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Posted: 14 years ago
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A veteran head of a large family would not react in such fashion. Just wondering, how this patriarch was holding his flock together so far? Or rather, is he really worthy of the respect or bereavement that those two actually courteous youngsters are wasting on this egotist elder at all?

1. Was he really looking for ulterior motives in Naitik's action for months or was he hard put to control his presumed slight of ego since Buaji fanned it to the surface?

2. How is he to react on learning his 'ah-so-victimized' daughter's willful snub of her husband's exactly similar (and far more valid) grouse, only to appease her MIL?

3. How come He and Rajbanna all of sudden become so bold in brushing aside that imminent and actual threat of forgery complaint which had exerted them so far as to sale their house at half the market price? Or had he seen a perfect opportunity to cut these two irritant juniors down to their sizes once the imminent threat is dissolved?

4. How come a father let his obedient and adult son go so misunderstood and undefended when he had actually acted only to protect his family?

5. If this patriarch is so much 'principally' against 'dowry (though more he appeared concerned only for social gossip), then how can he scold his DIL so savagely?

6. If he is so proud of his fair sense of judgment and sure of its benevolence on family, then how could he start blaming the fiasco of his daughter's marriage on these two when it was he who took the final decision? Not to speak of the actual contribution of his willful daughter's intractable misdemeanors to everyone including her husband.

7. Gaytri,so eagerly accusatory to same Daddaji when Rashmi's matrimonial was in line, becomes so indignant at her son and DIL's presumed disobedience, that to when now everyone knows the imminent forgery complaint as compelling instigation (and actually serious).

8. Bhabhima- not comprehending the seriousness of an arrest warrant for her 'oh-so- venerable and reputable' lord- that she sites Buaji, whose considerable barbs were aimed at her own daughter?

The elder Generation is showed failing big time. They actually strengthen the case for nuclear family system and deserve the Batwaara…as much as the liberated young couple, much though these two may lament the lifting of a tyranny.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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loved ur comments smrth. i don't know really wehn dj come to know real reason of nandu coming and sitting at maayka. and then rashmi'smarriage is going to be a big problem fo singhania's and this without naksh help how they going to manage .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why Dj is angry now because society is talking about him taking dowry from her DIL . didnt the society was talking about mohit and nandini when the got married? because of age diffrence?he was ok than now what happend? and didnt he try to help mohit with house , car and servant. did he think the same that he is giving dowry to her daughter?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JAYA_09

loved ur comments smrth. i don't know really wehn dj come to know real reason of nandu coming and sitting at maayka. and then rashmi'smarriage is going to be a big problem fo singhania's and this without naksh help how they going to manage .


I think regarding rashmi's marriage rajshri may tell to akshara that the guy is not good... and then akshi make efforts to stop the marriage... akshi might win in stopping the marriage.. and again singhania parivaar wont believe her and again blames her saying bahu always does wrong....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JAYA_09

loved ur comments smrth. i don't know really wehn dj come to know real reason of nandu coming and sitting at maayka. and then rashmi'smarriage is going to be a big problem fo singhania's and this without naksh help how they going to manage .

He is acting pure hypocrite. Popped eyes-flared nostrils and loud mouth. Perhaps more hurt at the failure of his so many years' Goodwill in producing a ready cash in crisis while juniors' ability to fetch the same.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhaviben

Why Dj is angry now because society is talking about him taking dowry from her DIL . didnt the society was talking about mohit and nandini when the got married? because of age diffrence?he was ok than now what happend? and didnt he try to help mohit with house , car and servant. did he think the same that he is giving dowry to her daughter?

He is all goofed up. That time, he was acting enlightened.His current whim is 'pricipled'. Actually, I would love to see Naitik pointing out his double standards… w.r.t. Nandini, it's o.k. to slur Mohit's 'principles', but w.r.t. Vishambhar's discreet and temporary help, it becomes attack on his principles…But I think Mohit will do the expose.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Do none of the elders realize younger ones' more then genuine concerns or validity of their actions when a particularly destructive crises was looming large? Or its actual diffusion was realized by their actions? Any other family would have been proud of their responsible heirs. In stead, this family is widely humiliating them into abject apologies! No wonder, they should have abstained from taking any initiative and let DJ go to jail. Then only this bunch of wisecracks would have understood the real gravity of a forgery crime in comparison to a damage by an idle gossip- that too on a false premise of a temporary help.

Have they not an iota of gratitude to Vishambhar? It appears, DJ would have gladly whacked Maheshwaris now that he knows he is safe (of course they will actually so appropriate thanks in a false mask of modesty)...his attitude is something like, I will hang you for preventing me from being hanged.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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As predicted all were quick to conclude that Naksh were wrong🤢 Did anybody care to find out or pay attention to what was said by the defendants? Yup, I almost forgot. It's DJ's court - a verdict w/o trial😆 However they were quick to push them to apologize. Why? Answer - coz the other side was older. Does that mean DJ is right solely based on age? Answer - does it even matter if he is right? It almost looked like another one of those tantrums and all trying to pacify the brat. G3 wants Akshara to lead her life exactly like her & BM, why? Answer - she is a m-i-l, she is supposed to feel that way😆

Why was there no good defense from Naitik? Coz CV's are of the mindset that older generation is always right😡 As always they managed to make Naitik & Akshara look bad. They were begging for him to take back his decision. Couldn't one of them put a stop to his endless rant? It was like a child accusing the other kid that he/she was responsible for everything bad happening to them.

Akshara was asking DJ to punish her🤣 Would she leave Naitik if DJ decides that's her punishment for disobeying his orders? How ridiculous was that line? Or did she expect DJ to say you kneel down by the Singhania front door as punishment or maybe sleep on the kitchen floor?This just looks similar to the home buying fiasco. Begging, begging & more begging. Make a mistake or not, it's just the same. Same scenes just different circumstances...Akshara is just spineless and Naitik will soon be...

I will add one more thing to my list of scenarios I mentioned on another thread ( https://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1621489) to fix the DINO's. 3) Infighting between the Dino's. A jealous G3 instigating RB; fighting for her son's rights and creating a rift between RB & DJ. Survival of the fittest dino, let the drama unfold👏 Baisa's mission accomplished - to jumpstart DJ's mojo🤣

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Posted: 14 years ago
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what dj did with naksh was totally wrong.always older gen people were not correct. they should give a chance to younger gen to prove themselves. in mahaant matter dj pointed his finger that mahaant is working with him past 24 yrs and he didn't believe naitik when he told that he is cheating us. and then when dj and RB and naitik sitting talking about some internaitonal business dj was not impressed with naitik when he said that in international market also our jewellery designs were appreciated and dj telling naitik no u talk about udaipur not to talk international market. how his thinking is so backward. naitik thinking and talking about present .i know is going to prove himself best and dji is going to fall to naitik. naitik's business will appreciated internationally and i want akshi to do the design for naitik jewellery business so that they both can some time together . b'ma and gay3 and nandu should bang the head on the wall. they will regret about their decision waht they did to anksh and akshi should not cry and i want her to be naitik and prove thery wre not wrong.
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Nice post ..... everyone...👏

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