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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

today's episode made me think "is it true that true love is proved only when you agree to whatever your loved one say?"is this called "understanding"? what if the other person thinks otherwise? should he sideline his own wish for the sake of his loved one?

why should naitik say yes for renovating the room"? because he loves akshara? 😕 what about his wish? what if he doesn't wanna do any changes? earlier on when he told Akshara that she should take Rashmi with her for shopping, Akshara was like "no you WILL HAVE TO COME WITH ME" ..WHY yaar?

I feel (and that's the reason i'm drifting away frm yrkkh these days) that Naitik is slowly losing his individuality..he's behaving like Akshara 🤢 i dun wanna see Akshara part 2 in the process of becoming a good husband and keeping Akshara happy, looks like he's forgotten himself....true love is not trying to make the other person like u..i know it's very natural in love..we do all we can for our loved ones but we ignore ourselves 😒



I agree with you. True love is not based on any conditions. But in a relationship, both husband and wife have to make some adjustments and compromises to make it work but without losing their identity and individuality. No two persons can think alike all the time so they need to find a middle ground. If one loses his/her own individuality in order to please their partner all the time then the relationship wont last long as there would be frustration and unhappiness associated with it.

In this case, Akshara and Naitik are newly weds so they are still in a phase of understanding each other and making some adjustments for their partner.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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good topic charu... actully i dont knw wat is true love so cant write anythng... for me my parents & family's love is true love..& hav not understood tat also... coz i dont knw y parents love their children unconditionally.... ths amazes me.... cumin to husband's love... hav no clue.... but lookng at naksh phase...i thnk thy r tryng to impress each other as its juz starting.... & it happens rite.. whn u start out a new relationship.. u try to do thngs which will b appreciated by ur partner..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: beautiful16

good topic charu... actully i dont knw wat is true love so cant write anythng... for me my parents & family's love is true love..& hav not understood tat also... coz i dont knw y parents love their children unconditionally.... ths amazes me.... cumin to husband's love... hav no clue.... but lookng at naksh phase...i thnk thy r tryng to impress each other as its juz starting.... & it happens rite.. whn u start out a new relationship.. u try to do thngs which will b appreciated by ur partner..



right Sabiya..my topic was "aapki khushi mein meri khushi hai" (thanks Ritu)..always agreeing with someone is not love..disagreements ho phir bhi pyar hota hai na...i think the husband wife must respect each other's individuality rather than forcing their opinions on one another in the name of love...Naitik n Aksh r trying very hard to change themselves which i'm not liking..specially akshara..she said na yest.. point of views can be different but tht doesn't mean one person is wrong..both can be right..why can't she follow this principle in her life? yes, with time everybody has to change but why is this process one sided? why can't THEY ALSO have their opinion and once in a while put them in the forefront and act accordingly?

aur naitik toh has completely changed..he's on the path of sainthood
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

today's episode made me think "is it true that true love is proved only when you agree to whatever your loved one say?"is this called "understanding"? what if the other person thinks otherwise? should he sideline his own wish for the sake of his loved one?

why should naitik say yes for renovating the room"? because he loves akshara? 😕 what about his wish? what if he doesn't wanna do any changes? earlier on when he told Akshara that she should take Rashmi with her for shopping, Akshara was like "no you WILL HAVE TO COME WITH ME" ..WHY yaar?

I feel (and that's the reason i'm drifting away frm yrkkh these days) that Naitik is slowly losing his individuality..he's behaving like Akshara 🤢 i dun wanna see Akshara part 2 in the process of becoming a good husband and keeping Akshara happy, looks like he's forgotten himself....true love is not trying to make the other person like u..i know it's very natural in love..we do all we can for our loved ones but we ignore ourselves 😒



I do see a difference in Naitik's character. One simple example is the job. He had such a big issue with joining the family bsiness. Went out of the way to do what he thought was right. He gave interviews and made it clear to everyone that he wanted to stand on his own feet. Where is that Naitik? Akshara has also changed. Earlier, she didnt like it when people took decisions for her without asking her (e.g. when Naitik's dad agreed for the rishta...everybody assumed it was a yes from Akshara's side and she even aksed why nobody asked her for her opinion). Where is that Akshara? Right now, both are trying to please each other because they are still in the honeymoon phase. Everything about each other is fascinating and are willing to bend backwards to please one another. It is very natural and it does happen...at least I have seen it happening around me even though I have no personal experience.

They love each other and have proved their love for each other time and again. It is not wrong to have a difference in opinion...cant two people have different POV, respect each other's POV and yet be in love?I want them to have a difference in opinion...right now they havent shown any scene. Regarding the renovation of the room. He may have not even given it a thought and now that Aksh has asked him, he may give it a thought and agree.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think maan hi maan me I also know that he has changed but I dont want to accept it yet...pata nahin...I'm too brain dead to think straight...kal detail me padhoongi saare posts...ye rishta mujhe acha lagta tha...ab kya ho gaya, kyon ho gaya, kaise ho gaya 🤢

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