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Veer_FFM

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Posted: 15 years ago

#71

thnx for the update!

@fardous .. enjoyed reading your analyses 😊
@devilsadvocate .. liked your's as well 😊

i think the cv's are being consistent with the abeer and leher's character sketch, esp with their khaamiyaa'n:

abeer's not the guy to openly acknowledge his mistakes:

a) he dindt say anything when he first agreed to take the copy documents from leher and bittan and then their dad had a show-off with abeers dad
b) he dindt accept that he was partially at fault convincing maadhav to do the bengali rasm which resulted in the break up
c) nor did he confess to leher the omi - apartment issue

and leher's doenst have the guts to defend herself, esp. now that she's trying to win her in-laws heart.

it'll be really interesting to see how they manage this issue, coz now it's after marriage time, they should show some real character development. leher is struggling real hard to achieve bahu-dom in her sasural. but abeer hasnt done much - it's his turn to show responsibily. and if he continues staying in the house without any contribution, he's going to become even more bezabaan. and it's very realistic that the wife has to take a lot of taane if her husband doenst earn. 🤔

i disliked alok and surili from the very first minute. ek number ke badtameez hay'n. aate ke saath hi apni sunaane lage. alok lagta sirf daant chamkaane aaya hay all the way from kanpur, aur surili saas ki chamchagiri karne. 🤢 waise alok aur tn ki kapron mei'n ek hi pasand hay: safed kameez aur kaali patloon. penguin style. wasnt there a mama bhanja duo like this in mahabharat? 😆

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Andy

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Posted: 15 years ago

#72

thanks for the update.......

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who is she ???? look at her FACE !!!!!!!!!!! 😕 🤢 😔

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aaabbb

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Posted: 15 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: bsmm

Bala jee,

Hmmm, I havent yet watched the episode...But its just one epsiode today, lets see what the track leads to..Omi was the same initially, I would be creeped out everytime Omi and the background music came, but looking back it was fun.

I think true love is not just being romantic and happy, Abeer and Leher will face life and its realities just like any other couple(ofcourse they face filmy situations too..). Love has to see them through all the situations, love doesnt exist seperate to life.

@Neel, you have hit the nail on the head.. It is 100% true that love cannot exist outside of life. Love is what sustains life. It is severely tested by adversity and perversely, adversity acts as a stimulant for Love 's own growth (We all believe in Yeh Pyar Na Hoga Kam !)

My point is that unless Abeer & Leher face the challenge of completing their studies, getting into an earning vocation, etc together, their relationship would remain a series of good and bad dreams , dictated by the circumstances and the people around them. What we as viewers would be treated to is a series of filmy, contrived scenes, some of which we go Kya Kya over; and others like the post shopping mess, which we all abhor.

Probably, what I am hoping for, maybe somewhat insanely, is that better sense prevails upon the script writers, and we get to see a more credible storyline at least from now on. We need to see Abeer & Leher's love for each other taking on more hues, beyond the merely obvious, and also their emotional bonds getting stronger. We need to see them talking to each other, for a change, discussing issues & possible solutions., taking comfort from each other, seeking support from each other, for their own dreams and aspirations.

I for one, cannot imagine a Romance without all the above, even if the all Vajpayees and all the Mathurs turned into benign creatures overnight.

With the benefit of being happily married for 37 years now, I can assert that with some authority.
Bala

Bala agree with you, 37 years wow!!! But yes CVs have to develop the backdrop story first before strating all this. There is already trust between them, but it has been on different level. When you are unmarried and carefree things are different. Specially for a girl life changes upside down, the trust has to be rebuild after marriage on different set of things.

They will be together, their love will be stronger if they show them discuss important aspects of life, these moments can be shown while fighting, loving or just caring for each other.

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aaabbb

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Posted: 15 years ago

#74

When I think again, It is good that they brought someone like Alok, fully settled in career. With leher being harassed, will nudge Abeer more to be serious and be independent like him just because he gets so much respect. Abeer is emotional but smart lad, he only needs that push to prove himself. But then again "Don't we all😛"

If they and Amma just stay together during this tough time then again TN and budha will see a loss.

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Ekta

@Eksie

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Posted: 15 years ago

#75

I find Alok very funny .. Everytime I look at him, I tell myself "He's the guy partly responsible for getting together the whole cast of the show!" 😆 😆 He's the Casting Director of the show 😳

Also . dunno why, but I have a feeling .. Alok & Chutki are real life brother-sister! She was sooo bonding with him .. and they somewhat looked alike 😕 😛

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sdd1981

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Posted: 15 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: aaabbb

@Neel, you have hit the nail on the head.. It is 100% true that love cannot exist outside of life. Love is what sustains life. It is severely tested by adversity and perversely, adversity acts as a stimulant for Love 's own growth (We all believe in Yeh Pyar Na Hoga Kam !)

My point is that unless Abeer & Leher face the challenge of completing their studies, getting into an earning vocation, etc together, their relationship would remain a series of good and bad dreams , dictated by the circumstances and the people around them. What we as viewers would be treated to is a series of filmy, contrived scenes, some of which we go Kya Kya over; and others like the post shopping mess, which we all abhor.

Probably, what I am hoping for, maybe somewhat insanely, is that better sense prevails upon the script writers, and we get to see a more credible storyline at least from now on. We need to see Abeer & Leher's love for each other taking on more hues, beyond the merely obvious, and also their emotional bonds getting stronger. We need to see them talking to each other, for a change, discussing issues & possible solutions., taking comfort from each other, seeking support from each other, for their own dreams and aspirations.

I for one, cannot imagine a Romance without all the above, even if the all Vajpayees and all the Mathurs turned into benign creatures overnight.

With the benefit of being happily married for 37 years now, I can assert that with some authority.
Bala

They will be together, their love will be stronger if they show them discuss important aspects of life, these moments can be shown while fighting, loving or just caring for each other.

But that's the problem na. They are not showing Abher talking since day 1. They show songs, etc which we all like but show them seriously talking! Show Sudha planning with them. This is the only thing I dislike about Hindi Television serials. That the innocent ppl are shown totally clueless to what's happening till the end. Why cant the good ppl be smart ?

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Neel

@regularinfo

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Posted: 15 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: bsmm

@Neel, you have hit the nail on the head.. It is 100% true that love cannot exist outside of life. Love is what sustains life. It is severely tested by adversity and perversely, adversity acts as a stimulant for Love 's own growth (We all believe in Yeh Pyar Na Hoga Kam !)

My point is that unless Abeer & Leher face the challenge of completing their studies, getting into an earning vocation, etc together, their relationship would remain a series of good and bad dreams , dictated by the circumstances and the people around them. What we as viewers would be treated to is a series of filmy, contrived scenes, some of which we go Kya Kya over; and others like the post shopping mess, which we all abhor.

Probably, what I am hoping for, maybe somewhat insanely, is that better sense prevails upon the script writers, and we get to see a more credible storyline at least from now on. We need to see Abeer & Leher's love for each other taking on more hues, beyond the merely obvious, and also their emotional bonds getting stronger. We need to see them talking to each other, for a change, discussing issues & possible solutions., taking comfort from each other, seeking support from each other, for their own dreams and aspirations.

I for one, cannot imagine a Romance without all the above, even if the all Vajpayees and all the Mathurs turned into benign creatures overnight.

With the benefit of being happily married for 37 years now, I can assert that with some authority.
Bala

😊 What can I say to this:"With the benefit of being happily married for 37 years now, I can assert that with some authority." except this👏Yes I agree with what you wrote. There's not a thing to disagree😊

I just felt it's too soon to judge this track, we had a 'honeymoon' period last week, nothing substantial, this story line's just buiding. Even in the single episode yesday, I felt they stayed true to Abeer and Leher's characters- Abeer's impusiveness and Leher's cautiousness and it looks like this track'll be an eye-opener for Abeer. High-time too. Abeer & Leher need to study, grow up - deal with families and issues, all being in love.

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Balasubramaniam

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Posted: 15 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: regularinfo

I just felt it's too soon to judge this track, we had a 'honeymoon' period last week, nothing substantial, this story line's just buiding. Even in the single episode yesday, I felt they stayed true to Abeer and Leher's characters- Abeer's impusiveness and Leher's cautiousness and it looks like this track'll be an eye-opener for Abeer. High-time too. Abeer & Leher need to study, grow up - deal with families and issues, all being in love.

@ Neel,
You would have noticed in the last episode Abeer remarks, Tum Kitna Sochti Ho, before they get more personal.

I only wish he would too, and more often at that. Every good & stable marriage involves each spouse changing for the better, either under the influence of, or at the express urging of the other. There is no harm, I hope, in my wishing for a more cautious Abeer, and a more assertive Leher !!
Bala

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Ekta

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Posted: 15 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: bsmm

@ Neel,
You would have noticed in the last episode Abeer remarks, Tum Kitna Sochti Ho, before they get more personal.

I only wish he would too, and more often at that. Every good & stable marriage involves each spouse changing for the better, either under the influence of, or at the express urging of the other. There is no harm, I hope, in my wishing for a more cautious Abeer, and a more assertive Leher !!
Bala

Totally agree with you!

And I'm sure .. all that will happen, but over a periiod of time. If everything we wish for happens in quick succession, the serial won't have much else to show .. and will have to wind up soon. If they wish to carry on the show for long .. they will have to break it down to show things in a steady and gradual way. Like Neel said, this track is just building .. and things will take its due course.

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Neel

@regularinfo

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Posted: 15 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: bsmm

@ Neel,
You would have noticed in the last episode Abeer remarks, Tum Kitna Sochti Ho, before they get more personal.

I only wish he would too, and more often at that. Every good & stable marriage involves each spouse changing for the better, either under the influence of, or at the express urging of the other. There is no harm, I hope, in my wishing for a more cautious Abeer, and a more assertive Leher !!
Bala

Bala jee - Yes, I do believe the aim of this track is to mature Abeer's character. As to Leher being more assertive, I do hope that, but CVs have not indicated it. Leher is in a vulnerable position - new bride, no support from families,no independence financial or moral, evil environment - It will take sometime for Leher to be assertive. Lets hope it happens...sooner than later.

I'm married for 9 years- just a small drop compared to 37 years😊, and I have to agree,with personal experience, learning from each other and growing leads to stable relationship. Thats another reason I like Abeer and Leher's characters, they complement each other. So much to learn from each other, what possibilities, Abeer getting serious in life without loosing his "Raunakness" and Leher -well, she has a good head on her shoulders, she was assertive before, now she needs the courage and support to be assertive.

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