Originally posted by: Mages
first of all i want to tell sorry about misunderstanding our sweetoo shaurya actually i was angry with him for what he say about girls after marriage...and today he totally a darling although he never spoke any words to varsha nor varsha speaks to him but his eyes showed so much of pain and how hurt he was....he really really loves her alot....poor boy he was so hurt that he did not eat his breakfast and leave the house
varsha needs to clear the misunderstanding that her husband doesn't care about her feelings...he really do care about her feelings infact he cares for her feelings more than his...it just that he doesn't know how to show his care...concern and love for her....varsha is wrong while advicing akshara that marriages just changes someone...if both of you love each other so much and understand each other nothing can break them apart....here the problem is understanding...and this will be solved soon.....they love each other so much that there is no room for understanding...so with this fight ...their love and understanding will deepen....
as for naitik i can understand his situation because he can't go against dadaji rules and totally respect them but he have a mordern thinking and a thinking of his own at the same time he knows his responsiblities being the only son and he needs to respect elders first...i love the way he supported akshara on her studies with his mom.....well i am very happy that naitik supports akshara on her studies....first step of understanding akshara...great going naitik...as for dadaji i am sure our naughty sweet naitik have some plans to pursuade him
both naitik and shaurya will support akshara and varsha studies....
Varsha was right yaar...life DOES change after marriage in a lot many ways..but Varsha is thinking about the negative aspect only....Life changes in a positive way also....but she's wrong if she thinks that the husband and wife should think alike and one should change his feelings if the other has a problem....No two people can think alike and so it's a waste of time pondering over these silly questions.....this is just not possible......so one should just accept it, wherever possible change urself, where it seems difficult, talk about it n find a way in which both r happy....
that's exactly what the problem is..After marriage, the husband and wife try to change the each other according to their thinking which leads to misunderstandings and fights...Also , If one of them keeps sacrificing their feelings for the other then there comes a point where the tolerance level just goes down......So the best option is not to think negative , discuss ur problem with ur partner n sort it out...and give time to ur partner to understand ...when therez love then all this becomes easy...
Akshara must not take too many advices from Varsha ......When she asked Varsha should i ask Naitik about my studies, she said Naitik has already agreed so therez no need to take tension ! now when she knew Naitik was a bit upset about it then why didn't she ask Akshara to talk to him n ask him his opinion ? Infact Akshara should have done tht herself....
Charu
Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago
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