YRKKH - 14th Jan Update - Page 13

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

Anji, Akshara is being treated this way coz she has an opinion of her own. Instead of respecting it, she is being abused for it. They could have told her that its ok for her to think like that but they dont agree with her and she should stay away from Nandini. Akshara would have done that. Instead the entire family, ignored her...uff, just thinking of the way she was treated makes me want to slap that Mohit of all people..i dont know why 😡

Originally posted by: niveda82

dont say that ritu i can't even think of her family begging singhania's to take her back....😭

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

Anji, Akshara is being treated this way coz she has an opinion of her own. Instead of respecting it, she is being abused for it. They could have told her that its ok for her to think like that but they dont agree with her and she should stay away from Nandini. Akshara would have done that. Instead the entire family, ignored her...uff, just thinking of the way she was treated makes me want to slap that Mohit of all people..i dont know why 😡

Oh, no, the mentals would NEVER implicate Nandini...after all, she is the ghar ki beti...she can't be wrong...& if she is wrong, why take out the anger on her when Akshara is ready to be the fall guy?! Mohit needed a shoulder for support & he knew Akshara would never turn her back on him & Nandini--he recognized this as her strength & her weakness...

Originally posted by: Nandalala

<br><br>Charu, I do understand...I understand now Naitik only listens to what he wants to hear...he only reacts to that which he thinks is right...when its convenient for him, he ropes in family values, traditions & the parampara crap...where was all this when during the courtship process when he would defy everyone to meet Akshara? When he stood up to mamaji at the wedding for being a complete bafoon? Where is that Naitik who promised Akshara he will try to listen & be a better husband on the morning after SG1...? <br><br>Akshara has a right to support Mohini if she wants...why does she have to listen to Naitik?...If he has a problem with the relationship, then sort it out with Mohini...Why abuse your own wife? Is this whats done? Is this something society condones? I don't think so...my biggest issue with this whole track is the emotional abuse Aksh went through...there is no room for it....& Naitik has to realize this...<br>

that's not right Anji...till now, Naitik always had a reason to get upset with Akshara...bec. aksh lied to him in the park, bec. she went to the maayka inspite of naitik telling her not to interfere b/w shaurya n varsha , she was again letting mohit talk to nandini..that's what he heard and saw...he cannot be blamed for reacting on what he DOES NOT KNOW bec. he was kept in dark from the very beginning..at THIS point when he knew, he lost trust on Akshara..everything went out of control bec. he was kept out of the loop...and we cannot compare nandini's situation with naitik's bec. naitik was getting married to aksh , he didn't meet her THAT often and this was not against the parampara and what not....he gave a reply to maamaji bec. he felt maamaji was wrong..on the day of his wedding and tulsi pooja....but sorry, i dun see any reason why he should defend akshara bec. he doesn't agree with nandini and mohit's rishta AT ALL ! tht's his POV..... ..where aksh is wrong she is wrong ..........akshara cud never understand his nature...he expected transperency in their husband wife relationship which he never got! bec. he always got to know the wrong things when it was too late ..

yes the family's overreaction and naitik's reaction was all unwanted & stupid..basically aggravating an already complex situation..none of them will gain anything by shouting or blaming any person....

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

sadly in their society women are not allowed to have an opinion and are treated like doormats...so even if she rebelled and walked away, no 1 will respect her but ulta will give her more taane for going against him....no 1 is in the right state of mind already and this incident just adds fuel to the fire...not much good will come for the next few days atleast....and with the Maheshwaris involved now, this will get even worse 😭

Exactly, Akshara would have been abused any which ways...had she stayed or left....or better she goes away and stay away from the circus. When she is away from Naitik and Nandini, she will be able to think of the gravity of the situation.
Rajshri should be taken to the hospital now only. She will start her "hey bhagwan meri bachchi ke saath kya ho gaya"... 😃

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

sadly in their society women are not allowed to have an opinion and are treated like doormats...so even if she rebelled and walked away, no 1 will respect her but ulta will give her more taane for going against him....no 1 is in the right state of mind already and this incident just adds fuel to the fire...not much good will come for the next few days atleast....and with the Maheshwaris involved now, this will get even worse 😭

OPINION? Dino land mein nobody except Daddaji can have an opinion..if Aksh had such a radical thinking, she should have taken her husband into confidence before taking this drastic step...

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Oh, no, the mentals would NEVER implicate Nandini...after all, she is the ghar ki beti...she can't be wrong...& if she is wrong, why take out the anger on her when Akshara is ready to be the fall guy?! Mohit needed a shoulder for support & he knew Akshara would never turn her back on him & Nandini--he recognized this as her strength & her weakness...

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

Anji, Akshara is being treated this way coz she has an opinion of her own. Instead of respecting it, she is being abused for it. They could have told her that its ok for her to think like that but they dont agree with her and she should stay away from Nandini. Akshara would have done that. Instead the entire family, ignored her...uff, just thinking of the way she was treated makes me want to slap that Mohit of all people..i dont know why 😡

infact Nishi, she should have said this to Nandini ke "think of the consequences before taking any step further..can you go against your family? first make up your mind", instead of telling nandu "daddaji will understand one day..aap mohit ke baare mein sochiye" ...even if she had an opinion abt nandu and mohit, she should have acted 1% diplomatic ...she cud have helped them without getting involved....she cud have told naitik on the day abhimanyu's rishta came for nandini that naitik, nandini didi likes mohit , now you talk to her clearly what she wants to do ! rather than saying "yeh rishta nandini didi ke liye theek nahi hai, didi aap rishta ke liye haan na keejiye"

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

trust me Ritvi...I also liked it a lot when I head that Akshara has left...but when u think from a realistic POV, I dont think she did the rite thing especially by walking off quietly...create a drama, confront him in front of the family and tell him that I'm doing just like wht u wanted me to do....let every 1 see...

but now we are just hoping that he realizes and goes and gets her or her family begs for her return...what good has that got?? or do we completely want this rishta to end?? 😕

i know ritu nothing good will from this....when maheswari's came to know about this,how they will react ? even they also don't support akshara for this...because every girls parents belives that their daughter has to be in sasural.....in their POV ,they don't think that singhanias are humiliating akshara and more they will say if they are angry or ignoring you ,you are the one who has to adjust ......some crap like this....most of the girls parents will wait until some major thing happens in their daughter's life and after that they will get regret that what they did.....they will first think about the society and then think daughter problem....i really hope that maheswari's don't behave like that.

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Thanks, Charu...hope u feel better soon, yaar😃...
I thought this epi was very well enacted...kudos to the leads. As for the he said, she said, as Chary stated, it underscores how weak this relationship was/is. But I do think this dialogue between the two was absolutely necessary & critical...a lot was said today that needed to be said well before 2 today. Today's drama may well be the foundation for them to start anew...IF the creatives handle it right, it could make for a very interesting twist in the tale where the couple, in the reconciliation process, will get to "really" know each other & finally fall in love...It would be best if this happens outside the Singhania house...imo, there is hope yet for this show...😊

If they show this reconciliation process, I think it will fit with the title of the show. Until now, Naitik and Akshara's relationship had a name-- marriage. But what do you call reconciliating spouses? Yeh rishta kya kehlata hai?