What if ur Fiance asks u to stop Studying?

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Sanaya

@Sanayaa

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Ms.GoodMorning

I agree!

I have a feeling this will just be the start of things she'll be asked to sacrifice. Damn, they expect her to take care of the kitchen and everything. I would run away ASAP.

I agree wid both of u

Education is must nd I cant sacrifice my education at any cost

Dey think taking care of d kitchen nd Household responsibilities are d only things meant for women nothing else
i simply hate dis thinking

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ramyadesigal

@ramyadesigal

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

i will kill him for sure!!

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cherrypansy

@cherrypansy

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Posted: 16 years ago

#13

I am continuing with my PhD after having a child and getting complete support from my husband as he promised me before our engagement.

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patricia757

@patricia757

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

For me education is the first priority in my life. So at any cost i'll not give up. Even though if the boy is rich, handsome and has all good qualities but I'll not give up my studies!!

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 16 years ago

#15

Frankly speaking, i would have never said YES for such a guy (only if he was not as handsome as Naitik 🤣) For me, what I think, what I like, what I believe, what I want to do is above anybody's likes/dislikes or decisions !I can't let anyone dominate me.......

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Theju Hana Sabu

@T.hana

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Posted: 16 years ago

#16

I would never give up my education because my fiance wants me to. There are lots

of guys in this country, at least one of them will agree with me but I won't get another

chance at my studies.

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Priyaa

@remixrulz

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Well, first thing why get married while your still in college?? Its way too young.

For me the question wont even arise, cuz i wont and dont even think of getting married until i finish my grad and even post-grad and my family(especially dad) wud want me to finish my studies b4 settling down..

for him..his daughters(we r 2 sisters) need to b settled in their own lives..independent and hav a life of their own b4 he thinks of settlin ne of us in marriage...

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 16 years ago

#18

exactly....these questions must be asked when the boy and girl meet...what else are they meeting for? If therez a difference of opinion about such a serious matter then i don't think one should go ahead with it...

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ravi

@randhr

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Posted: 16 years ago

#19

What kind of flipping serial is this? It doesnt too good for the status of women I mean inlaws deciding if the daughter in law can study - Hello? Behind the times are we ??? Without education, yo cant do anything !!!!!!

Man I dont know about this!!! And do women still walk around with pallus on their head like our female president !!! Is this for real or what !!!!!

Can you comment on this ?

Sandy

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fatima

@fammma

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Posted: 16 years ago

#20

i totally agree guys..

I finished my degree and my professional exams and then i got engaged..since then I have been working and now I am going to do my Post grad and this will be after I get married, hopefully this year,

I havent even asked my inlaws as to CAN i study/...the Q is not applicable..they arent the ones to decide for me!

However i have spoken to my fiance about it, and he is the one who encouraged me to study for it since I was in two minds as to whether I should or not...

Frankly speaking I dont think the inlaws should have a say...you studied all this many years of your life, not to just sit at home!!! and not make use of your knowledge!!