AT PEACE or is it ACCEPTENCE OF FATE ?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Ross-

Brilliant write up WRTW.

But your last lines, phir se Sameer?

How many agni parikshas this boy has to give? She broke up with him, she btrayed him, she gave him that pain for almost an year, still now he has to collect himself to give her support!

Redemption of FL is rarest of rare things in Indian soap opera and I think that will be repeated here too.🤔

Well he is the MAN in her life. She was his strength during his lows too hence survived the Delhi ordeal.

Another point is life between a couple is not like a score card of a game. You don't see how many times the Man should stand up or how many times a woman should stand up...you don't count such acts of helping each other because if we do that then ITS NOT LOVE ITS BARTER SYSTEM!!

There are so many cases when one of the partner has to take care of the other for life because of some issues...but still they do that with out even thinking if they are benifiting out of it.

When you love someone deeply we are willing to do anything for them to be happy and safe. At that point we don't see if they would reciprocate with the same feeling when we are in need...or if the decision that we take is right for them. At that moment what matters is the need to make your loved one happy and safe.

Hence my statement of Sameer helping her. In fact he is the only one who can help her back...because no one understands her like the way he does...and same goes with her. They know each others strength and weakness. The best part of their relationship is the fact that they have accepted each others weakness. They are now learning to live with it...marriage is not about love alone , it is also about how much you can tolerate each others nonsense !! 😉

So want to see them get married then we need to accept this stage of their relationship too ... 😆

Such a wonderful post!!!

I always thought that this issue will come into their relationship n I always felt k naina will bring this...bcz Sam getting this is not possible!! Yesterday that did happen ...though Sam dint mean anything like that...bt she yet saw the next hurdle if they had a relationship!!

The last line. .she will not b able to see changes in Sam...took away even my heart!!! The girl is fighting many things at a time...n plus she is forced not to even show it.. n the one who can get her at peace is not understanding her...these things hv forced her to accept her fate!!!

She needs something in life n that is what this friendship will gv her!!! Many times a lover can not do such wonders which a friend can do...a friend who understands u better than anyone!!!

Wonderful post...a complete diff view...n rather say more clear view!!!

Beautiful post Ashu...i literally felt numb at tat dialogue n the song tat played on "Jab hum Jawan honge..janey kaha hongey"..N if tat was not enough...her voicing that after 30 40 yrs ,when they wud reminsce their first love memories fondly...it jus broke my heart! I really cant see them parted like this ...How difficult it is to state that n move on accepting ur fate, making peace with urself wen in reality is that ur dying a thoysand deaths inside...The regret , the guilt will always be with u no matter what.!...i shuddered Naina holding the last straws of whatever that is left with Sameer...be it the frendship...she still want to cherish the last moments with him n that haunted me cos after tis their paths are forever going to be separated...It was really painful to watch!

Wow such a beautiful analysis..I agree to this 100% and this has to be handled in the show..she always tried to hide her insecurities behind her bold and intelligent self but they were always there and now they will surface.
I had a relationship which did not had a happy ending and even after being a girl I was the Sameer of that relationship and it went through all - friends, confession, break up, friends again, marriage proposal and final break up..the guy gave in to family pressure and I was left to deal with it..my views are normally biased towards Naina because I like to believe that I understand what she is going through..never easy for any Sameer but they survive believe me they do!

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Well he is the MAN in her life. She was his strength during his lows too hence survived the Delhi ordeal.

Another point is life between a couple is not like a score card of a game. You don't see how many times the Man should stand up or how many times a woman should stand up...you don't count such acts of helping each other because if we do that then ITS NOT LOVE ITS BARTER SYSTEM!!

There are so many cases when one of the partner has to take care of the other for life because of some issues...but still they do that with out even thinking if they are benifiting out of it.

When you love someone deeply we are willing to do anything for them to be happy and safe. At that point we don't see if they would reciprocate with the same feeling when we are in need...or if the decision that we take is right for them. At that moment what matters is the need to make your loved one happy and safe.

Hence my statement of Sameer helping her. In fact he is the only one who can help her back...because no one understands her like the way he does...and same goes with her. They know each others strength and weakness. The best part of their relationship is the fact that they have accepted each others weakness. They are now learning to live with it...marriage is not about love alone , it is also about how much you can tolerate each others nonsense !! 😉

So want to see them get married then we need to accept this stage of their relationship too ... 😆

Wonderful analysis and very apt. My heart cried seeing the helplessness on Naina's face. Its like she has accepted her fate. All willingness to fight is lost and hence she atleast wants to cherish those happy memories. At the same time the longing in Sameer's eyes when she turns her back cannot be missed. The people who have put them through this ( taiji , tauji, rakesh)need a huge shocking bolt in their lives. Cannot see Samaina going through so much pain😭

Originally posted by: -Ross-

Hey thanks WRTW for clarification, guess what? it works.😉

I know from where you are coming but while introducing that judai track many times they gave ref to Mt. abu parallels so like redemption of Sameer earlier I was hoping for Naina's redemption this time.

Another thing I wanted was SJM, looks like they are going for SJM this time, that is also welcome.😉

Naina's redemption will happen only if she learns to appreciate herself. Now she is at a very low end , she needs someone to pull her out of self pity and inferiority complex. This thing about social status and her being unlucky and ugly is always been there at the back of her mind..even chacha ji s love or Sameer's love hasn't solved this issue. Her insecurity when she sees some other girl talking to Sameer is because of this , else a girl who is confident of herself and trust her boy friend...she will be least bothered if she sees another girl talking to her guy.

So here this track might help to solve her insecurity and give her confidence abt her appearance

Originally posted by: shravyarao

This made me so emotional, such a beautiful way u have with words. The way u depicted what naina felt, i have no words.. We all think only sameer's character was written complex. But in a way naina's character is complex as well, you need depth to understand the character, it's so easy to see the outside and blame the character for what she is doing but understanding it and depicting her actions is not everyone's cup of tea. CV's gave such a beutiful and complex characters in the show man. All the people feel so real, the flaws in each of them, the way they react without thinking the consequences its all us.

We people have flaws, we make mistakes, we learn from them. That is what naina's character shows us, undoubtedly she is a strong FL but she is a human too and she has fallen weak and lost her faith n will to fight for herself. She made mistakes but this is where sameer will become her strength and guide her to the right path. You ask why sameer has to do all this? That is because thats what a partner does.. when one falls weak the other stands strong, that is what a relation is all about. This is the foundation and base which is getting stronger with all that they are facing. When one falls weak the other stands like a pillar of strength, thats what sameer is going to do now, he will be the one leading and taking control and will show her how to fight and stand for what she believes, fight for what she wants.

Like this, they will become the best version of themselves and will know that, together they are stronger and are eachothers strength. If we view this in respective with an individual characters side we won't understand the others pain. If we see them both together, it's easy to understand the pain each of them is going through.

Just my view.

Yesterdays scenes were so emotional , everything ...I mean Tauji saying that now Naina is in laws responsibility and it was like they were trying to dump her on to someone else head..being a woman I felt miserable seeing that scene and then in that canteen seeing her expression at Sameer's word...I had tears running down my cheeks . I felt so bad for her and yesterday I realized why she had decided to end their relationship. She had no one to support her and the ones who would stand by her were of her age...no one will even bother to listen them...she is in a mind frame that no one thinks she worthy to be called as theirs...no one wants to have her as their own...its a very bad feeling not to be loved by anyone...and her dad, tayi ji and tauji 's voices are so strong that she tends to believe them . If someone can set her right then it can ONLY be Sameer's love. But how I have no clue..

Originally posted by: Niakhush

Such a wonderful post!!!

I always thought that this issue will come into their relationship n I always felt k naina will bring this...bcz Sam getting this is not possible!! Yesterday that did happen ...though Sam dint mean anything like that...bt she yet saw the next hurdle if they had a relationship!!

The last line. .she will not b able to see changes in Sam...took away even my heart!!! The girl is fighting many things at a time...n plus she is forced not to even show it.. n the one who can get her at peace is not understanding her...these things hv forced her to accept her fate!!!

She needs something in life n that is what this friendship will gv her!!! Many times a lover can not do such wonders which a friend can do...a friend who understands u better than anyone!!!

Wonderful post...a complete diff view...n rather say more clear view!!!

From her younger age she has been brought up saying she is not beautiful and that she is not lucky for others. To top it all her tayi ji keeps reminding her that her father is poor and a good for nothing. So basically she is made to feel that she is being brought up at the mercy of them and her chacha chachi.

But when Sameer befriended her this disparity didn't come into picture , he accepted her as who she is . In fact its her character that he liked the most. That is Sameer, he doesn't show his high profile social status to Munna and Pandit too.

I guess as you rightly said , as a friend he might be able to pull her out of the inferiority complex that she has been fighting since her childhood.