YRKKH - 14th Jan Update - Page 16

Poor Akshara... her patience just ran out............

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

yes Nishi agreed that she is being treated bad....then y cant she become a vamp now??? why did she accept defeat and walk out??? give them back in their own music rather than be run over...she is a member of the house and no one should be able to throw her out...so use that right and shoot down the enemy...but she acted like a coward and left!!! what good does that do?....unless she never ever wants to return back to Naitik 😕

Ritu, therez no need to become a vamp..sab darr jayenge yaar 😃 she should be a fighter and not a loser....she should have waited for Naitik to return and tell him "look mr. naitik singhania, i'm still here in this house not inspite of your efforts to make me feel unwanted BECAUSE I am your khandan ki izzat and the day I step out of your house, the izzat which ur trying to save will be in the drain 🤢 and U think about YOUR khandan ki izzat only but I have to to think about BOTH my parents and my sasural's izzat and that's why i will not leave...your clothes will be shifted to the guest room....if you cannot understand me, take ur sweet time"

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ritu, therez no need to become a vamp..sab darr jayenge yaar 😃 she should be a fighter and not a loser....she should have waited for Naitik to return and tell him "look mr. naitik singhania, i'm still here in this house not inspite of your efforts to make me feel unwanted BECAUSE I am your khandan ki izzat and the day I step out of your house, the izzat which ur trying to save will be in the drain 🤢 and U think about YOUR khandan ki izzat only but I have to to think about BOTH my parents and my sasural's izzat and that's why i will not leave...your clothes will be shifted to the guest room....if you cannot understand me, take ur sweet time"

This is the ideal Akshara we would like to see 😃 😃 😃

Originally posted by: Nandalala

<br><br>Charu, he went against parampara during the courtship process...the courtship itself was against DJ's rules & regulations...lets not forget what happened when he was arrested & the aftermath...I am not condoning Aksh's behavior here...she should have been honest with him. BUT as I said yesterday, his reaction to this is COMPLETELY out of line....at least let her speak...did he allow her to say one word edgewise today? Instead, he insulted her by saying kitna brahm mein rakhengi aap; accused her of doing what she wants...he does not want to listen to her, yaar...he is after all Gma's son...<br>

Anji, Aksh didn't leave any room for explanations or understandings..she lied to him so many times ke he doesn't wanna listen to her now...who should he believe? akshara or what he heard frm his own ears, saw frm his own eyes?

I think aksh cud never understand Naitik's nature...when they argued for the first time, Mohit told Naitik "pehli baar mere dost ko koi mila hai jo usko barabar ki takkar de sakta hai.." THERE he said "it's not abt Ash or Katrina, naitik ki baat koi kaat de, aise kisi ne nahi kiya" ...naitik is someone who's headstrong , he forms his opinions quickly & doesn't change them easily..tht way, he was always like that....when he is not in favor of something, no argument can convince him...STILL he calmed down for Akshara....for the first time i think he lashed out on her bec. of tht pen guy and he was apologetic for not listening to akshara...but he never repeated tht mistake....when he came to know abt rituraj n akshara, he straightaway went to akshara n asked her clearly what all happened...aksh didn't tell him the complete story which led to more misunderstandings , he AGAIN asked her on the mehandi day but again she couldn't speak and the result we all know....the way Aksh could have explained him everything, no one else can right? can rituraj or gayitri or varsha or mohit explain naitik tht aksh never loved rituraj n the way naitik is thinking is wrong? okay at tht time aksh didn't get an opportunity to know him or talk to him..so she's excused..

in the past one month, everyday he came back frm the office, he heard only one complaint "akshara went to the maayka without informing us" ..everyday when a person will hear the same thing again n again will he not get pissed off? and when he's telling her not to interfere b/w shaurya n varsha, she again went there on tht crucial day when abhimanyu was coming to see nandini fine akshara cannot dicuss her maayka problems with gayitri but she can share it with naitik right?

naitik always wanted transperency in their relationship ..trust and understanding comes only when therez no miscommunication....what akshara wants to do NOW , "naitik aap meri poori baat suniye" , she should have done it much earlier and i'm sure aksh wouldn't be in a soup...

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Wow, great update Charu... I know I feel like I want to stop watching but get dragged in, Happy Shankranthi, Pongal..., great discussion guys... would have loved to join you, but was busy the whole morning.. didn't get to even watch until lunch hour 😭, quickly read Charu's update in between building code & meetings...<br><br>Did she do the right thing in walking out? Absolutely wrong.. even though people were behaving badly with her esp. Gay3.. this action is that of a kid, running away never solves anything... this will add more fuel to fire.. it will also needlessly bring her parents into the mix... My opinion in this situation is to try not to justify your actions, when everyone is angry, you do not try to keep saying I am right or listen to me... they are in no frame of mind to listen... it is ok to have an opinion, but not necessary that everyone agrees to it... she and Naitik have difference of opinion... the best way to handle it is to slightly fade into background, let things cool for a while... you also cool down, then a solution can be found... at certain point these 2 have to decide do I want this marriage to continue or not... believe me I have been through this heartache, I too had to take a decision of walking out vs. staying put... it is not easy for either party... even after nearly 18 years to this day I don't know how small things exploded to that big inferno... even to this day my hubby says you never saw it from my point of view... yet today if someone sees me & hubby, they would be hardpressed to guess what we went through... I think today my marriage is stronger because we both know how close we came to losing it... my kids are so precious because they came close to not have being... that is why I am relating to Naitik this well, I can easily see how things start to snowball... it will be a lesson to him too that there is a wall to be erected between a husband & wife relationship and the rest of the family.. and she has to learn that her primary focus is Naitik.. all her other relationships are through him... <br><br>I truly think the creatives are going to mash this issue too like Kaka-kaki.. everyone will say sorry and next some lovey-dovey scenes.. not like real life where issues like these are not resolved so easily...<br><br>While Gay3 seems over the top, Naitik is suffering so much... Gay3 should also think of how much criticizing Aksh is hurting Naitik.. it always seems amazing to me that MIL never think they are hurting their own children when they criticize their DIL... as long as DIL is keeping her son happy, there should be no cause for complain... I say this to my mom whenever my mom tries to say anything about my SIL... I always say, look mom, your son is happy.. so what if she is x,y,z.. she respects your son, loves your grandchild, takes care of their family, bottom line, that is all that matters, the rest are superficial... and this turns my mom's thinking.. says yes all things considered, she is a good DIL... <br><br>I try to measure all my relationship with this yardstick... what is the point of that relationship and do your utmost to uphold it... there are certain lines that must not be crossed, and you should not cross it... <br>

very well said dear 👏 u summed it up so beautifully...

even i think tht aksh shouldn't have left the house..incase she wanted to leave , she should have left in naitik's presence and in her in laws presence AFTER making it clear to them the reason she's leaving AND clear her stand (say what she wanted to say always..whatever tht was 🤢 which she kept telling naitik "aap meri poori baat suniye" )

totally agreed with u charu diiiiiiiiiiiii

Originally posted by: _charu_

Anji, Aksh didn't leave any room for explanations or understandings..she lied to him so many times ke he doesn't wanna listen to her now...who should he believe? akshara or what he heard frm his own ears, saw frm his own eyes?

I think aksh cud never understand Naitik's nature...when they argued for the first time, Mohit told Naitik "pehli baar mere dost ko koi mila hai jo usko barabar ki takkar de sakta hai.." THERE he said "it's not abt Ash or Katrina, naitik ki baat koi kaat de, aise kisi ne nahi kiya" ...naitik is someone who's headstrong , he forms his opinions quickly & doesn't change them easily..tht way, he was always like that....when he is not in favor of something, no argument can convince him...STILL he calmed down for Akshara....for the first time i think he lashed out on her bec. of tht pen guy and he was apologetic for not listening to akshara...but he never repeated tht mistake....when he came to know abt rituraj n akshara, he straightaway went to akshara n asked her clearly what all happened...aksh didn't tell him the complete story which led to more misunderstandings , he AGAIN asked her on the mehandi day but again she couldn't speak and the result we all know....the way Aksh could have explained him everything, no one else can right? can rituraj or gayitri or varsha or mohit explain naitik tht aksh never loved rituraj n the way naitik is thinking is wrong? okay at tht time aksh didn't get an opportunity to know him or talk to him..so she's excused..

in the past one month, everyday he came back frm the office, he heard only one complaint "akshara went to the maayka without informing us" ..everyday when a person will hear the same thing again n again will he not get pissed off? and when he's telling her not to interfere b/w shaurya n varsha, she again went there on tht crucial day when abhimanyu was coming to see nandini fine akshara cannot dicuss her maayka problems with gayitri but she can share it with naitik right?

naitik always wanted transperency in their relationship ..trust and understanding comes only when therez no miscommunication....what akshara wants to do NOW , "naitik aap meri poori baat suniye" , she should have done it much earlier and i'm sure aksh wouldn't be in a soup...