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Posted: 8 years ago
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Despite the gags, I'm not sure what is really happening. Are aru's mistakes only shown to highlight the wide space between her and mukhi? I don't think "strict" is the right word to describe it, but mukhi really needs have a serious conversation with her. Aru never seems to take anything seriously and mukhi let's her get her way in all matters. it is an interesting dynamic because he enjoys pampering her, and she laps up the attention. she is a whirlwind, while her lovestruck husband doesn't have the heart to be rigid with her. you tell he is frustated but does not have te heart to reprimand her.. By not pointing out, they are not on equal footing and serious understanding and compatibility issues are beginning to surface.

what is happening here makes sense character wise. while aru, is a business women, she has only handled everything alone in ahemdabad. this perhaps lead to a very know-it-all smartass attitude. she does not have enough experience to deal with intricate bureaucratic issues, still she thinks she does and only listens to herself just like she did back in the city. however, that is not how it works. She blatantly refused to listen to mukhiji because she is one of those bullheaded people who thinks they are doing the right thing.


I wonder if will be addressed in the future episodes. will aru ever realize that she is doing everything on her own terms, that too the wrong way? She always lacked patience, I noticed in the beginning of the show as well. I'm not sure where writers are going with this, do they realize what they are doing? this kind of behaviour is okay as long as she realizes it is wrong and rectifies it, or else it will be like the other shows were female leads are glorified even though they are wrong.

This is why I say, marriage is not easy. Lust, romance, passion is the easiest part. then comes compatibility, understanding, patience and the maturity to work together. Many couples get married too fast then realize that they are not compatible. ArMU love each other, but the main factors required to make a marriage successful are missing . Aru is unwilling to understand or think deeply, and mukhi just loves her too much to realize the problem. Ever since their conversation about intimacy, Aru seems to have gotten so comfortable in this relationship that she is not seriously looking at the existing gaps. This can be referred as the "honeymoon phase" where everything is blissful. So blissful, that even the problematic things appear as perfect. However somewhere down the road, these "perfect" elements will become a thorn that will cause friction between them. which is why it is better to sort it out, although armu, and thousands of other couples don't see the looming storm.

Not saying this is a bad thing, it only highlights that they still have a long way to go as a couple. Although, I don't have faith in the writers. they seem to think everything is comedy and trp material.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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you always make the right post about the right thing...so perfect that I dont hv anything else to add.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ummm u said it all
And it will create a friction BTW them soon...

It's Indian TV...after all..

Faith in writers are the biggest joke ever..

I don't think they will ever sort out the issue.

Mukhi will soon closed the door of his heart...but then aru will all go u dont love me u dont trust me.

Honestly aru is already lost..

And I don't think the redemption will work either...

And with this dm chaos and Rami dirty plans...things gona be real dirty..

That's trp and TV for you..

It's called ...how to crush a once beautiful story and couple for trp sake...

Sigh there nothing much left I guess...now.

Its all...turning fake suddenly

As if watching some other saw.

Aru was always impulsive but not so stupid...

And a men can't handle an immature wife...no matter how much love sick he can be..

One point it need to be blast..

And the story is moving at that point only..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kavila

Ummm u said it all

And it will create a friction BTW them soon...

It's Indian TV...after all..

Faith in writers are the biggest joke ever..

I don't think they will ever sort out the issue.

Mukhi will soon closed the door of his heart...but then aru will all go u dont love me u dont trust me.

Honestly aru is already lost..

And I don't think the redemption will work either...

And with this dm chaos and Rami dirty plans...things gona be real dirty..

That's trp and TV for you..

It's called ...how to crush a once beautiful story and couple for trp sake...

Sigh there nothing much left I guess...now.

Its all...turning fake suddenly

As if watching some other saw.

Aru was always impulsive but not so stupid...

And a men can't handle an immature wife...no matter how much love sick he can be..

One point it need to be blast..

And the story is moving at that point only..


I would still say this is a far more realistic problem faced by couples. it may be a trp trick but compatibility issues happen, and it can be fixed if couples are willing. these natural personality clashes are bound to happen, eveything cannot be perfect and honestly, Aru and mukhi are very different from one another.

if Mukhi begins to suspect aru of having an affair, then that too is expected because he is insecure and never considered himself to be worthy of aru. sure rami will add fuel to the fire but even without it, mukhi's insecurity was bound to come up one way or another.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pom that's why I always love to read your post! You always goes inside and explains it ,loved it thanks!! But don't you know our Indian serials main female leads they always do everything every time by themselves??? And writers always forgets what they wrote about the character,so yes I really like Aru's character but can take it that in the village she is telling Mukhi what to do and how to do that bothers me to the end doesn't matter how smart or intelligent you are there is a process to go things in every where and yes she took Mukhi as a granted !!! very easy and childish way, let see what CVs has for us in future.

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