Naitik's sorry-o-thon continues.... - Page 47

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

thats a good Q...I've thought about this a few times also since my hubby buys me a lot of gift here (in US) but there is some hesitation from his side to buy me clothes or jewellery as gifts in India...he generally wants his mom to go shopping with us or hez like US me le lo...dont know why....or even if we buy anything we have to show everything to mom...it really doesnt bother me that much but now that u bought it up I'm also thinking....

the same happens with me...i have to show everything to my MIL whatever i bought..i don't know the reason, i was told by my mom to do it and i did it.......but my husband never asked me to do it..he toh says ke you buy anything you like , if it's expensive, just take the money and buy it, don't tell mom 😆 bec. there are a few things i don't want my family to know...he says that he wants to keep our children's future secure n he has to do a few things keeping his parents in dark...

nyways, i too didn't like a lot of things which were selected for me by my MIL at the time of marriage....i took all of them and didn't let her know tht i didn't like this or that...what's the problem in wearing a saaree which I don't like and SHE likes? 😕 i can wear it once in a while or not wear it if i don't like it..therez no sach jhooth or honesty thingy involved

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>no it wont.. as truth always hurt.. whether it is from akshara or from 3rd person...<br><br>hurt will be there for sometime, that is it.. unless or until gaya3 like a fool think differently about her son and bahu<br>

but Lata, EVERY saas is like that....is it possible for you to love some unknown like your own children? i don't think so..i mean i notice it now also...the way i cuddle and love my child, i don't feel that way for any other kid...when our children get married, we too will think the same way..it takes time & years of togetherness for that love and trust to develop...

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

Lats Naitik & G's relationship may never shake but it wont be the same like before anymore....Naitik supporting Akshara would have been acceptable by G but the fact that Naitik went against her will be stuck at the back of her mind for life...she might bounce back to her normal self from time to time but any small thing is going to trigger that thought back and she will start taking everything negativly...

i dont know, i am thinking if i am at gaya3's place, yes hurt will be there, but definitely i will not keep these things in mind and react all my life time.. as a mum my thinking will be it is my son, whom i love a lot.. so why bother about small small issues, and after all my son is expected to change after marriage isn't?

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

thats a good Q...I've thought about this a few times also since my hubby buys me a lot of gift here (in US) but there is some hesitation from his side to buy me clothes or jewellery as gifts in India...he generally wants his mom to go shopping with us or hez like US me le lo...dont know why....or even if we buy anything we have to show everything to mom...it really doesnt bother me that much but now that u bought it up I'm also thinking....

I'am also thinking now.....ki why do we have to show it to sasuma's ...maybe that they don't feel bad ki chupa rahe hain........
i hide it sometimes...coz even if it is a gift my MIL thinks it as fizoolkharchi........acc. to her i'am one big kharchili bahu....so i tend to hide many a times....and when it comes up i just mention haan bahut din pehle liya tha or whatever...😆

arrey baap re.......itna serious discussions.......m not able to understand anything.....

smebody plzz help mee.......
plzz tell mee........ki discussions ka kya meaning hai.......coz everything is goin over my head......hehehe
plzz koi summary de do.......kuch nahi samajh mein aa raha hai.bohot lamba hai..... 😆

well goodevening to everyone......

Originally posted by: lats55

i dont know, i am thinking if i am at gaya3's place, yes hurt will be there, but definitely i will not keep these things in mind and react all my life time.. as a mum my thinking will be it is my son, whom i love a lot.. so why bother about small small issues, and after all my son is expected to change after marriage isn't?

Ideally she should behave the way you put it Lata...but the problem here is she is behaving like a child....she is plain jealous......she's not handling the situation as Rajshri did yesterday...she was also hurt by her son and bahu but then she accepted it...and look at gayatri's reaction throwing those sarees in such hatred.....an

u ppl have done excellent job (including all di's)and the comments u have written r quite long and a person cannot understand at once so wat will happen when creatives will read this as we all know ki karan also visits the forums therefore i request u to plzz write a brief summary of wat all u discussed till now

Originally posted by: _charu_

Lata, now we can't put the blame on Gayitri...Akshara got scared of her when she got upset for hiding tht maayka visit and tht's why she asked her to be honest ...yes in reality if we think then it's not a big deal that Gayitri's choice was not liked by Akshara and Naitik got her a new one and Akshara told this to Gayitri...tht's why i said "from Gayitri's POV" Akshara is coming b/w Naitik and her...she was already insecure , now she's all the more insecure..and if Akshara was confused, she should have at least told Naitik once what she was about to say....bec. Naitik knows his family well, and since it was his lie to his mom, it was his moral responsibility to tell his mom the truth, Akshara should have stayed out of it matter...and there was no need to feel so scared tht Gayitri asked her to be honest..she was not confessing for a murder ke her heart was so heavily burdened by this truth !

you are yet to know akshara's character.. to me it was expected that she is going to tell the truth.. even i was expecting her to come out on that day itself, but bec of naitik she kept quite.. she can never hide a truth for long time and live.. and coming in betn of mum and son, i don't know much about that, probably you all are speaking from experience may be right.. but i still not blame akshara here, all the problem she faced because of naitik.. after marriage only she started crying a lot all because of him, as ritu pointed out, unmarried people will think that, life is gone after marriage and not to get married, that is what they are showing out there..

Originally posted by: _charu_

the same happens with me...i have to show everything to my MIL whatever i bought..i don't know the reason, i was told by my mom to do it and i did it.......but my husband never asked me to do it..he toh says ke you buy anything you like , if it's expensive, just take the money and buy it, don't tell mom 😆 bec. there are a few things i don't want my family to know...he says that he wants to keep our children's future secure n he has to do a few things keeping his parents in dark...

nyways, i too didn't like a lot of things which were selected for me by my MIL at the time of marriage....i took all of them and didn't let her know tht i didn't like this or that...what's the problem in wearing a saaree which I don't like and SHE likes? 😕 i can wear it once in a while or not wear it if i don't like it..therez no sach jhooth or honesty thingy involved

i do the same Charu...i wear it once or twice and then not.....but my dear saas has now realized that are tastes don't match so now she just takes me to the mall's to buy it myself...
These saas also mellow down after a while i think....mine has ......