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Prerana167099

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
I am confused . Why was Naina so nice to Swathi??

When Naina came to know Sameer had placed a bet , she literally made him run around for a sorry. All he did was place that bet in fit of anger , never even tried to win it .He could have easily won it but he kept shying away from it because he thought it would hurt her. All through that track , he has always been nice to her and never actually tried to harm her or spoil her image. There was always regret , in fact he would have told her the truth too , if those boys hadnt told her.

On contrary , Swathi literally schemed and plotted against Naina by joining hands with her opponent so that she could see her friend loose . She not only cheated Naina but also all those people who voted for Naina and their entire gang. To top it all she has no regret of what she did. As a GS , doesn't she think her friend was wrong ???

Another instance is when they got caught by the Police after the birthday party she was blaming Sameer and now nothing ... Naina didn't seem to have any problem with what Swathi did . I am not able to understand why??

And where is the romance between Sameer and Naina?? School days had more Sameer and Naina moments with beautiful , heartfelt , powerful conversations. I am really disappointed that College track didn't even have such moments between them. My understanding is that its Sameer and Naina's story , sadly every other person/group is given importance than their romance and when ever that one min you give , you add a BGM ...I am actually fed up that there is no Sameer and Naina moments.

I don't know , if its just me who is feeling very frustrated after seeing the episode??

PS: I know this post might not be liked by all , but to be honest I am not able to understand why this difference in attitude. Is it because Sameer is not that important to Naina?? Looks like everyone else is imp for Naina than this poor guy. I don't have any logic to justify Naina's response to Swathi's behavior.

I would like to put up some things if it can explain friendship and love are two different things.

Point no 1 Why naina did not forgive Sameer when she came know about bet.

Sameer entered into friendship with a intention of winning a bet and yes he has been narrating many times kabh pichha jhutega has has kar muh dukh gaya and all that stuff. He tried to kiss on her hand can all this things be genuine Every time it was planniy and plotting to ensure that he wins the bet.In this process he got serious later. Tell me when Naina came to know about the bet for her all the moments were fake and yes half of their were really fake. So the bond came crushing down as it was based on fake moments created by Sameer. The relation ship has to be strong to withstand any storm. Whereas relation with Swati was a childhood one bond very deep as it was from childhood genuine years together she was a solace for Naina a very strong bond that can withstand a blow Now how can you compare a person who has done all good for you from number of years and made a mistake once with a person who entered in your life with a sole intention to hurt you.

Point 2 When Sameer and Nainas bond got strong then she could withstand manhoosiyat phase and Sunaina melodrama

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Sonam

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Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb
This by far was the worst episode.. cheesy dialogues, illogical plot..
Which elections have 2 ballot box... We have a single paper with list of all candidates and we stamp on the one we want to choose... Which election leave the ballot boxes in care of two students without any college authority in presence...

True, All looked like non sense for me.

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Trupti

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Posted: 7 years ago

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@Prerana

I would like to put up some things if it can explain friendship and love are two different things.

Point no 1 Why naina did not forgive Sameer when she came know about bet.

Sameer entered into friendship with a intention of winning a bet and yes he has been narrating many times kabh pichha jhutega has has kar muh dukh gaya and all that stuff. He tried to kiss on her hand can all this things be genuine Every time it was planniy and plotting to ensure that he wins the bet.In this process he got serious later. Tell me when Naina came to know about the bet for her all the moments were fake and yes half of their were really fake. So the bond came crushing down as it was based on fake moments created by Sameer. The relation ship has to be strong to withstand any storm. Whereas relation with Swati was a childhood one bond very deep as it was from childhood genuine years together she was a solace for Naina a very strong bond that can withstand a blow Now how can you compare a person who has done all good for you from number of years and made a mistake once with a person who entered in your life with a sole intention to hurt you.

Point 2 When Sameer and Nainas bond got strong then she could withstand manhoosiyat phase and Sunaina melodrama

Hi

I disagree with you here.

I know love and friendship is completely different but you can't categorise trust.

Trust is the crux of any relationship. Once it's broken it takes a lifetime to rebuild that again.

We already saw what Sameer went through for it. It was just few months relationship be it friendship or for him it was bet but still it took lots on his part to get Naina forgive him.

Here we are talking about 14 yrs of friendship means trust instilled in this relationship is much more bigger and stronger as compared to Sameer and Naina's earlier situation.

That means hurt will be more right?

That's the reason I am not able to understand her stand here. She is not hurt but blaming herself for Swati's betrayal. Why? As a friend she should be hurt,little angry on her for doing this. They used share everything before why not now? If you ask me all are at fault here for neglecting each other but betrayal is big NO for me. You can't go backstabbing your BFF just because she ignored you to talk with her BF.

Let's be real here we have seen Naina's stand when it comes to her family,friends and Sameer.

If I say more I will be bashed.

This is completely my POV no offence.

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ssree

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Posted: 7 years ago

#24

I agree fully with you.. wonder why the PH is not taking this into consideration.

sameer and naina are the leads there is no scenes of them at all , no proper communication ,really annoyed with the CVs ,

nainas suicide drama , then this swatis MU, Naina leaving sameer for family etc its totally disappointing ( cannot relate much to it )

even now cannot see the love in naina's eyes like how she used to have it before for sameer..

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
I am confused . Why was Naina so nice to Swathi??

When Naina came to know Sameer had placed a bet , she literally made him run around for a sorry. All he did was place that bet in fit of anger , never even tried to win it .He could have easily won it but he kept shying away from it because he thought it would hurt her. All through that track , he has always been nice to her and never actually tried to harm her or spoil her image. There was always regret , in fact he would have told her the truth too , if those boys hadnt told her.

On contrary , Swathi literally schemed and plotted against Naina by joining hands with her opponent so that she could see her friend loose . She not only cheated Naina but also all those people who voted for Naina and their entire gang. To top it all she has no regret of what she did. As a GS , doesn't she think her friend was wrong ???

Another instance is when they got caught by the Police after the birthday party she was blaming Sameer and now nothing ... Naina didn't seem to have any problem with what Swathi did . I am not able to understand why??

And where is the romance between Sameer and Naina?? School days had more Sameer and Naina moments with beautiful , heartfelt , powerful conversations. I am really disappointed that College track didn't even have such moments between them. My understanding is that its Sameer and Naina's story , sadly every other person/group is given importance than their romance and when ever that one min you give , you add a BGM ...I am actually fed up that there is no Sameer and Naina moments.

I don't know , if its just me who is feeling very frustrated after seeing the episode??

PS: I know this post might not be liked by all , but to be honest I am not able to understand why this difference in attitude. Is it because Sameer is not that important to Naina?? Looks like everyone else is imp for Naina than this poor guy. I don't have any logic to justify Naina's response to Swathi's behavior.

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shahz

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Just watched the episode.. .Still not at all impressed with Naina's reaction. It's not about Naina forgiving Swati or hiding her mistakes. I'm annoyed that she was gonna encourage Swatis wrong by not telling anyone and losing. She agreed to lose to save her friendship but not once thought of this fact that her so called best friend just committed a crime, what about those hundreds of students who chose you as their GS what about those friends who worked so hard and are praying for your win cuz they believe in you. How could she say this was between her and Swati and rest shouldn't get involved. This was about all of them... Swati betrayed them all so yes they have a right to be mad and question Swati loyalty.

Naina needs to stop with me me me not everything is about her and she can't demand all to follow what ever she wants.

I don't care if I get bashed for stating the fact... Just cuz I love a character doesn't mean I will always see good in what ever they do. She was right for what she did after the bet revelation Sameer needed to win back that love and trust but here she is wrong cuz Swati needs to 1st acknowledge she did wrong before anyone forgives her.

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Trupti

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Posted: 7 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: ssree
I agree fully with you.. wonder why the PH is not taking this into consideration.

sameer and naina are the leads there is no scenes of them at all , no proper communication ,really annoyed with the CVs ,
nainas suicide drama , then this swatis MU, Naina leaving sameer for family etc its totally disappointing ( cannot relate much to it )
even now cannot see the love in naina's eyes like how she used to have it before for sameer..

@ssree

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Bold- Exactly my thought. I miss that Naina who used to adore Sameer and she made us fall in love with it. Now she is completely lost. I hope she comes back. I see that kind of adoration in Sameer now.

I miss her pampering and running behind Sameer.

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Pillwa

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Posted: 6 years ago

#27

Very mucj agreed to ur post

Cv's making naina character in such a way that,we are not able to restrict us from disliking naina ! So many contradictions in her character, selfish ness,self obsessed ness which are so uncalled for.

And romance is now a days very much absent.if they shows 30 sec of naina sameer scene,20 sec they talks abt other!

No wonder why trp is 0.6 this time and that ekta kapor show got 0.7 inspite of that is new serial.

I am very dissapointed with our show.just hoping for its recovery

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WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 6 years ago

#28

Dear all ,
Thanks again for your valued comments. Before , I respond to the comments...I did like throw light on the concept of criticism. When a product is analysed we will get good reviews and bad reviews from the users. Good reviews as in reviews were in users have liked the product, and when majority reviews are good then we call that product as "Successful product...same goes with shows ...every episode is like product, and viewers are users...if majority of the viewers like an episode then its considered to be a successful attempt. Reviews cant always be good, even the best of best products might not be liked by some but that doesn't mean those people who gave bad reviews are instigating negativity...its just that they didn't like it...it's a very personal choice...

In this case we are NOT BASHING any one..we might not agree on every aspect of the show which is perfectly fine...so for me negative posts are those in which members bash people/characters on a personal level ...here we are just discussing what we thought we couldn't relate or didn't find logical...

Now coming to the show...the thing that struck me the most is her lack of reaction of being cheated by her best friend ...she has known Swathi from Childhood days...I am NOT EVEN BRINGING IN SAMEER OR ANYONE ELSE..I will agree to every other point told by you all but lack of pain...just think about it ...there was no shock on her face...there was no pain on her face ..

"PAIN OF LOOSING A FRIENDSHIP AFTER A FIGHT/MISUNDERSTANDING AND PAIN OF BEING CHEATED BY YOUR BEST FRIEND THAT TOO CHILDHOOD FRIEND ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. THE SECOND ONE DEALS WITH TRUST.

...here what I am talking is pain of being cheated by her best friend...the reaction has to start from there..because that's what will hit you first...only then we think of next stage as ...loosing friendship...it is this logic that I cant understand...

And again no dialogues from Naina...and Munna's dialogue were like from some other era...I have the same issue with post Sameer Naina break up...it was like nothing happened between them...they didn't show much of regret from Naina nor did they show anger from Sameer...

They are showing Sameer as a super understanding ,ever so loving guy...I am happy about it...if this can set examples for people, it would be really great...but having said this I also hope that later they don't destroy this character to make some other character Mahan.

They need to maintain the core characteristic of the characters they have written...I think that's where the disconnect is...

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p@ras

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Posted: 6 years ago

#29

I completely agree with you. And blame rest fully with the Writers. The focus has shifted away from The love story...when that happens the plot is lost. The audience can feel the disconnect .

The script has gone for a toss . The characters are behaving unrelatable ..the worst hit character is Naina...be it after the break up or now after Swathis revelation. Until election atleast Samaina scenes had intensity now even that is lost. Actually we are not even getting any meaning dialogues like earlier.

They need to bring back the show on track otherwise this show will lose the charm...or should I say it already has!

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ssree

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Posted: 6 years ago

#30

justify Naina's response to Swathi's behavior.

@ssree

Hi

Bold- Exactly my thought. I miss that Naina who used to adore Sameer and she made us fall in love with it. Now she is completely lost. I hope she comes back. I see that kind of adoration in Sameer now.

I miss her pampering and running behind Sameer.

yes.. really miss the adoration and pampering naina had for sameer and these were the things we really fell in love with. ( in sameer and nana)

now its just a one sided love from Sameer . feel like naina changes her direction of love and care depending on the circumstances..

would really love to see Sameer getting his share of love form Naina

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