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PRITI

@preearies7

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Posted: 15 years ago

Rashmi should not have said that...

She should not have back answered DADI...

As she knows already there's a cold war between the families...why to create a new problem...

Let that BUDDHA say what she wants to...

Whatever it was she shuld'nt have back answered...after knowing how DADI is...

Unko toh dur se hi pranaam karna chahiye...faltu ki baihas mein padna hi nahi chahiye...

Why to create more problem for your father... :(

What rashmi???

Grow up girl...u r abt to get married...

Edited by preearies7 - 15 years ago

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sam.

@sammy1956

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Posted: 15 years ago

Completly agree with u rashmi should not have answered budha in that way,it just gave budha a reason to trap rashmi.She could have handled it in a much better manner.Look at the time that leher confronted budha she did it in such a diplomatic and mature manner .Rashmi learn something from leher.

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PRITI

@preearies7

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rexy34
Completly agree with u rashmi should not have answered budha in that way,it just gave budha a reason to trap rashmi.She could have handled it in a much better manner.Look at the time that leher confronted budha she did it in such a diplomatic and mature manner .Rashmi learn something from leher.

You are right ...what leher did was correct...she answered her (DADI) but in a proper manner...Leher is much mature from Rashmi...I hope leher and rashmi should have a chat..when they go back home...Rashmi should learn from leher...

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Noorii

@Noorii

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ya even I agree wid U..I was'nt expecting such ans from Rashmi..I think she really over reacted..I mean itna sab kuch ho raha hai..chup chap shadi karo aur uc k baad jo karna hai karo..

& as Sam said she should learn some thing from Leher..chalo I hope Abheer aur Leher ke shadi mein yeh sab kuch nahin dekhna padega..😆..she knows how to handle dadi..😉

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Nupur

@Nupur9

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Posted: 15 years ago

Rashmi is shown to be quick tempered & impulsive...remember the time she was wanting to break her marriage before Madhav tapkoed from nowhere at her door at midnite.
Not everyone is & will be Leher....she definately has been shown very mature & understanding....but then that's why she is our Heroine......
She has just the right balance of addab & salika the total Lucknowi aandaz!

Coming back to the mudda, what Rashmi did was not right in retrospective, but sometimes when you are constant target of not-so-subtle innuendos, it's Laazmi to blow your top & give it all back.
Don't get me wrong, I don't agree with Rashmi's POV, but I would like to give her some breathing space & some benefit of doubt here. She is walking on tight ropes & dadi is not making it any easier.
That said, I am all for keeping your mouth shut when the chances of you being misunderstood is so high......Rashmi has made a big blunder & it going to cost her heavy!

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SeverusSnape

@SeverusSnape

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Posted: 15 years ago

Agreed completely ! Rasmi is belittling herself in the eyes of everyone by saying these words ! Why did she involve innocent Chutki in all this . Okay ,she is Dadi's grand daughter but she is also Abeer's sister and both brother and sister have done too much for her !

Now Abeer may face taunts that he had made Rashmi her sister and now she is saying bad about his own real sister !

The three inch tounge can do the damage which even three foot sword can not do. The things that Rashmi said is going to pain forever to the Vajpayees , besides proving to everyone that Dadi and madam Shukla were may be right about the Mazumdars and Rashmi that they do not deserve relation with them.

Leher too had answered Dadi but not for one moment she insulted anyone but even asked sorry if Dadi felt bad . Cool mind and language is very necessary while tackling delicate situations and relations.

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nina

@nina_luck

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Posted: 15 years ago

I never commented here,but did want to say something....I think what Rashmi did today was absolutely understandable...I would have slapped them by now..seriously..no one has that right to humiliate someone like that...I don;'t care how old that person is...maybe I'm not ur typical indian girl...but I refuse to accept that you should be resepctful to such people.

I just don't get Madhav..for god sake if you can't support your would be wife why get married! It's not a game!!

Sorry if I offended anyone...but this kind of behaviour to be tolerated is just not my cup of tea....just my opinion

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Dimdim

@Dimdim

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Posted: 15 years ago

In my view...Rashmi is definitely not wrong after the treatment that has been given to her parents/ family . Any other girl in her place would have just got married registered without this hoopla.

But in the process has only given them more ammunition.

Not many girls will have the guts or the presence of mind to give back.. But Rashmi did...and hats off to her. 👏
The backlash will soon follow . At times one tends to act on spur of the moment and regret later.

If possible its the best to ignore such barbs and get ones task accomplished and then straighten things out. Looks like Rashmi is a straight forward and blunt girl unlike Leher who is pretty smart diplomatic and polite.

I always said right from the start.... MADHAV is SPINELESS

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nina

@nina_luck

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Posted: 15 years ago

Backlash will definitely come...and I hope Rashmi gives it to them good! LOL

I don't get why girls should be the quite ones and smart ones...I'm sure if it was the boys family this would be totally different.

I was wondering why Rashmi didn't say anything before...so much insult if her parents and herself.

You can handle the situation when it happens once or twice...but this is simply humiliating Rashmi and her family over and over...Any child would get angry when their parents are treated like that.

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Dimdim

@Dimdim

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: nina_luck
Backlash will definitely come...and I hope Rashmi gives it to them good! LOL

I don't get why girls should be the quite ones and smart ones...I'm sure if it was the boys family this would be totally different.

I was wondering why Rashmi didn't say anything before...so much insult if her parents and herself.

You can handle the situation when it happens once or twice...but this is simply humiliating Rashmi and her family over and over...Any child would get angry when their parents are treated like that.

Totally agree... earlier too I had posted that these 2 idiots just need to elope and get married .

Humiliation in an LOVE MARRIAGE .....too much to put up with.

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