#smrth: Wow! I have been in PR forums too! I like that show too, I mean my sister in law likes it alot so I join in 😆!
By the way, wonderful thread you created! The thread have good views, perceptions, and thus wonderful contributions. You don't need to be a woman to enjoy drama or play or stories or even cartoons (I love cartoons and it is supposed to be a kid stuff 😆😉).
I think marriages which occur through love and trust should be a commitment not only for a life time, but in fact the whole life time should be spent in such a learning attitude that the soul can also stay together in the after life! I believe deeply in the afterlife, and the concept of soul mates.
Unfortunately these days, neither some women and nor many men realize how precious a marriage is, which is based on the foundations of love. This is the most basic thing in a human's life and soul. While food and shelter are necessary elements for our survival (to keep breathing), eventually they are just for a mortal body which is always subjected to decay. However, love is just as immortal as God (In the Bible, it is said that GOD IS LOVE). Without it, life on this planet or the other will always be a heavy one.
Time roughens and makes many things difficult. But if two people can become one in real terms, they can always be a better force than a lone man/woman walking the same path.
We all would reasonably have different views. We are all different people (and in my case, I am only recently learning anything about India), and thus in my own point of view, "love" is something you can fall in only "once" in life. I know in Europe/Poland many people have different concept which is fast being copied in India aswell. But many (increasingly) in our land can see how beautiful this concept of Love and marriage was. For example back in Poland these days there is nothing really called "marriage" and love in its most natural terms is something only found in books. However, people (youths) are increasingly in demand of something more stable, something more meaningful in life. Well balanced, and the true source of joy.
Me being a Catholic, have faith involved in it too. Also, many in my town, my country, have similar concepts.
Ofcourse, it becomes more difficult when you find the wrong person to lead your life with. Thus, better to be sure or atleast trust before you be with someone. In my case I hated any form of drinking (because my father, who I saw only a negligible times was a drunkard), I hate gamblers, and I love to avoid party animal people ... . I was fortunate to find one of the most simple, yet lovely person who had the better qualities in life. He did not earn much at that time, but was educated and sincere. Honest, soft spoken .... and he still is the same man. Someone I can rely on (in fact, that is him and me on my display image here 😊). I like Pavitra Rashta because I too lived in a 2 bedroom flat back in Lodz 😆, ofcourse later with his success in his business venture, we now have much better, but those factors were not and still are not primary. I was alive and I am still similarly alive ... my smiles and my peace is in our only biggest property, and that property is "The Heart".
There is no career, no ambition, no money or no future when the future lacks heart and soul! If we want everything in life, it is like trying to grab alot of sand very tightly in the hand, and eventually everything flows away! We can only have this much ... and it is a story of shared compromises, adjustments and devoted feelings distractingly towards each other.
If you can have the knowledge of love and the idea of how to handle it clear in your mind, then the journey of life is possible ... and those vows can really work too. If you cannot make up your mind on what should get priority (I mean, why you are actually earning, working for ...), then you have a difficult and confused life ahead, which is always a rush and never in any stability.
Whatever I wrote are things I learnt in my mind, and much from my Kochanie 😉 ... and it is a journey of learning forever.
I learn so much everyday ... and from here I learnt so much! You guyz are so gr8! ... I wish to learn more about India, and think on it ... to see it more closely and see how it can benefit a life to make it more beautiful to live 😊 (isn't that what should be our aim? ... to make life beautiful?).
As for Akshara ... she is a simple girl, as I once mentioned, with huge expectations on her. Only thing I wonder is why she don't let her husband have the greater priority in her life! Because it is him for whom she know all the people (her in laws), and without him no other relation have much of a meaning! If this is how she will distance herself from him ... then Naitik might deviate, and will it be such a surprise?
The in laws at her place don't make it any easier for her. Fine, this is her culture and she loves it (beyond my imagination, but OK!) ... still, I think her husband must take a front seat. What if he want separate living? Then will she blow him away with some step like "you go away, I'll stick with the family"!! In that case, maybe the man might conclude that "he did not get the right life partner"!
Does she give him time in bed? Also, what is wrong when such a nice man she is married to, she is still confused about her love with him 😆? ...
But the COLORS... songs ... dances ... they are the things really which keeps hypnotizing me.
Love u guyz ... I just wrote all what kept coming in my heart ... 😆 ... keep having fun!
I really look forward to some Colors in my own sister in laws many marriage related parties ahead. Already her friends, cousins ... we all sit and talk 😆😃 ... and many things are so funny ... but so cute too 😆😊😉 ....
Arjun
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