Dilemma for Naina: Pyaar ya Parivaar

As we saw in the precap Shefali asks her to leave Sameer if she thinks she wont be able to take a stand for her love against her family.

This is like asking which side of the body you would chose - the right or the left..?? 😉 You cant chose one from the two...because they are dependent on each other for existence ...they are incomplete with out each other...similarly cant chose between pyar and privaar...parivaar se pyar badtha hain or pyar se parivar miltha hain...

When she and Sameer confessed their love for each other , they became part of each others family!! This is the simple logic that people should understand . But if you are from a conservative family and you don't have the courage to stand up for your needs and for your love , then better to allow your parents to choose a life partner for you.

I think Naina will come on verge of sagai/ marriage now, and Taiji and Rakesh will definately bring alliance for her,

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

This is like asking which side of the body you would chose - the right or the left..?? 😉 You cant chose one from the two...because they are dependent on each other for existence ...they are incomplete with out each other...similarly cant chose between pyar and privaar...parivaar se pyar badtha hain or pyar se parivar miltha hain...

When she and Sameer confessed their love for each other , they became part of each others family!! This is the simple logic that people should understand . But if you are from a conservative family and you don't have the courage to stand up for your needs and for your love , then better to allow your parents to choose a life partner for you.

Originally posted by: toshibelekar

I think Naina will come on verge of sagai/ marriage now, and Taiji and Rakesh will definately bring alliance for her,

may be Sam goes missing this will make her go to Sam that would be interesting to watch.

I totally understand her position ,it's really difficult for girl to choose one

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

But why are we thinking about sagai and marriage so soon.. . That would happen only in case their love story is revealed to her family 😳

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

I agree to your first part of your comment😊

Regarding the second part... this question has come up bcoz she belongs to a conservative family and this she has seen in the recent drama. Now when she has seen her family's response to such a revelation... can she decide to let go Sameer whom she loves deeply... that's the dilemma😳

She will think its easy to let go off Sameer and chose her family ...but soon she will realize ...its impossible...if she does then she will be just living like a machine.

Naina is not weak but family is her one weakness . It is so unfair when a girl is told to choose between Family and Love. Whatever choice she made she deprives the other. In both cases she looses something which is most dear to her. She is always guilty of breaking one's heart and trust. Now, coming to Naina, so much she faced in one day, she is totally broken from inside. The confident girl died in her rather how much time she must have died inside before breaking Sam's heart. The person always in much more pain who decides to part ways. Her pain and guilt will kill her from inside. But when a girl witness her father's attempt to suicide, it becomes a trauma. Trauma is not a word it is a mental condition which needs to be cured. Otherwise, it keeps on haunting you. Naina is going through that and only a bigger shock than this can bring her back. May be, Sam's decision to leave everything behind and taking sanyas will give that jolt to her and she will bounce back to life, to became the old Naina who is ready to go any extent for her love.

If we see the situation, she would still continue being with sameer if she promises chachaji.