Naitik's sorry-o-thon continues.... - Page 46

Originally posted by: sang_hari

<br><br>when is the biggest Q but honesty in reality should be sugar coated.till aks learns to sugar coat an bitter honest pill, she will face many pitfalls and wonder how long will naitik protecting aks from pitfalls resultant of her innocence and nasamje<br>

exactly ! like her dadi said that "khare sone mein bhi milavat karni padti hai , tabhi usse zevar ban sakte hai"

Originally posted by: lats55

now let me again defend akshara here... everybody in her family know her character of being honest, it is easy for the family members to know the situation which akshara was in , how she is going to react, because they know her nature ... now in her inlaws house, no one knows about her, and it was gaya3 's mistake asking her to be honest.. why only akshara she is asking, her son is the one who created the story and blown up the end, and naitik even explained to her that it was his mistake.. what gaya3 did here was wrong, asking akshara to be honest, and poor girl in that situation was totally confused, and i can make out from akshara's face during the pooja that thinking was going on what to do.. tell or not.. that was reflected on her face that time, and she decided to give her the GIFT OF HONESTY, which gaya3 deserves for her attitude.. nothing wrong in that at all..

by the way between mum and son relationship can never shake, if there is a real love between them.. come what may.. here naitik and gaya3's relationship is that way it can never shake.. and akshara is not the type of character who spoil the relationship.. gaya3's insecurity and jealousy only reflected here.. akshara cannot help to cure it..

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>now let me again defend akshara here... everybody in her family know her character of being honest, it is easy for the family members to know the situation which akshara was in , how she is going to react, because they know her nature ... now in her inlaws house, no one knows about her, and it was gaya3 's mistake asking her to be honest.. why only akshara she is asking, her son is the one who created the story and blown up the end, and naitik even explained to her that it was his mistake.. what gaya3 did here was wrong, asking akshara to be honest, and poor girl in that situation was totally confused, and i can make out from akshara's face during the pooja that thinking was going on what to do.. tell or not.. that was reflected on her face that time, and she decided to give her the GIFT OF HONESTY, which gaya3 deserves for her attitude.. nothing wrong in that at all.. <br><br>by the way between mum and son relationship can never shake, if there is a real love between them.. come what may.. here naitik and gaya3's relationship is that way it can never shake.. and akshara is not the type of character who spoil the relationship.. gaya3's insecurity and jealousy only reflected here.. akshara cannot help to cure it..<br>

Lata, now we can't put the blame on Gayitri...Akshara got scared of her when she got upset for hiding tht maayka visit and tht's why she asked her to be honest ...yes in reality if we think then it's not a big deal that Gayitri's choice was not liked by Akshara and Naitik got her a new one and Akshara told this to Gayitri...tht's why i said "from Gayitri's POV" Akshara is coming b/w Naitik and her...she was already insecure , now she's all the more insecure..and if Akshara was confused, she should have at least told Naitik once what she was about to say....bec. Naitik knows his family well, and since it was his lie to his mom, it was his moral responsibility to tell his mom the truth, Akshara should have stayed out of it matter...and there was no need to feel so scared tht Gayitri asked her to be honest..she was not confessing for a murder ke her heart was so heavily burdened by this truth !

Originally posted by: sang_hari

when is the biggest Q but honesty in reality should be sugar coated.till aks learns to sugar coat an bitter honest pill, she will face many pitfalls and wonder how long will naitik protecting aks from pitfalls resultant of her innocence and nasamje

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

Lats Naitik & G's relationship may never shake but it wont be the same like before anymore....Naitik supporting Akshara would have been acceptable by G but the fact that Naitik went against her will be stuck at the back of her mind for life...she might bounce back to her normal self from time to time but any small thing is going to trigger that thought back and she will start taking everything negativly...

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

Ok so this may be a dumb question...but its bothering me....does a husband need 2 get approval of the family b4 he can give a gift to his wife?...WTH......y couldnt he just have said i gave it to her, maybe even said i gave it 2 her as a wedding present...that way technically it wouldnt have been a lie..and gayatri's hurt feelings could have been avoided...

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

<FONT color=#990066>Ok so this may be a dumb question...but its bothering me....does a husband need 2 get approval of the family b4 he can give a gift to his wife?...WTH......y couldnt he just have said i gave it to her, maybe even said i gave it 2 her as a wedding present...that way technically it wouldnt have been a lie..and gayatri's hurt feelings could have been avoided...</FONT>

Only if both of them were that intelligent dear, this question wud have never risen...

a husband doesn't need any approval to gift his wife a present but since this was the engagement ring which was selected by Gayitri and Naitik didn't wanted her to know that they didn't like her choice, he avoided telling this truth to her that he got a new ring for Akshara...and Naitik had already lied to her that the ring was gifted by akshara's parents but Akshara was not satisfied with his reply and wanted to make everything crystal clear to Gayitri ..

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

after seeing the way this serial is portraying arranged marriages up to know, I doubt anyone would want an arranged marriage

arranged marriages itna bura nahi yaar.it's take time to understand each other but you will some kind of confident and faith after the marriage whether it's love marriage or arranged marriage .actually i am not getting the meaning of love ..pehele love and then samarpan etc mein nahi manta yaar.yesterday akshara told that ......agar sacha pyar pana hai tho you have to follow all 4 stages.if they follow all these steps after that they don't fight with each other or what?miya biwi ki jagda hote rahege naaa.
if couples follow first 4 and then3 then 2 stages unka pyar sachhi nahi hai kya...

i know, in arranged marriage couples don't open up that easily because they don't know each other , but here aksh and naithik case is different .they know each other before the marriage then what's their problem?

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

Ok so this may be a dumb question...but its bothering me....does a husband need 2 get approval of the family b4 he can give a gift to his wife?...WTH......y couldnt he just have said i gave it to her, maybe even said i gave it 2 her as a wedding present...that way technically it wouldnt have been a lie..and gayatri's hurt feelings could have been avoided...

very well said.aks could diverted gayatri's attention by saying something else not the whole truth

Originally posted by: sang_hari

the love between naitik and gaytri will not shake lat55 but the trust will surely shake.that will surely hurt gayatri

no it wont.. as truth always hurt.. whether it is from akshara or from 3rd person...

hurt will be there for sometime, that is it.. unless or until gaya3 like a fool think differently about her son and bahu