Dilemma for Naina: Pyaar ya Parivaar - Page 2

Originally posted by: koyelbasu

Naina is not weak but family is her one weakness . It is so unfair when a girl is told to choose between Family and Love. Whatever choice she made she deprives the other. In both cases she looses something which is most dear to her. She is always guilty of breaking one's heart and trust. Now, coming to Naina, so much she faced in one day, she is totally broken from inside. The confident girl died in her rather how much time she must have died inside before breaking Sam's heart. The person always in much more pain who decides to part ways. Her pain and guilt will kill her from inside. But when a girl witness her father's attempt to suicide, it becomes a trauma. Trauma is not a word it is a mental condition which needs to be cured. Otherwise, it keeps on haunting you. Naina is going through that and only a bigger shock than this can bring her back. May be, Sam's decision to leave everything behind and taking sanyas will give that jolt to her and she will bounce back to life, to became the old Naina who is ready to go any extent for her love.

One request, please don't bash Naina during this separation track she is not weak, she becomes the pray of the situation. Trust me, as usual she will come out of this painful time more stronger. She always did that.

shefali supporting feminazibrigade are basically indirectly saying naina has arjun's traits .

Originally posted by: soniadutta

I totally understand her position ,it's really difficult for girl to choose one

Same happened mine own brother and babhi few years back ,but they fought for their love and then finally got married with parents support as initially may they create problem ,but sure understood their kids feelings as well .

As u said ,I too want naina to tell the actual reason for breaking up with Sameer ,he sure understand her condition as well and will first be made independent and then convinced her family too .

She also won't be happy if get married to other person in future ,this way she will destroyed both of their lives .

And I want Sameer also not to give up so easily ,he needs to make her understand that they are actually incomplete without each other's and has to fight for their love together

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

She will think its easy to let go off Sameer and chose her family ...but soon she will realize ...its impossible...if she does then she will be just living like a machine.

Originally posted by: koyelbasu

Naina is not weak but family is her one weakness . It is so unfair when a girl is told to choose between Family and Love. Whatever choice she made she deprives the other. In both cases she looses something which is most dear to her. She is always guilty of breaking one's heart and trust. Now, coming to Naina, so much she faced in one day, she is totally broken from inside. The confident girl died in her rather how much time she must have died inside before breaking Sam's heart. The person always in much more pain who decides to part ways. Her pain and guilt will kill her from inside. But when a girl witness her father's attempt to suicide, it becomes a trauma. Trauma is not a word it is a mental condition which needs to be cured. Otherwise, it keeps on haunting you. Naina is going through that and only a bigger shock than this can bring her back. May be, Sam's decision to leave everything behind and taking sanyas will give that jolt to her and she will bounce back to life, to became the old Naina who is ready to go any extent for her love.

One request, please don't bash Naina during this separation track she is not weak, she becomes the pray of the situation. Trust me, as usual she will come out of this painful time more stronger. She always did that.

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

I agree to your first part of your comment😊

Regarding the second part... this question has come up bcoz she belongs to a conservative family and this she has seen in the recent drama. Now when she has seen her family's response to such a revelation... can she decide to let go Sameer whom she loves deeply... that's the dilemma😳

To know , if she will be able to live with out Sameer...she needs to let him go... 😉 and this time he decided to renunciate...which means getting back to a family life will be difficult...

Last time it was he who went away from her for her as he feared he is not lucky for her...and when he saw she was sad with out him...he couldn't bear it anymore and he decided to return to her to bring that smile...but now...She herself has said that they need to get away from each other...so for him there is nothing to look forward too...and decides to give away all worldly pleasures...and here comes the twist... 😉 😆 Let us see how they reunite...

Originally posted by: Samaina12

If we see the situation, she would still continue being with sameer if she promises chachaji.

The spoilsport here is the friend inside naina that went to console shefali and she came under her influence. Shefali's advice is stupid given that naina is not even 0.0001% like arjun and rakesh.

for naina her family is chacha chachi and preeti and not arjunor her father. She never thinks about those two.

Shefali should have just told her not to back off not tell her to break up. Naina is talking to shefali who was kind of cheated by her brother and she has sympathy. And in such a condition she would obviously come under pressure,self doubt and break.up with sameer.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

To know , if she will be able to live with out Sameer...she needs to let him go... 😉 and this time he decided to renunciate...which means getting back to a family life will be difficult...

Last time it was he who went away from her for her as he feared he is not lucky for her...and when he saw she was sad with out him...he couldn't bear it anymore and he decided to return to her to bring that smile...but now...She herself has said that they need to get away from each other...so for him there is nothing to look forward too...and decides to give away all worldly pleasures...and here comes the twist... 😉 😆 Let us see how they reunite...

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

yeah that would be interesting to see😃

But I think first he would try to find out the reason for this step and none other than Preeti would tell him everything...last time it was Naina running behind him ...this time its the other way round😉

I feel this time it will be Naina who will be running behind him...remember Pooja wedding track...how Sameer was behind Naina...

When he decided not to meet Naina , there was love behind it , it was to keep her safe and hence there is no need for a sorry to be told...

But now that s not the case , she chooses her family and not him...that also means she doesn't trust him ... 😆 its complicated ...so if they have to get back...a sorry from her is needed ...don't you think so...its like ditching him...whatever the reason may be...anyways lets see what CVs have planned..for us.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I feel this time it will be Naina who will be running behind him...remember Pooja wedding track...how Sameer was behind Naina...

When he decided not to meet Naina , there was love behind it , it was to keep her safe and hence there is no need for a sorry to be told...

But now that s not the case , she chooses her family and not him...that also means she doesn't trust him ... 😆 its complicated ...so if they have to get back...a sorry from her is needed ...don't you think so...its like ditching him...whatever the reason may be...anyways lets see what CVs have planned..for us.

She is in dilemma right now. Both family and sameer are very important to her. She cant live without either of them. I believe love can conquer anything. It is as much as difficult for her as that for sameer. I think rest of the gang will play a crucial role here. They are meant to be together. Lets see how is the track is going to unfold.