YRKKH - 14th Jan Update - Page 11

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Ritu, I agree compromise is the first tenet of marriage...but in this case, the situation was beyond compromise...who the heck is she going to compromise with? Deaf ears? How can u compromise when u r a pariah in the house? Where every freaking action is scrutinized...no one listens...all because she supported a romance? Where is the respect for the bahu; forget bahu, where is the respect for her as a human being, yaar? She was then told to leave...coupled with the behavior from ALL the mentals in the last few days, was she really wrong in leaving...I don't think so...

Originally posted by: Nandalala

<br><br>I agree, Nishi...when was the last time Naitik actually listened to Aksh? Just reading the updates it was clear that the couple was not in sync at all for days..how on earth could Aksh continue to live in that home where the one person who matters is not willing to reason with her...Naitik's behavior in this instance was more at fault than ANYTHING Aksh did...you don't insult u rwife, shove her, ignore her, treat her like a complete pariah then expect her to stay back when u have asked her to leave...enough of the emotional abuse crap...She did the right thing by leaving...let him REPENT now...<br>

anji ur not understanding...WHAT Is it that Naitik didn't listen to? when Aksh didn't have anything to say ????? it's all in black and white ! Akshara is FOR Mohit and Nandini's relation and doesn't think that therez anything wrong with it while Naitik thinks completely opposite ! Akshara doesn't have anything to say in her defence other than "i wanted to tell u earlier" ...but this will NOT lessen her mistake...the idea of love marriage is STILL NOT ACCEPTABLE in our society, in yrkkh it's next to commiting a sin...it's still taken with a raised eye brow.."ACHA,love marriage?" ..can't aksh leave this Nandini didi ki khushi and concentrate on her rishta with Naitik? she still doesn't understand tht by lying to him and doing this behind his back, she's put herself into a BIG BIG trouble ! and all this wouldn't have happened if she cared to tell Naitik earlier n save her day..

Originally posted by: 5cents

<br>Hi Charu, thx dear for the nice update. I did watch the epi but in its & pieces only. It was a very emotional episode & excellent acting too. Maybe Aksh was incoherent at times but when u are mad & sad u do fumble while u talk & cry. Naitik was abs irrational..........<font size="3" face="Times New Roman">Well..A USELESS POSSESSIVE BUFFALO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</font>
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thanks for the honours dear 😃 this is music to my ears 🤣

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

this is a pure case of Damn if u do and Damn if u dont...but I'll keep it simple and to your question that she will break down if she stays there, dont u think she will be more heartbroken now that she has left....atleast in the house Naitik is in front of her eyes...and there is a potential that his heart melts seeing her...but there are no gurantees here na...coz she is the one who left and we all know how the family is....one work from Daddaji and Naitik will send the divorce papers through Shamsher and marry the first girl ST brings....so how could Akshara take such a big risk with her marriage???

I think very differently Ritu. Naitik's heart will not melt unless DJ forgives her and is Akshara supposed to hang in till then in the fond hope that someday DJ will forgive her? I think that is what she would have done if Naitik had not spoken to her today. She would have continued to stay and suffer. She couldnt bear the fact that Naitik wasnt even looking at her..forget talking to her. She neer thought of leaving the house and going. She left the house only because he told her that he should have thought twice before marrying her. That is what affected her the most. When she knows her husband doesnt want her, what will she do in the house? It has gone beyond apologising and forgiving.

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

The would have stopped her from going but their behaviour towards her will not change. Why should Akshara do everything as Naitik likes??? I am not saying what she did was right but she genuinely belives Nandini and Mohit are happy with each other. Ok, even she decides to do what Naitik wants, their so called ghar ki izzat is gone...and she will always be blamed for it. If she had stayed under such circumstances, she would have broken down.

when did i say she should do as Naitik pleases? infact she must put a tape on his mouth and shout in his ears whatever she wants to explain (i'm sick of hearing this dialogue actually...USKO KYA SAMJHANA HAI YAAR) 🤣 can't she make him understand? if she failed once then twice thrice..try yaar properly, is it that difficult? Ask tht good for nothing thali ki baingan nandini to talk to naitik...at least clear her stand and then go..

nyways i just wanted to say tht she should have left in the presence of the family & Naitik so tht there r no more misunderstandings as to WHY she's leaving the house..tell them na what naitik said to her and then leave..

Originally posted by: _charu_

anji ur not understanding...WHAT Is it that Naitik didn't listen to? when Aksh didn't have anything to say ????? it's all in black and white ! Akshara is FOR Mohit and Nandini's relation and doesn't think that therez anything wrong with it while Naitik thinks completely opposite ! Akshara doesn't have anything to say in her defence other than "i wanted to tell u earlier" ...but this will NOT lessen her mistake...the idea of love marriage is STILL NOT ACCEPTABLE in our society, in yrkkh it's next to commiting a sin...can't aksh leave this Nandini didi ki khushi and concentrate on her rishta with Naitik? she still doesn't understand tht by lying to him and doing this behind his back, she's put herself into a BIG BIG trouble ! and all this wouldn't have happened if she cared to tell Naitik earlier n save her day..

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

this is a pure case of Damn if u do and Damn if u dont...but I'll keep it simple and to your question that she will break down if she stays there, dont u think she will be more heartbroken now that she has left....atleast in the house Naitik is in front of her eyes...and there is a potential that his heart melts seeing her...but there are no gurantees here na...coz she is the one who left and we all know how the family is....one work from Daddaji and Naitik will send the divorce papers through Shamsher and marry the first girl ST brings....so how could Akshara take such a big risk with her marriage???

if akshara is not in front of his eyes and if he can think of marrying another girl or divorce then what's the point in akshara loving naitik and staying with him....if their relation is that much weak then let them go their own ways....

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

I think very differently Ritu. Naitik's heart will not melt unless DJ forgives her and is Akshara supposed to hang in till then in the fond hope that someday DJ will forgive her? I think that is what she would have done if Naitik had not spoken to her today. She would have continued to stay and suffer. She couldnt bear the fact that Naitik wasnt even looking at her..forget talking to her. She neer thought of leaving the house and going. She left the house only because he told her that he should have thought twice before marrying her. That is what affected her the most. When she knows her husband doesnt want her, what will she do in the house? It has gone beyond apologising and forgiving.

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

exactly...and why cant she give him the benefit of doubt for once and support him rather than Nandini??? Should he be the one to always be understanding and agree with everything she has to say??? isnt it a 2 way relationship in every marriage? If she had that much of self respect, she should have walked out the instance naitik threw her sarees on the floor!

i think if she wud have at least tried to see everything with Naitik & the family's POV then she would have understood herself...but she's still sticking to her "nandini didi will remain khush with mohit only" ..can't she , even if she doesn't mean it, say to naitik "i understand this is very difficult..i'm sorry i thought that this was possible..we'll have to find a solution together, find a way to explain nandini so that everyone is happy" ..but no ! 1 pet dialogue "nandini didi aur mohit ki khushi ek doosre mein hai" ...arre pehle ask nandini is she ready to take this big step? akshara risked her relationship with naitik for nandini..will nandini fight for her?

Originally posted by: niveda82

<br>if akshara is not in front of his eyes and if he can think of marrying another girl or divorce then what's the point in akshara loving naitik and staying with him....if their relation is that much weak then let them go their own ways....<br>

ho ho lets not think THAT far....till tht time we'll all be brain dead 🤢