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Posted: 16 years ago
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arey didnt anyone tell them that educating a single girl/woman means educating a whole family ..

and about myself definitely i will speak my mind telling them to either adjust or find another girl
abhi edu ko no kaha aagey bahar ghumna manna karenge then how u dress how u eat how u r ? everything will be under the microscope

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Maya-

In YRKKH Naitik n Dadaji don't want Akshara to go to college or continue studies coz honewali bahus need not study n ya they don't want her to interact with boys..such situations arise in real life too in most conservative families..so what if your future husband and his family don't want you to attend college and stop studies?

what will u do..will u agree to stop studies coz u don't want to upset ur future sasuraal ppl n coz u love ur fiance..u don't wanna mess up things..or will u be bold n put forward ur opinion and tell them that u wanna continue with ur studies coz education is important?..what if you are a lazy student like Akshara?

I liked this topic... If this type of situation arises in reality then I have seen many girls leaving their education. It depends on the girl if she think education is important for her or not, if she think it is then she will study further, chahe kuch bhi ho jaye...
If I was in Akshara's place then my point is Education is very important no matter what and I will break that engagement if some one future sasural wala's will ask me to stop studying... I wont leave my studies lekin I will leave that guy... But for that I have to beleive in love but according to me love engagement and marriages are biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig jhamelas ... so future sasural ka koi chance hi nahi 😆
And I think Education is very important for everyone and Every women should be educated as they are the one who have to teach their children as a mother.... So Education is more important then so called sasural walas
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovelyreddyrose

arey didnt anyone tell them that educating a single girl/woman means educating a whole family ..

and about myself definitely i will speak my mind telling them to either adjust or find another girl
abhi edu ko no kaha aagey bahar ghumna manna karenge then how u dress how u eat how u r ? everything will be under the microscope

Waah waah rose kia baat kahii I agree with u completely dear really liked the 1st line 😆 Mein tou kehti hoon yeh engagement ka jahmele mein hi na paroo hehheeheheh
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovelyreddyrose

arey didnt anyone tell them that educating a single girl/woman means educating a whole family ..

and about myself definitely i will speak my mind telling them to either adjust or find another girl
abhi edu ko no kaha aagey bahar ghumna manna karenge then how u dress how u eat how u r ? everything will be under the microscope

Hey Bhagwan !!!! yahan issue is not "education" (this is not Balika Vadhu 🤣) , its about "continuing education after marriage or no" .......... not even this...When a girl's in laws don't want her to continue her studies then what? the problem is yet to be tackled in the serial so let's wait n watch how our super hero Naitik ⭐️ solves it for Akshara ma'm 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hani_H

I liked this topic... If this type of situation arises in reality then I have seen many girls leaving their education. It depends on the girl if she think education is important for her or not, if she think it is then she will study further, chahe kuch bhi ho jaye...
If I was in Akshara's place then my point is Education is very important no matter what and I will break that engagement if some one future sasural wala's will ask me to stop studying... I wont leave my studies lekin I will leave that guy... But for that I have to beleive in love but according to me love engagement and marriages are biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig jhamelas ... so future sasural ka koi chance hi nahi 😆
And I think Education is very important for everyone and Every women should be educated as they are the one who have to teach their children as a mother.... So Education is more important then so called sasural walas

hhmmm rich and famous families often don't feel the need bec. they probably would not want their daughter in laws to do a job (just like Naitik's family) BUT IN REALITY even if the girl's in laws r rich n all, i've seen this around me, tht they encourage their daughter in laws to do something to keep themselves busy.. n it's very easy for them bec. they have all the resources available .......they have the freedom to do whatever they want........basically use their talent n not sit idle at home....my MIL keeps telling me to do something but i'm so lazy tht i'm happy being a housewife only ! 😆 the main reason for this was tht I wanna give full attention to my daughter ..She needs me n she's my responsibility..I can't handle work and home at the same time....Hats off to those girls who do tht.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

Hey Bhagwan !!!! yahan issue is not "education" (this is not Balika Vadhu 🤣) , its about "continuing education after marriage or no" .......... not even this...When a girl's in laws don't want her to continue her studies then what? the problem is yet to be tackled in the serial so let's wait n watch how our super hero Naitik ⭐️ solves it for Akshara ma'm 😆


education does nt mean abcd like they show in ballika vadhu
it means lot more otherwise there wont be so many uni, colleges around the world

quality edu cation end after the degree or post degree only and yes i agree the situation is to be yet tackled there
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Posted: 16 years ago
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If he doesn't want me to study..Then I'd ask him to Shut up!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Payal25



BAHAHAHAHA, omg! I agree I agree 😆

i said 10 million cuz they would be seperated from my in laws account and i would never get to spend them cuz rest of my in laws money would be there for me all the time .....i would give guy a discount for being the most handsome person ever.. plus if i would say 100 million he would run away..lol i have no intention of losing my prince lol
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I Think If He Loves Me And I Love Him And I take Tht Step To Go Ahead and study Even if he tells me not to... Than Thts Not Love... I Kno I Have to listen to him too... But Then tht means he doesnt trust me... he doesnt want me to interact with guyss... wat if a guy is just a good frnd of mine... We Need to have Trust in order to Take any decision... And Yeah one More thing... If my Fiance Go to his elder and just say Yeah Usko Study Ni Karna Chahiye He Better Ask Me B4 jo uske Mind Mein Hay Woh Sahi Wali Situatin Gose on...!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I have finished my studies but i would never stop work for anyones sake..and like someone said its just one thing they asked so far.

Plus in this day and age studies/working is inportant...and neccesary.

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