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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sks7

i think Gayatri is not as much at fault as Naitaik...she is behaving quite reasonable i think..any mother would do that......i'am sure some of our MIL behave the same way..not that i appreciate that attitude but that's their behaviour...and it is very hard to let go so easily...she has been doing this since many years for naitik...it will take time..

Naitik is the one who has married Akshara..and inspite of the pandit explaining the mantra and vachan he has forgotten them on the day itself......
And lets wait for tomorrow maybe Gayatri just helps akshara and tells naitik that akshara put the plate not her...Give the lady a chance....

tht's what i was saying yest..
but this is just the beginning..if she's so insecure n doesn't wanna share her son with any other female then she shouldn' t have married him off....It's more of Gayitri's fault because she is a woman....she must have faced similar problems when she got married.....the least this "saas brigade" can do is not to repeat the same with their daughter in laws....
fine Naitik doesn't want Akshara to serve him , may be he doesn't want her to do any of his work (he's said tht a lot many times tht he wants his mom to do everything for him) , if this is so then it's good for akshara..kitna acha lagega...saas doing the work and bahu standing there n watching..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

tht's what i was saying yest..
but this is just the beginning..if she's so insecure n doesn't wanna share her son with any other female then she shouldn' t have married him off....It's more of Gayitri's fault because she is a woman....she must have faced similar problems when she got married.....the least this "saas brigade" can do is not to repeat the same with their daughter in laws....
fine Naitik doesn't want Akshara to serve him , may be he doesn't want her to do any of his work (he's said tht a lot many times tht he wants his mom to do everything for him) , if this is so then it's good for akshara..kitna acha lagega...saas doing the work and bahu standing there n watching..

I was thinking of the same thing when I watched the episode...Aks can have fun and romance with Naitik while mummy ji does all the work...khana banana, button tankna, jhadoo katka😆😆...that should give her all the pleasue she wants...
I dont have any hopes that Gayatri will get any better...its strange that once someone becomes a saas, they forget their time as a bahu...or maybe the mentality is since I went through this my DIL should also go through this...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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ya i think it is gayatris fault becauz she shud explain to naitik and natik shud stop being a baby. and ya its part of the rasam so gaytari shud have let akshara do it!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i think akshara is not going to eat as there as a segment is SBB/SBS showing that everyone was trying to make aks eat but she didnt want to eat and neither was she talking to anyone....

i know a girl gives up her whole life to enter another whole new life...........she has to adapt to new people, she has to basically start her whole life again....sometimes i wonder why do we have all this traditions where a girl is always sent away to her sasural.........
Well, we have some towns in North Kerala where the girl gets married and stays at her house itself and does not go. It has come from some old Keralite tradition of a sect of Hindus. So even the Muslims follow it. The boy in fact is given a room in the girls house and goes there. So, everyone is happy.
My sister and I have rooms in our parents house and our hubbies stay there and when we want, we can always get our own place & move.😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

tht's what i was saying yest..
but this is just the beginning..if she's so insecure n doesn't wanna share her son with any other female then she shouldn' t have married him off....It's more of Gayitri's fault because she is a woman....she must have faced similar problems when she got married.....the least this "saas brigade" can do is not to repeat the same with their daughter in laws....
fine Naitik doesn't want Akshara to serve him , may be he doesn't want her to do any of his work (he's said tht a lot many times tht he wants his mom to do everything for him) , if this is so then it's good for akshara..kitna acha lagega...saas doing the work and bahu standing there n watching..



I agree that Gayatri is also to be blamed...but i think the makers are showing the other side of loving your son too much...and believe me yaar i have a son 5 yrs...and if he ignores me a lil bit i don't feel good..i know its wrong ..if this continues..hope i dont turn a saas like gayatri :-)))😆
so the moral of the story for all mothers don't be selfish and let your child lead life with some independence...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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hey guys..muje lagta h ki naitik na jaanboojh kar gayatri ko kaha hoga plate serve karne k liye...naitik akshara se naraz h...uff....kitne nakhre h naitik k..poor akshara
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

tht's what i was saying yest..
but this is just the beginning..if she's so insecure n doesn't wanna share her son with any other female then she shouldn' t have married him off....It's more of Gayitri's fault because she is a woman....she must have faced similar problems when she got married.....the least this "saas brigade" can do is not to repeat the same with their daughter in laws....
fine Naitik doesn't want Akshara to serve him , may be he doesn't want her to do any of his work (he's said tht a lot many times tht he wants his mom to do everything for him) , if this is so then it's good for akshara..kitna acha lagega...saas doing the work and bahu standing there n watching..



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Posted: 16 years ago
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all gayatris fault, shes the mother, abit of understanding from her side would of helped! Be like dadima!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sks7



I agree that Gayatri is also to be blamed...but i think the makers are showing the other side of loving your son too much...and believe me yaar i have a son 5 yrs...and if he ignores me a lil bit i don't feel good..i know its wrong ..if this continues..hope i dont turn a saas like gayatri :-)))😆
so the moral of the story for all mothers don't be selfish and let your child lead life with some independence...

every relation has it's place...and trust me,it's extremely difficult to strike a balance....Lets wait and watch how Naitik handles these 2 most important women in his life .....I feel he'll turn to be the perfect joru ka ghulam...😆
U know what i feel..personally..if and when i'll have a son, when i'll get him married, i will let him stay independently bec. he should be responsible towards that girl who left her home and parents for him...i'll give him what i wanted for myself but couldn't do it bec. of social obligations and majbbori on everybody's part
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipityusa

She could have said something like......Let me tell you what he likes Akshara and you can start putting the food on the plate and tell her to go and give the food to Naitik so that he can start eating...,...The only person who can teach him is his mom........but in a RIGHT way.......

That way Akshara can also learn abt his likes and dislikes ........

All i am saying is that she could have at least handled the situation better by not offending Akshara.......coz i would be offended if my MIL would have said something like that to me at my wedding........


exactly..she could have told akshara about his likes and dislikes...as for Naitik she should have made him understand that it was not the right thing to do...and this might hurt Akshara!!!

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