignore all this ke chalo unko bura lagta hai toh lage, my first priority is my hubby ! but that's not gonna happen in YR!

that's my only complaint with Naksh...they have not moved on 🤢 abhi bhi same argument, same naitik, same akshara...c'mon , at least find some other reason to argue 🤢 they're not newly married, they've seen so many ups n downs of life together, THIS is not what WE expect from them ! that means, maturity, understanding, everything is reserved for the good times only 😕

BTW rashmi ki shadi mein acha kya tha jo ye acha hoga🤢

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Posted: 14 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

I agree with you Anjali (Hope I got your name right)...😊 The argument might have been right but the occasion was certainly not. Akshara should have been lil careful when it comes to RR as it has always been very touchy issue for Naitik to top it all his injuries cause of him ( in Akshara's defense she is unaware of this). Naitik knows Akshara better than this to blame her for being insensitive towards his injuries regarding her conversation with RR.

Yep, I'm Anjali aka velles' ki Anji 😃...yes, Naitik knows better than to blame her for being insensitive, but as a husband, he expected his wife to be a bit more tactful--that's the whole point, na...otherwise, why would he be smiling just a few minutes prior and whispering sweet nothings to her, and then upset the next? He basically felt Akshara alienated him in front of RR, and in his mind, he couldn't reconcile this...

We are basically saying the same thing, sweetie; I am going one step further and saying this impacted Naitik A LOT MORE than Akshara's reprimands on the wedding prep shortcomings...Charu mentioned in either Sabs' thread or this one, that RR's misdoings should be brought to the forefront...honestly, for Naitik to be happy, this must be done...he should at least tell Aksh and gain her confidence & support...he basically wants Akshara to sense his pain & humiliation...I hope he tells her everything, yaar...it will be cathartic for both of them...

Ok, on a complete aside, who thinks RR looks like that villain Ranjeet from the '70s movies? He is a slimmer version of him...kal Amar Akbar Anthony dekha & I couldn't believe the resemblance...🤣🤣

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--Nishita--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Ok, on a complete aside, who thinks RR looks like that villain Ranjeet from the '70s movies? He is a slimmer version of him...kal Amar Akbar Anthony dekha & I couldn't believe the resemblance...🤣🤣

Yeah, I noticed it 🤣. He does...especially when from an angle 😆 😆. Btw, it feels so good you see you here 🤗

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Posted: 14 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Yep, I'm Anjali aka velles' ki Anji 😃...yes, Naitik knows better than to blame her for being insensitive, but as a husband, he expected his wife to be a bit more tactful--that's the whole point, na...otherwise, why would he be smiling just a few minutes prior and whispering sweet nothings to her, and then upset the next? He basically felt Akshara alienated him in front of RR, and in his mind, he couldn't reconcile this...

We are basically saying the same thing, sweetie; I am going one step further and saying this impacted Naitik A LOT MORE than Akshara's reprimands on the wedding prep shortcomings...Charu mentioned in either Sabs' thread or this one, that RR's misdoings should be brought to the forefront...honestly, for Naitik to be happy, this must be done...he should at least tell Aksh and gain her confidence & support...he basically wants Akshara to sense his pain & humiliation...I hope he tells her everything, yaar...it will be cathartic for both of them...

Ok, on a complete aside, who thinks RR looks like that villain Ranjeet from the '70s movies? He is a slimmer version of him...kal Amar Akbar Anthony dekha & I couldn't believe the resemblance...🤣🤣

😆yes , it's natural that when we don't like someone, we want our loved ones to hate him too 😆 he wants akshara to look at RR from his perspective..least akshara can do is ignore him...smart move wud be to make her husband look good in front of RR , this is naitik's secret desire 😆 that at least in akshara's eyes, naitik is the best...it'll give him the required ego boost..mohit did it but not maate...of late, therez friction b/w RR and Naitik, Naitik is no less, he tried to pull down RR saying that his understanding with Akshara is better than bubbles 😃 RR on the other hand, is constantly taunting him abt his disability n all the responsibilities is being handled well by him..maate itni bewakoof nahi lagti ke she doesn't understand this rivalry but she never pays attention coz she doesn't wanna come in bad books of any person...

anyways, apart frm naksh, i liked shaurya-varsha convo also...shaurya scolding varsha 😆 for not fulfilling her responsibilities well...she ignored him and ananya n cud not handle anshu..did varsha argue with him? 😳 it was not entirely varsha's mistake phir bhi she listened to her hubby...👏

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Posted: 14 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Ok, on a complete aside, who thinks RR looks like that villain Ranjeet from the '70s movies? He is a slimmer version of him...kal Amar Akbar Anthony dekha & I couldn't believe the resemblance...🤣🤣

After reading your post I saw that movie and I agree with you...🤣 Its nice to see an old member of this forum back here and dicussing with us...😃🤗 and by old I dont mean age...😆 Naksh argument ke wajah se yeh ek baat toh achchi hue...😊

Edited by Asawari_naksh - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: --Nishita--
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Yeah, I noticed it 🤣. He does...especially when from an angle 😆 😆. Btw, it feels so good you see you here 🤗

Awww...my GS...🤗🤗🤗...love all of u guys here & the IF emoticons...FB mein yeh maaza kahaan? 😃😃

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Posted: 14 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: _charu_

😆yes , it's natural that when we don't like someone, we want our loved ones to hate him too 😆 he wants akshara to look at RR from his perspective..least akshara can do is ignore him...smart move wud be to make her husband look good in front of RR , this is naitik's secret desire 😆 that at least in akshara's eyes, naitik is the best...it'll give him the required ego boost..mohit did it but not maate...of late, therez friction b/w RR and Naitik, Naitik is no less, he tried to pull down RR saying that his understanding with Akshara is better than bubbles 😃 RR on the other hand, is constantly taunting him abt his disability n all the responsibilities is being handled well by him..maate itni bewakoof nahi lagti ke she doesn't understand this rivalry but she never pays attention coz she doesn't wanna come in bad books of any person...

anyways, apart frm naksh, i liked shaurya-varsha convo also...shaurya scolding varsha 😆 for not fulfilling her responsibilities well...she ignored him and ananya n cud not handle anshu..did varsha argue with him? 😳 it was not entirely varsha's mistake phir bhi she listened to her hubby...👏

I can't understand why Naitik did not tell Aksh abt RR's behavior at the sangeet...ok, you don't want to make an issue out of it in front of a house full of guests, but your wife is your confidante first & foremost, na? If she doesn't understand, who will? And yes, even after knowing the truth, I am sure Aksh would have been polite to RR, but remembered what he did to her own husband. The CVs have shown Naksh grow closer & overcome many obstacles, but there is still an element of formality (woh kya soochengi, unhe bura lage ga') in their thought process which should not be there after 2.5 years!

Shaurya & Varsha never had this 'formality' as they had a love marriage. Varsha understands Shaurya's pov w/o taking offense to it...& more importantly, without retaliating & being defensive on the spot. My dad always says when someone says something hurtful, don't retaliate right away; take ten minutes to think abt it, and then respond to it. Varsha does this well...

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