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ruchi3179 thumbnail
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Posted: 7 years ago
#11
I had already mentioned earlier that she has different set of rules for her family and friends and different for sameer.I have been bashed earlier for saying that so I don't comment much on this but naina is a biased person. It is also right that she doesn't consider sameer as her family as yet. And yes college track has taken there relationship backwards.there were more mature and had conversations earlier at school.At college everything is forced and no connect
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Posted: 7 years ago
#12
@dilse99

The last line of your comment holds and shows what's going wrong in the show. You put the entire reason for many loyal and long standing fan's disconnect in one line. 👏

There is hardly any moment now a days (since the Naina Bithday Outing by Sameer, one side Naina breakup, to election) where there is Naina caring, adoring and showering affection on Sameer.

It always Sameer running around, adjusting to Naina's every decision and doing everything for Naina and their relationship.

As for Naina, she is appearing completely passive to Sameer.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#13
I don't think the betrayed by sameer and swati should be treated same by naina and she shown care about their 13yrs friendship is also not wrong but to ditched own group and told them not to say anything to swati was wrong bcos somewhere she cheated with all.Munma words were harsh but true as well .
Naina always failed in balancing the relations and this she needs to learn soon.Sameer proved his love and support so strongly many times but its long time not got to see from her side.She seems more myself mode with sameer which is not good for their relation.

Hope now as elections are over ,we get to see some good scenes of samaina and care for sameer from naina side as well
Edited by soniadutta - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#14
According to me bet track and this track is completely different.
During Bet track naina went above and beyond for sameers love.

she gave more than 100% for sameer and in return she got dhoka..

That time also she was at fault that she did not trusted sameer in paper stealing incident..she chose her brother over sameer..

but then that time i understood the fact u cant give more importance to that person who just came in ur life over ur brother..

But in swatis case its different..

HEre naina was also at fault..sameer ke chakkar me naina dosti ko bhul gayi.,
pehele to usne bina swati ki marji jaane uska naam de diya elecetion ke liye qki uska mood nahi tha, lekin jab sab thik ho gaya wapas usne same galti repeat ki swati ki bina puche uska naam hata diya..
i agree ki gang ne force kiya but wo ek baar swati ko pucch hi sakti thi,,then wapas swati ne jab call kiya tabhi usne suna nahi, swati ke psoter nikal rahi thi tab bhi usko swati ka khayal nahi aaya ke swati wanted to talk something important,, and same she realised ke swati ne jo bhi kuch kiya uske liye kahi na kahi wo hi jimmedar hai..

Isliye she didnot got angry on swati..
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Posted: 7 years ago
#15
Dear all , thank you for your comments and loved the fact that I got to read varied thoughts on the same topic. I agree with people who said that we cant compare the two relationship - that of Sameer and Swathi. The reason I took this is because friendship is a common factor when it comes to Swathi Naina and Sameer - Naina.

I understand there will be pain, in fact much more than the one she had with Sameer. This is 13 14 yrs of pure friendship. If Swathi had walked off with out taking sides with Sunaina , I still would have agreed to the fact that she considered Naina close to her...but the thing is she chose Sunaina over her 13- 14yrs friendship. In real life if someone had done this , the person in Naina's place would be shattered to such an extant that she would never be able to accept another friend in her life. To top it all, reaction that Naina gave was so against her CORE CHARACTER of standing by the righteous side. She always thinks about others more than herself. In this case did she think about those people who voted for her?? Arent they important to her , dont they meaning anything . If she is the GS , its because of their trust in Naina. Wasn't that a factor that she should be angry on Swathi??

During the wedding track when , her brother hid the fact that his leg was fine...she did question Arjun. At least some confrontation should have been there between Swathi and Naina.

The only one thing that Naina did right was to let Swathi go and so that Swathi will be able to live by her rules..wastnt that the problem??,...Naina dominating her decisions. The reality is Swathi had allowed her to be dominated whenever she wanted to. During the play , she didn't let go her place in the drama ...as she knew she could pull it off well...this time Swathi didn't say anything because Swathi herself doubted if she would be able to be GS. Swathi is not a people's person and she knows it...only very few can...and that is why Naina was able to win the election...( does that make Naina a great/smart Administrator ...well we don't know...yet to see..)

I am not against any character , my frustration is about the logic behind an act or a scene. I felt yesterday Swathi's character was completely butchered to glorify Naina's character. That's like the same thumb rule that's used in most Sans Bahu serials. The lead lady having a shade of grey doesn't make the story look bad...When Naina had stood strong after the bet and Sameer's act during the break up could be logically justified ...but that's not the same with scenes post the break up ...after every fight or misunderstanding ...the dialogues seem so out of place...

Yesterday Munna s dialogues seem a lil dramatic...nothing close to natural...I would have preferred a more emotional and realistic one..I mean listening to him I felt I was hearing dialogues of stories from the past (something related to history Akbar / Saleem Arnakali...mythology ) etc... "Ellan kartha hun Seriously??. They have such lovely actors , and they should make use of it. ( I am not even getting into the romance part...honestly till I see the scene I will not comment on the precap.) . Munna is an emotional person , he lives with the heart on his sleeves , his anger is justified but could have given better dialogues.

Naina not feeling cheated is such surprising for me because in reality anyone would feel. Later on they get back or not isn't the question...the question here is of the reaction ...there was not a single expression which should showcase her pain of being cheated by her own best friend of 13- 14 yrs. Just imagine oneself in that place...is that the reaction you would give??

I think the saga is the same...after a year to pull on a serial with the same level of quality and logic is difficult I believe ...I love this show , so anytime when they go off track , then it hurts me...I think they could have done a better job of this track ...its always the ending which is rushed through I feel...I am hoping that they will bounce back today and I will be able to look at yesterday's episode as one of those days when things didn't go right.

PS : Sameer's character is so good, I mean imagine him supporting Naina even after knowing what Swathi has done to Naina...you will find very very less guys like him who go blindly by the lady...had it been any other guy in his place , even Naina would have heard a mouthful asking her to use her brain and open her eyes to see the reality...I actually had a smile on my face seeing the support that Sameer gave to Naina...in fact felt very nice...I hope they don't go away from this core character of his when their relationship gets revealed in front of his family.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#16
This by far was the worst episode.. cheesy dialogues, illogical plot..
Which elections have 2 ballot box... We have a single paper with list of all candidates and we stamp on the one we want to choose... Which election leave the ballot boxes in care of two students without any college authority in presence...


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Posted: 7 years ago
#17
Dosti and pyar do different things hain, she knows swati for 14 years. Mein chahti thi ki swati swati na kare but usko Pata Hain ki sunaina ne manipulate kiya hai puri tarah so she wants ki swati na fase And kaun Chahata uski Friend ki lovestory aise khatam ho. Kisi k uppar bet lagake Pyar ka izzar karwana And swati k jaisa betray karne mein Jameen asman ka difference hain. Bet lagake dusre ladko k samne kaisi k pyar ka mazak Udana hum swati k betrayel se compare nai karsakte. Mistake sab se hota hain, swati ne bhi kiya, dekhna yeh hain swati realize karti ya nai ki gang hi uski asli dost hain. Kal k episode mein sab sahi the, preeti as a sister she was right, munna as a bf he was right, sam as a friend and bf he was so supportive, Naina as a bff she was totally right but I don't want ki Samaina private time mein Naina swati ka chalter leke chale, since swati ne sunaina ko choose kiya toh aab Naina ko uske piche nai padhna chaiye, once she realize she will be back warna Naina hi buri dikhegi And swati ko sochne k liye time bhi chaiye ki kaun usko true friends hain coz uske samne naina ne uske liye lada, competition bhi harne k liye ready hogayi, sam usko mistake karne se Kitni bar Rokta Gaya coz he care for swati as friend, sirf naina k liye nai balki usko Pata Hain ki trust toota toh wapas apna kitna mushkil hain, so now swati ko sochna hain and decide karna hain and Rahi baat Sam ko maaf na karne ki toh koi ladki Bhi truth pata lagne k bad fatak se maaf nai karti And CVs yeh dikhana chahte the ki asani se mafgi nai milti, aur sab se badi cheez toh Sam pyar bhi bai karta tha(realize) toh kaise ek ladki maaf kare and Agar maaf karti toh Sam aur Naina I think sath bhi nai hote, Naina maaf karke sab se koi Rishta nai rakhti. Lastly yeh kisi ek character ko support karne k liye nai bolrahi hu so please don't take me wrong.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#18
We are all in the same boat
I was counting yesterday and analyzed that only the first six months of the show made sense, after that we have a few scenes here and there that retain the original flavor...
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Posted: 7 years ago
#19
@ WRTW

Naina not feeling cheated is such surprising for me because in reality anyone would feel. Later on they get back or not isn't the question...the question here is of the reaction ...there was not a single expression which should showcase her pain of being cheated by her own best friend of 13- 14 yrs. Just imagine oneself in that place...is that the reaction you would give??

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you hit the nail on the head with this observation. For me that is the crux of the confrontation.

Naina should have felt betrayed by Swa's not just entire behaviour - but her thoughts, all those harsh feelings that she has been harboring all these days!! It would have definitely shocked me - if it had come from a person whom I believed/held to be a true friend. Rather than showing N pleading with her abt friendship, would have liked writers to show Naina feeling sick, shocked abt the entire situation. N trying to hug her, talk abt being friends again, GS does not matter 😲- just sounded so out of place!!
and why did she want to call Swathi ?? whe Swa has made her choice wrt to friendship clear 🤔
Edited by umam - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#20
I agree with that. I'm not comparing love with friendship or anything. But swati is guilty and Naina forgiving her is also ok. But in seconds and trying to hide it. 😕 She even said this matter is between her and swati but it's not. swati betrayed the whole gang and I loved when all others joined munna. Swati is not remorseful or anything yet she was forgiven immediately. Rules should be same for all. I never felt that Naina purposefully sidelined Swati. Her only fault was that she didn't asked Swati's opinion. Swati in her jealousy fooled everyone who loved her. And Naina should start trusting and give importance to sameer as that of her family and best friend.

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