Why is every1 blaming Gayatri?

Ok my 2 cents. I understand every1 has a beef with gayatri coz she came to tell Aksh she is gonna give Naitik food but htink about it this way. Ur son who is visibly upset about something [with all the pauses] comes to u and say u get me food as the new bride doesnt know what I eat. I dont think the bridal ceremony is a place to start disciplining ur child.

She could have said something like......Let me tell you what he likes Akshara and you can start putting the food on the plate and tell her to go and give the food to Naitik so that he can start eating...,...The only person who can teach him is his mom........but in a RIGHT way.......

That way Akshara can also learn abt his likes and dislikes ........

All i am saying is that she could have at least handled the situation better by not offending Akshara.......coz i would be offended if my MIL would have said something like that to me at my wedding........

I agree that the bridal ceremony is not the place to discipline your son...but who is asking for her to disipline him...she should have explained that it is a custom and let the bride do it...even if he was adamant she could have told Aks that you fill the plate and I will guide you and tell you what his choice is coz now its your job to take care of him...thats all...munna need to learn and mummy needs to tech him...

No! i think its right to blame her
instead of xplaining to her son, she explained to the bride bout how its not naitik's fault.
and it was her rasm and his mom took it

i think Gayatri is not as much at fault as Naitaik...she is behaving quite reasonable i think..any mother would do that......i'am sure some of our MIL behave the same way..not that i appreciate that attitude but that's their behaviour...and it is very hard to let go so easily...she has been doing this since many years for naitik...it will take time..

Naitik is the one who has married Akshara..and inspite of the pandit explaining the mantra and vachan he has forgotten them on the day itself......
And lets wait for tomorrow maybe Gayatri just helps akshara and tells naitik that akshara put the plate not her...Give the lady a chance....

Originally posted by: serendipityusa

She could have said something like......Let me tell you what he likes Akshara and you can start putting the food on the plate and tell her to go and give to Naitik so that he can start eating...,...The only person who can teach him is his mom........but in a RIGHT way.......

That way Akshara can also learn abt his likes and dislikes ........

All i am saying is that she could have at least handled the situation better by not offending Akshara.......coz i would be offended if my MIL would have said something like that to me at my wedding........

yess gayatri should've shown atleast some maturity in handling the situation...poor akshara I felt HORRIBLE for her when she looked away...😭😭

especially when gayatri said munna had sent her to get his food (when he KNEW akshara was getting it)

i don't know..i get really scared when i think about how hard of a time naitik is going to have in adjusting to everything...i am sorry to say this, but its true--he is THE biggest spoiled brat ever. i just know it, everytime him and akshara will have a fight, he will go running to his mamma 😡

its really not fair. akshara is leaving her whole life behind--and here is naitik making a fuss about who serves him!! damn, i don't care if he doesn't eat, he should've just been quiet and ate from akshara's thaali.

Originally posted by: desertrose21

yess gayatri should've shown atleast some maturity in handling the situation...poor akshara I felt HORRIBLE for her when she looked away...😭😭

especially when gayatri said munna had sent her to get his food (when he KNEW akshara was getting it)

i don't know..i get really scared when i think about how hard of a time naitik is going to have in adjusting to everything...i am sorry to say this, but its true--he is THE biggest spoiled brat ever. i just know it, everytime him and akshara will have a fight, he will go running to his mamma 😡

its really not fair. akshara is leaving her whole life behind--and here is naitik making a fuss about who serves him!! damn, i don't care if he doesn't eat, he should've just been quiet and ate from akshara's thaali.

i think akshara is not going to eat as there as a segment is SBB/SBS showing that everyone was trying to make aks eat but she didnt want to eat and neither was she talking to anyone....

i know a girl gives up her whole life to enter another whole new life...........she has to adapt to new people, she has to basically start her whole life again....sometimes i wonder why do we have all this traditions where a girl is always sent away to her sasural.........

Originally posted by: serendipityusa

i think akshara is not going to eat as there as a segment is SBB/SBS showing that everyone was trying to make aks eat but she didnt want to eat and neither was she talking to anyone....

i know a girl gives up her whole life to enter another whole new life...........she has to adapt to new people, she has to basically start her whole life again....sometimes i wonder why do we have all this traditions where a girl is always sent away to her sasural.........

Yep, I agree the mom should have been kind to Akshi and could have guided her as to what her son likes.

But we dont know what happens next!!!