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Posted: 14 years ago
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When I woke up this morning...I saw lot of threads blaming Naitik...defending Naitik etc etc...I got lil confuse where to post my views...😕 so here I am...😆
Charu Di I read ur post in one of these threads...I simply loved it the way u wrote...😃🤗
Chalo enough of my bak bak lets come back to the topic...😆😆
As far as y'day's argument goes I think both r wrong and right at the same time. Its high time Naksh should understand each other or atleast try to... Naitik should understand Akshara is not only his wife but also the bahu of the house and Akshara should also understand that she is bahu of the house only because she is Naitik's wife... Moral of the story is they need to maintain balance in their relationship...keeping aside their egos and stubborness. Today their relationship equilibrium was disturbed leading to this argument.
Akshara should know Naitik needs her love,care and attention not only in their bedroom but outside as well...only smp's won't do. Naitik should know Akshara has other house responsibilities as well...sply when he knows how rigid and paramparavadi his dino family is. Basically what went wrong y'day was they took each other for granted which normally happens in married couples life. Naitik thought Akshara will understand his irritation and frustration. Akshara thought Naitik will understand that she has work pressure. Sometimes you need to spell out and thats what happened but in a ugly way. In a way I am glad that they vomited out instead of keeping it inside which is more harmful. I just hope they don't become nasty in this blame game.
This is my POV...no offence intended... 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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yar di..
ek aur topic.??
ab aur kya likhu..
but i agree with u..
taali ek haath se nhi bajti..
galti dono ki ho sakti hai..
but has akshara ever tried to understand why is naitik so irritated.?? kaam kaam kaam kaam.. saara din kaam.?? do pal nhi hai uske pas apne pati ke liye..
this is what i wrote in some other thread..😛
"naitik is just irritated..
i mean he fractured his foot with absolutely no fault of his.. he has an eye infection.. everyone at his house thinks he's just good for nothing.. to bechara kya karega.. to top it all.. he overheard akshara telling RR that he cannot do anything..
he's just so frustrated.. angry.. and hurt ki use kuch samajh hi nhi aa rha hai.. i don't blame him for this.. it's all very spontaneous and natural.. yeah.. kuch words bahut harsh the.. but he's angry.. u cannot stop ur emotions!!
but yes.. akshara could have made him feel better.. instead of saying naitik aap aaram kariye.. she could have framed the sentence in some other way.. just shifting of some words were required.. akshara has organised the wedding.. kudos!! but wedding hai to kya her personal life takes a back seat?? shadi ki tayariyon mein use ye to dhyaan raha ki kaki pareshaan hai.. anshu kahi hai nhi.. to use ye dhyan kyon nhi rha ki naitik is also there and he's also equally tensed.. if not more than kaki.. just few words of appreciation, care was enough to make naitik realise that akshara was still there for him..
but nhi.. our maate chose to solve anshu's problems (unnecassarily) than her own husband's.. to ab koi kya kare.. naitik put it right.. akshara ko 7 kadam aage chalne ki adat hai.. obviously naitik would feel bad.. usne itne din sab seh liya.. obviously jab paani sir ke upar se jaaega to he would react.."
it got two likes..😉😛😆
Edited by moonlight08 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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that is the best pov i have seen in the forum today and i totally agree
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonlight08

yar di..

ek aur topic.??

ab aur kya likhu..


but i agree with u..

taali ek haath se nhi bajti..

galti dono ki ho sakti hai..

but has akshara ever tried to understand why is naitik so irritated.?? kaam kaam kaam kaam.. saara din kaam.?? do pal nhi hai uske pas apne pati ke liye..


this is what i wrote in some other thread..😛


"naitik is just irritated..
i mean he fractured his foot with absolutely no fault of his.. he has an eye infection.. everyone at his house thinks he's just good for nothing.. to bechara kya karega.. to top it all.. he overheard akshara telling RR that he cannot do anything..

he's just so frustrated.. angry.. and hurt ki use kuch samajh hi nhi aa rha hai.. i don't blame him for this.. it's all very spontaneous and natural.. yeah.. kuch words bahut harsh the.. but he's angry.. u cannot stop ur emotions!!


but yes.. akshara could have made him feel better.. instead of saying naitik aap aaram kariye.. she could have framed the sentence in some other way.. just shifting of some words were required.. akshara has organised the wedding.. kudos!! but wedding hai to kya her personal life takes a back seat?? shadi ki tayariyon mein use ye to dhyaan raha ki kaki pareshaan hai.. anshu kahi hai nhi.. to use ye dhyan kyon nhi rha ki naitik is also there and he's also equally tensed.. if not more than kaki.. just few words of appreciation, care was enough to make naitik realise that akshara was still there for him..

but nhi.. our maate chose to solve anshu's problems (unnecassarily) than her own husband's.. to ab koi kya kare.. naitik put it right.. akshara ko 7 kadam aage chalne ki adat hai.. obviously naitik would feel bad.. usne itne din sab seh liya.. obviously jab paani sir ke upar se jaaega to he would react.."


it got two likes..😉😛😆


Kya karu kaumudi? I am not blaming anyone...so thought of opening another thread... 😆 I agree with you if I look it from Naitik's POV... magar Akshara ki taraf se sochu toh I disagree. I am looking things from third persons view. As u urself said taali ek haath se nahin bajti.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shayal1436

that is the best pov i have seen in the forum today and i totally agree


Thanks shayal1436 (sorry I don't know ur name)... 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mein ashi aur kaumudi dono se agree hun...akshara instead of counting usne kya kya kiya hai iss 2 din mein..thoda pyar se naitik ko samjha sakthi thi...thoda helplessness ko understand kerne ki koshish kar sakthi thi...ek tho leg fracture uper se eye infection so already frustrated insaan hai...and he overhears that akshi rr ko kehthi hai ki naitik se nahi hoga ye sab ...tho usko bura lagega hi na...and naitik ki bhi ye sochna chahiye tha ki akshi is trying to do all those thing for his sister...uski family ko apnaya hai ...uska ek hi frustration ye hai ki akshi unkeliye 2 mnt bhi nahi nikalthi hai which is true...shaadi ki chakkar mein apni personal life ko kyon ignore karthi hai ye? agar 2 mnt naitik nikal saktha hai tho akshi kyun nahi? loved naitik sayaing aapko sath chalne mein nahi 7 kadam aage jana hai hamesh...which is a fact also...mere khyal se dono mein abhi bhi utna understanding nahi hai jitna ek couple hona chahiye...this is my pov...
Edited by pvlaks - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey really nice view yaar..

congrats

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree that a single individual can't b held responsible 4 yesterday's chaos... 2 things went comletely wrong...aksh's little convo with rr that naitik overhears n, naitik's timing of throwing up his pentup frustration on aksh...but what aksh did was not on purpose... the poor thing said it on the spur of the moment...but what abt r munna...all i can say is...if he really loves aksh n if he really is a changed person now he won't stretch the rr matter further..or else u r in trouble naitik...big time!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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im going to reserve this post,when i get back home i will write my views
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Asawari, I agree w/u...just commented on this topic on Sab's thread. Honestly, I don't think the wedding is the right forum for these two to start tuning into each other's feelings in general...its a pressure cooker, yaar... I don't blame Aksh for trying to defend herself & all her responsibilities (even though the wedding is not the right venue to do this, but she felt compelled to.) However, I do believe, that Aksh should have been sensitive to Naitik & his RR hangup...she should have privately talked to Mohit or anyone else abt her concern; she knows RR is the one person who sets Naitik off completely, (and to make things worse, inadvertently, Naitik was alienated from the conversation, where all the other younger members of the family were present!) I think It would be like Gma commenting to someone within Aksh's earshot that Aksh did not follow thru on a given responsibility--it would tear her apart!

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