Naksh Independence day - Page 3

Originally posted by: smrth

Charu

I can't help but feel concerned. Normally I avoid personal -except in PMs, but I am short merited in your case'

I've been brought up in a prosperous joint family of three brothers. But luckily, Me Dadi was sagacious- like Vishambhar's mother?! (but I fear comparison to these fictional and that too very naively sketched by amateurs and in a commercial interests induced plots). She was progressive and intelligent- so much so that she would encourage my mother to complete her doctorate thesis even after marriage. ( though I became culprit! ) . The serendipitous case was well adjusted bonding bet'n her three DILs- though I feel, her subtle even handedness must have played a big role in that equilibrium. Your sensitive, intelligent nature will sure find its correct answers'.Please forgive me if I overstepped my brief.

...."this is my pledge to the CV's , plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz show a positive side to this track , otherwise akshara ki achai is all wasted ! if u get THIS after being so good then it's better to be called bad ! plz show that Naitik CAN look after the business and BETTER than Daddaji and Akshara CAN look after the household duties responsibly and at the same time, BOTH of them uphold the parampara and values which they were taught ! " 👏👍🏼

I am sure, her goodness will be shown rewarded positively in the end. Their whole built-up is only for those logical ends- after perhaps, 4-5 weeks of tiresome stretching

Originally posted by: _charu_

..no comparisions whatsoever 😃 in reality, it's extremely tough to find solutions...it doesn't happen the way daddaji does it.."ye le tera hissa"...hissa alag nahi pada rehta..did he prepare the papers of naitik's share beforehand? it's ridiculous.....i'm talking in general that if the elderly person of the house does this (dividing the property) ON TIME , then it's good for the future generations....if it's done peacefully then nothing like it...go ahead and celebrate your independence....it comes with its share of problems but eventually one gets over it..

i want a logical ending to it ......... surely NOT the way Shaurya's track ended 🤢

Originally posted by: smrth

For once, Akshara- Naitik should have spelled their genuine disappointment in elders- stay polite but firm and start building their own nest away from this Gestapo. Naitik should have also pointed out validity of his initial wishes of MBA job- to his father and injustice of these all.

There is also other side. Cvs, in their zeal to glorify the leads, will slyly show, illogically, only wrong side of elders. But we have to comment on what we see na'

Originally posted by: smrth

The elder Generation is showed failing big time. They actually strengthen the case for nuclear family system and deserve the Batwaara'as much as the liberated young couple, much though these two may lament the lifting of a tyranny.

Originally posted by: -renu-

I totally agree with u.....the elder generation HAS to understand that today's d-i-l is not gonna dance to the in-laws' tunes, that they themselves probably did 20-30 years back...this game of ONE-UP-MANSHIP has to stop.........soon.....

....i can't understand one thing....when a daughter is happy with her husband, parents r thrilled....

....but when a son is happy with his wife, all hell breaks loose.........can someone explain y ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

Originally posted by: _charu_

renu, as far as i understand, it's human nature.....our mil and mother telling us the same thing has different affect on us...mil ki baatein usually taunt hi lagti hai......😃 vaise this happens bec. bete sabko zyada pyaare hote hai na...that day we were discussing na why sons r preferred over daughters? obviously bahu ke aane ke baad therez an insecurity in the mind of in laws ke ye alag hone ki baat karenge..alag hona means son's earnings will go to his wife n children not them...beta alag ho gaya toh kaun sahara banega? bahu will control the son toh son humari toh sunega nahi...their position is in danger...the way son loved them before marriage, obviously all that changes after marriage...the same MIL will be delighted if her son in law seperates from the family ! bec. then uski daughter ka future is secure !

the diff. b/w bahu and beti will always exist....we know our children well , we love them unconditionally & to the max, itna ke no one else does..our children r also comfortable with us more than with anyone else...i've experienced it both ways...the problems which my mil has with me, the same issues my mom has with my bhabhi.. when my bhabhi tells me abt few issues with her mil (my mom), i think ke "oh no..my mom is not like that"....but i can relate to her problem bec. i face the same in my house....1 problem is generation gap , 2nd problem is miscommunication....that's why i said that if we follow akshara's footsteps, prolly there won't be any MU..but then it's not easy to become a devi..sabki nature alag hoti hai..3rd problem which is also very common and which is shown in YR also is the clash b/w son and his family...which way should the bahu go? kiski baat maane? husband ki ya in laws ki? if husband will ask his wife to wear westerns and in laws r against it then?

Originally posted by: fazeel

wow charu di i like you way of explaination i thin yrrkh is real show they showing what happening in real